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Old 10-26-2011, 03:28 PM
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He has 11 years left but hoping to get out in 7. How about you guys?

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Old 10-26-2011, 05:05 PM
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My man hasnt been sentenced yet. We met when we were 13 when i was 16 he went away for 6 yrs, came out when he was 23 i was 22. I was pregnant with our first baby within 6 months. He lasted 3 years, finished his probation clean and everythin. I lost my job right before our second baby was born and he was using again, he panicked cus we had no money and he did another armed robbery. He was on the run for a little while but they caught him. He went to mci concord in mass. It wasnt so bad we had contact visits and i could go 3 times a week and could stay for 8 hours if i wanted to. And i could bring my boys. Now they moved him to billerica, mass and theirs no contact visits once a week for like 2 hours. Their trying to get him with habitual offender so hes gonna be gone for a while. But ill wait forever for him.
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Old 10-26-2011, 08:21 PM
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My love has served almost 9 yrs on a 55yr sentence.but we hope to have him home in 7 to 9 more years.seems like forever already but he is the love of my life so its worth it...time can't break us
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Old 10-26-2011, 08:43 PM
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I feel the same way - I don't ever want the feeling he gives me to end.<3

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Old 10-26-2011, 08:54 PM
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My prayers go out to you ladies , I couldnt imagine what that feels like .. Mine only has 3yrs left
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Old 10-26-2011, 09:03 PM
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My mans original sentence was for three years..he was out in parole after 2 years (I met him while he was on parole) ..violated parole..just about 2 months ago and is maxing out..so he will be done in april..the few months he will be finishing up...I can't even imagine how I would feel if I knew him when he originally went to prison and having to wait the full three years. But he is worth it in every way.
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Old 10-27-2011, 09:52 AM
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I still have about 13 years to go.
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20yrs. down and just a few more yrs. to goooooooooooooo!
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Old 10-27-2011, 01:07 PM
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Wow....you ladies are such an inspiration! Especially the ones that have been holding it down over a decade or more....y'all give me hope that we can get through this!

M'love has been down 8 years (we've only been together 4 years though), with a little less than 6 years to go.
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Wow....you ladies are such an inspiration! Especially the ones that have been holding it down over a decade or more....y'all give me hope that we can get through this!

M'love has been down 8 years (we've only been together 4 years though), with a little less than 6 years to go.
Yes! I agree. It may be hard sometimes but I can feel the hope and faith through you ladies.

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My sweetie has 3 down and 22 to go
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1 year down, 14 more to go!! Hoping he gets out in 7 though.
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Old 10-28-2011, 04:12 AM
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I really don't know if 10 years is considered long term after reading these post. My boo will have done 9 out of 10 years this December. I have only been with him for a year and half though. Therefore I not so much a long term. We now have 14 months left and he will be out. I admire those who are there for there inmate from the beginning, long or short term. It takes a strong person to go through it and stay in it. Congratulations to those who are on the down slide and best wishes to those still with a lengthy time.
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Old 10-28-2011, 04:28 AM
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Mine has been in since 2005 was his out date is 2017, he has his second parole hearing this February, but tells me not to get my hopes up......
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My honey did 6 months county got out for 4 months went back in June got transferred in October his PED is in 2025 & PRD is in 2040 & me & the babies are waiting patiently for him to come home
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My husband has been in for 7 weeks and he has 30 years- eligible for parole in 15.. This shi* suuuuucckkss! I'm thankful for you ladies who have dealt with 10 or more ... Truly gives me hope..
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