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Old 11-05-2007, 11:35 AM
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I love and want only one man, my hubby. It's hard not having him here but that doesn't make me want anyone else. It's all or nothing with us, if I can't have him then I want nothing and no one. It probably sounds pretty corny but he's all that my heart, body and soul desires.
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Old 11-08-2007, 01:12 AM
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Old 11-13-2007, 03:03 PM
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C and I are NOT married, we are a mwi. I told him that I cant and wont "wait for him sexually" We came to a agreement that I do it when I "have to". My heart is with him. He has a long time to go and im not waiting x amount of years to have sex. Sorry. I know a lot of women on here do it, but I wont make myself suffer. Also, a lot of people on here are married. If I was married, that was be a whole new story.
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Old 11-13-2007, 03:11 PM
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No way-my committment is to him. Hey, he's not having sex, so why should I? We're doing this together.
I'm with you on that one!! we are doing this time togather!!
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Old 04-09-2008, 11:36 PM
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Haaaaaaaaaa! HEll Naw...PaPa ends every single letter with KEEP YA HEAD UP, LEGS CLOSED AND MRS KITTY on LOCK(that I only have to the key to)

Has he been talkin to my man????
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Old 04-09-2008, 11:58 PM
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that's awesome.... of course we both said.. hell no!! even before he violated we had that conversation... though he doesn't know how i'll go without.... doesn't he realize i was married before??... I KNOW how to go without....

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Old 04-10-2008, 12:33 AM
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The answer is no for me on this one as well...never even crossed my mind
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Old 04-10-2008, 12:41 AM
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I can wait and I don't need a sex buddy.
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Old 04-10-2008, 01:19 AM
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No way would this cross my mind to hurt him. He loves me and I know this from the depth of my soul. I love him he means the world to me. But I'll say not to long ago a so called "friend" of his came by our home, and said to me, "you know when I was locked up I told my girfriend handle whatever you need to do but don't start a relationship". I looked at him and said I'm sorry you need to leave now. Besides I knew what he was referring to. He had said that he used to tease my fiance and tell him to be careful that one day he was going to get with me. I said I'm sorry but I don't want to be touched by anyone other than my MAN...So he left and I have not seen him any more....
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Old 04-10-2008, 06:45 AM
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Not having any problem not cheating of course we are only looking a maybe a couple of years by the time we are through...life no I couldn't do it....BUt no matter how many times i'm hit on i just don't have the desire
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Old 04-10-2008, 07:12 AM
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we've never even talked about a sex buddy because he knows I'm going to wait for him. other guys just aren't my ryan and probably couldn't be if they tried.
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Old 04-10-2008, 09:30 AM
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well... lets just say the cobbwebs are growin! haha im staying faithfull to my man, in the begining he said it was fine but i choose not to, but were engaged now so i find it hard to think he would want his future wife to be getting it elsewhere! ah... soon we will be having our family visits and there wont even be a need to think of doing anything else!
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Old 04-10-2008, 09:37 AM
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Nope I am waiting for him, and he is definitly worth the wait haha
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Honestly, I've had a sex buddy. He started to catch feelings and that became a problem. Biggest mistake I ever made. I hate myself for that and will never do it again. So No to sex buddy.
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Old 04-10-2008, 01:12 PM
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The month he left it was extremely hard to go without the sex. We did it A LOT! I found myself at a party and I spent the night with a really cute guy I even considered sleeping with. We did stuff, but we didn't have sex. We both stopped it. I don't party anymore. I haven't since. Honestly, I didn't know what to do, I was so confused and I didn't know if it was really worth it to be faithful (if the grass was greener on the other side). That was the biggest mistake I have ever made in my life because I know if I cheat it will be over. I haven't told him and I can't say I won't ever tell him, but I won't while he is incarcerated. I think eventually I will tell him because it is eatin me up!

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I will never have a sex buddy. It is not worth losing the love of my life over it. We also have a baby together. I couldn't have someone else helping me raise our baby girl. Ever since I saw all these women with lifers and death row..ers and they can be faithful, I said no freakin way could I risk it! He only has about a year and a half (9 to 13 months left!) to serve so I think I can manage!
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Old 04-10-2008, 03:46 PM
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Hell no...I will not sacrifice a quick nut over true love. I love him to death so that gives me the strength to keep my legs closed. If I ever feel like I need something, I have a bag full of goodies and we will do our thing over the phone. We satisfy each other even though we are 400 miles away. I don't put myself in any position and plus I am not a weak minded person (i used to be but learned my lesson quick) Me and my guy use to have sex all day every day before he was locked up and this is the longest I ever gone without any but I am motivated by the fact that when he does come home, he is gonna rock my world and we are going to have a loving, long lasting, disease free, and free of drama relationship!
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Old 04-10-2008, 06:30 PM
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its not hard for me to stay faithfulto my hubby. we would never agree to that anywa. i would never want it either. he is well worht the wait ....even if he was never coming home. i am 35 and know hat i want and its only him
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Old 04-10-2008, 10:08 PM
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lol hell no i wouldnt even though he says i have needs i am just with him. He is my one true love and only love
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Old 04-10-2008, 11:40 PM
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I only want him so waiting is not hard at all!

Why risk so much for a one min nut!

When I can wait my time and get more then stress and a mess!!!
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Old 04-10-2008, 11:50 PM
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NO WAY!! I love my husband soo much. I went through TEN years of he$$ with this man and there is no way I would ever put that in jeopardy!! Plus, there is NO WAY another man will ever see me NAKED!! My hubby is the only man to see me naked!! Heck, I don't even like to see me naked. LOL so there is NO WAY another man is going to be seeing me naked.. LOL I love my man WAY too much to even consider it!! There are plenty of "alternatives" to having your man there. And the letters my hubby writes I don't need anything more!!
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Old 04-11-2008, 12:52 AM
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NOPE, he would never agree to it, but I dont think it really makes any difference, since I JUST CANT feel any sexual connection with any other guy but him.... isnt that weird????
I tried one night to just hand out with someone, and I just couldnt stand the guy!!!! wtf?
I guess it is better that way... I dont mind, keeping my $h!t thight for him *thats how he likes to say it* lol
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My answer is NO. I'm waiting for my big bald beautiful man! Ha ha We've actually never even kissed so sex with him is worth the wait!
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Old 04-11-2008, 12:35 PM
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The last time my baby was in i didn't have any relations, he only had to do 2 years ... that's nothing! But this time in went in on a pv and had to do 2 years before his 10-20 started and we were seperated. Yes we're togther now, and yes I do what I do. But that in no way take away from the Love that I have for him. I don't feel guilty, I feel more so sad because it's not him. I get frustrated when I don't get to release myself...lol... I get so mean and straight up . So to save the world we're kinda on a don't ask don't tell.
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Old 04-19-2008, 07:05 AM
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Yup! I have a sex buddy. It's a woman...(i was bi before he went in so it's not cuz he went to prison...LOL) She knows my situation and she's understanding. Shes bi also. She's so cool that when he was in county she'd come to my visits with him so we could give him a "show" or she'd be over my place when he called and she would oblige me in "satisfying" him with a phone "show". She knows I'm getting married and she is actually going to be our witness. He appreciates her being there for me. And she knows that my heart belongs to him and only him. It's a good arrangement.
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Old 04-19-2008, 07:48 AM
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no no no ..
if i do "anything" its OVER. pfft.
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