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Old 11-12-2019, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Taliba00 View Post
That's a great observation. It is true even of other family visitors (who are not mwi). They have a certain visiting persona, always a very cleaned up version of themselves. In time, the prisoner forgets what it was like to interact with them in a natural setting, and a highly unrealistic view develops of who they are.
This is true. Let's be honest, we're all a bit crazy in deciding to wait for our partners that sit in prison. While we love who we love, and nothing will change that, I hope no one sits around and go "Yeah, this is normal. Everything's fine" It's not, and we all know it deep down. There's way more to these failure stories that are never told. It's ultra rare for someone to admit their own faults or how they contributed to a breakup. Being a control freak, and demanding an ex-prisoner what to do, where to go, and how to do it, is going to be the fastest way to get them to leave you. You leave one warden, for another. Of course they are running away from you. Being with someone is supposed to be fun. I just don't want people to mind F themselves and ruin something they know is good when they read these. However, choosing to ignore every warning sign, or red flag, accepting being treated like shit, or whatever cliche you want, is your own fault.
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