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Old 05-07-2018, 03:09 PM
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hi again yerh so do i .i hope its not a con.i have tried so hard and ive looked at topix and everywere. but i think its too good to be true.im just taking one day at a time.because if im to end it i would never no.so im in a catch situation.but thank you.
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If you get asked to pick up Mom's missing payments, don't do it and see how he reacts. It could give you much more information than Mom's strange facebook posts,
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hi thank you again.this just gets stranger by the day lol. he has not quite said that but he has said im the only one who is helping him. i pay for his stamps. and give him 60$ a MONTH.thats a gift tho. for hygiene and candy.but i put some pictures of us on f/b his.and not one of his friends like it.i found that odd.it drives me crazy not knowing.
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So he just happened to mention that mom will no longer be sending money for hygiene products. Let me guess... you volunteered to fill that void. Of course he didnít ask for anything. They donít HAVE to ask for anything. They just plant those seeds and let them grow.
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I wouldnt worry too much about facebook , who cares who likes what its not important.However if he is slowly getting you to send more money and making you think you are all he has to help him then I would be very cautious. Dont him guilt trip you into more than you can afford, he has a roof and 3 meals a day.
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hi what i find quite strange is when i tell him that i payed 20$ into his acc.he says his usual love crap.then just bursts out.have i sent him the money.and he needs to know so he can buy food e.c.t.he acts like its xmas day.and im thinking what a twat.put what i thought i would tell you.i had set him up.on a penpal site.and i know he is writing to two diff people.and i kinda 3rd party it so he never knows its me.and now when i question him about his new pen pal he lies and then tries turning it around.and says isint he allowed friends.i said yes but not at my cost.if im buying the stamps.so it is what it is.but jesus christ.it has taken most of my time.just to find this lil thing out.and i tell you they are bloody good at scamming.and i think for most folk they dont get the full picture untill there released.and i think they call it gay for the stay.but i will keep you all updated.watch this space.thankyou all.
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There are honest gay men in prison that would APPRECIATE someone like you. Not everyone from a pen pal ad that states their homosexual is a con. A lot yes but not all.
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hi thank you again.this just gets stranger by the day lol. he has not quite said that but he has said im the only one who is helping him. i pay for his stamps. and give him 60$ a MONTH.thats a gift tho. for hygiene and candy.but i put some pictures of us on f/b his.and not one of his friends like it.i found that odd.it drives me crazy not knowing.
I'm sorry, but I smell a serious con-job here.

What is he doing to help himself?
Does he have a prison job?

The "I have no one to help me..." line is seriously manipulative. The appropriate response, from a psychological standpoint, is:

"Wow, that must be really challenging for you. I have a lot of confidence in you being able to sort that out?"

Tell him you're short on funds the next few months and won't be able to send his usual "stipend"... Curious to see how he behaves and responds.
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hi and thank you.yes i have decided its gone on long enough.and im now not funding anything.including stamps.i believe true love dose not cost a thing.and i too am egar to see how things go.and yes he is supose to work in the canteen.he is about to start his mrt,and sas.i think its called.which is 6 months.to complete.so i will let everyone know how its going.and once again i thank you.
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