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Old 02-16-2011, 07:54 PM
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Not that it matters because love is love no matter where you find it or who you find it with.

I am happily in an interracial relationship.

Has it made things harder for you? How has it effected your relationship or has it? Are your families supportive?

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I'm in an interracial marriage. Sometimes, it seems like people are "judging" us for being married to someone outside of our own race. From what I have seen thus far, our families are ok with it though.
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I'm kinda in one. His mom is white his dad is black and Filipino. My mom is black and my dad is chinese and black. So we is all mixed up. But I love him I wouldn't have it any other way!
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Nah... we are a whole bunch of white.
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Nah... we are a whole bunch of white.
And the cutest couple I'll bet!
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Well me n my hubby r both multi-racial so no matter who we woulda married it woulda been an inter-racial relationship. I'm half Apache Indian n part Mexican n White. He's black n white. The only one who had a problem with it at first was my dad who had labeled me a "N-Lover" since I first started liking boys. But he got over that quick when I married my hubby n he really didn't have much of a choice. He always wanted me 2 end up with a Mexican but when I was growin up Mexicans didn't like me. Maybe cuz I had a Mexican name but "talked black" & didn't speak any spanish. I've never been one 2try n change 2 please anyone. What 4? I'm pretty damn awesome just the way I am!
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We are complete opposite when it comes to appearance. I am a 5' 3" full figured woman and he is a 6' 4" well built, imagine that, half puerto rican and half black man.
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I wish there was a "sort of" button lol. I'm mixed with all kinds of things and he's black so kinda yea LOL!
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I'm white and my fiance is black..I have 2 biracial teenagers wit my exhusband who's also black. My family is use to it by now, Been into black men for 18 years now and that's never gonna change.
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Im white my fiance is black and we have 4 biracial children and one black child between the two of us. Love is blind!!!!
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It's kind of funny that you say its not important at all but you are asking with a poll. Anyway, nope, we are both white.
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Hmmmm well...kinda...
He's Guatemalan
I'm Mexican/White
So...were both hispanic...but I'm half white...so...
Would you call that interracial?? LOL
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It's kind of funny that you say its not important at all but you are asking with a poll. Anyway, nope, we are both white.
I don't think a poll makes the question a big deal. I think it's just out of curiosity just like most other questions that r asked with a poll. I personally think it's interesting 2 come on these threads n see all the different points of view. It's interesting 2 see how we r all so different but we share a lot in common because of our love 4 someone on the inside.
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I don't think a poll makes the question a big deal. I think it's just out of curiosity just like most other questions that r asked with a poll. I personally think it's interesting 2 come on these threads n see all the different points of view. It's interesting 2 see how we r all so different but we share a lot in common because of our love 4 someone on the inside.
Me too. No offense was intended at all.
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Yes, I am black and he is white. I haven't heard anything negative from family or friends. My family has accepted the fact that date outside my race a long time ago and they accepted him from day one and I am cool with his family. Even if people weren't supportive I wouldn't care, I love who I love and it shouldn't matter to anyone else.
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It's kind of funny that you say its not important at all but you are asking with a poll. Anyway, nope, we are both white.
It's just a question please don't see it as more than it is. I'm sorry if I offended anyone. Of course that is not what I intended.
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Hmmmm well...kinda...
He's Guatemalan
I'm Mexican/White
So...were both hispanic...but I'm half white...so...
Would you call that interracial?? LOL
Yes I think that counts as interracial. I think this thread has taught me a lot. Mainly, that there is a wide spectrum of interracial and it isn't just one race with another race.

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yes, I am white, he is black. We are on our second go round, having been together about a year now, but we were together 30 years ago. When we were first together, a lot of whites gave us the funny looks and comments, now it's the other way around. We get a lot of "angry black woman" stares and comments when we visit. Doesn't bother us at all though, we have come too far and been at this too long to let anyone else influence us.
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It's kind of funny that you say its not important at all but you are asking with a poll. Anyway, nope, we are both white.

I think it is just curiosity
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I'm white... bout as white as they come (he is always teasing me saying you sound so country and I laugh and say cuz i am) lol and he is black. I am well into my adult years and have never dated anyone outside my race. Not that I ever had a problem with it, just something I had never done. I have many friends who are or have been in interracial relationships and I never once thought anything about it. Yes it in a way does and has made our relationship harder. In the beginning it was me who was like oh how is my family going to react to this and saw us as black/white, after a while I let go of the whole black/white thing but others don't. We have had a problem with one CO in particular while gone to visit which makes it harder. My family well they don't know, not because I don't want to tell them I am involved with a black man, but because we are MWI and I am not prepared for all the drama that follows when I do tell them.
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i am happily in an interracial relationship. <3
my husband is hispanic && i'm black/hispanic.
or as he says "blaxican" lol
our families are real kool about the situation.
although we have gotten comments from ppl who
don't know us. of course they don't matter tho.
love is all that matters.
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I was married to a black man for 14 years and we married in the early 70's when it wasn't excepted very well and we live in a very conservative state. We took punches from both blacks and whites and they made it very hard on us. We had our group of friends who didn't care what our skin colors were and so we just stayed in our group. Today I think it is easier for 2 people who marry and aren't of the same race and I have many friends of different nationalities and colors. One of the most common question I was asked when I married my husband was "why did you marry out of your race?" My answer everytime was "I didn't, I married another human being." That would shut them up for a few minutes. Because of where we lived we spent most of our 14 years together jusifying that we loved each other and had a right to be together.
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No im currently not in an interracial relationship but my ex Fiance was Puerto rican things were cool I loved him to death and everyone in his family loved me especially his mom (may she rest in peace) but his grandma had a serious problem with us she spoke english but whenever I was around she only spoke spanish so she could talk about me... she got really sick and called the house bcuz she had fallin and couldnt get up my ex wasnt there so I did what anyone would do I grabbed the spare key to her place and went to go help her you would have thought I was standing over her with a chainsaw ready to cut her up the way she was acting I struggled but finally helped her get to her bed and told her I was gonna call my ex and have him check up on her she mumbled something in spanish and I understood why a black girl but not the rest as pissed as I was I just walked out.... you cant please everyone and as long as me and my ex loved each other I wasnt gonna let his grandma get in the way
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I don't think a poll makes the question a big deal. I think it's just out of curiosity just like most other questions that r asked with a poll. I personally think it's interesting 2 come on these threads n see all the different points of view. It's interesting 2 see how we r all so different but we share a lot in common because of our love 4 someone on the inside.
I so agree. Everyone being different but alike in the sense that our loved one is on the inside is interesting. It helps bring alot of people who are different in their own way emotionally close in a way you wouldn't imagine. Personally i look at my fiancée as the man that i love but yes he is black and i am white. We have a beautiful 3 year old daughter together and i love them both more than life itself. He is my best friend and soul mate and no other could ever take his place. Both of our families are supper supportive my parents love him and support him just as much as his mother and i do. And his family loves me. Although as some others have said, out in the publics eye we do get some of the piercing stares and the whispering and commenting but we just laugh, kiss each other and keep walking.
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It's just a question please don't see it as more than it is. I'm sorry if I offended anyone. Of course that is not what I intended.
I just thought it was kind of funny how you worded it, really that was it. No offense taken or meant on my part. It's an interesting thread, that's why I answered it.
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