HELP! Did man released from SC prison kill his wife?
I was unsure where to post this, but I need help with something. I cannot remember the exact time, but it seems like about a year ago. Was a man released from prison (maybe in 2009 from Tyger River or in 2008 from Kershaw) who got out and immediately killed his wife/girlfriend? I know this sounds strange to be asking this now, but my boyfriend (who is in prison and getting out soon) told me about this when it supposedly happened. The man supposedly found out she had been cheating on him while he was in, and killed her as soon as he got out. My boyfriend told me it was on the news at the time. I now have reason to believe he might have been lying to me, and it is very important I find out. Can anyone help me?
google it if it happened you might get info that way. Just type in something like Man release from prison kills wife and the area and you should get some hits.
I love him beyond explanation and have been faithfully waiting for him for years. I have never betrayed his trust, not even in talking about him or us like this. But...he does not trust me, and his reactions to me are starting to scare me. I just need to find out the truth about a few things to sort out in my head what to do. Before he gets out. I don't want to think anything ill of his intent towards me--doing so breaks my heart further--but his doubt of me and how far he goes with it is making me doubt him. Make sense?
Just wanted to thank those who tried to help and let you know I have the answer now. It was all a lie. I found out this man who killed his wife actually did so over twenty years ago and is serving a life sentence. My boyfriend just used that man's name to make up a story to manipulate me so he could find out what I would I would say about cheating. I have been through the ringer this week, so that's all I'll say for now.
i hope for your sake that we won't be hearing about you on the news...i think you should take what he told you as a sign...red flag...please be careful...
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What do you do with a man who is perfect for you in every sense, but one...he is manipulative. It makes me so mad, and not just at him, but just mad in general! We are perfect together! Perfect! Until his way of thinking ruins everything. Its like getting hit by a truck...one minute I'm feeling more in love with him than ever, just totally in awe, and the next minute he comes from out of nowhere and hits me with something that should NEVER come from his mouth to MY ears! Never even be in his mind! And who do you think gets blamed for it??? Even if I get him to admit he went too far, I still get blamed for CAUSING it! I love him beyond what anyone else ever would or could, but he is making me hate him, too. Maybe that's what I need. My heart tells me to believe he'll be different when he gets home, but my head tells me to RUN! FAST!
Coming from a person who was in a relationship like that for over ten years, it is very confusing. They make you doubt reality. It took me a long time to get away from him. When you deal with someone like that you never know the truth. I truly believe when your with someone like this you never really know who they are. WHAT'S REAL! So I would say RUN! As fast as you can and as far as you can. The good times are not worth the bad... Just my opinion. I wish you the best of luck qnd let us know your ok.
I have felt really bad about some of the comments I made in this thread. Even though my boyfriend cannot read this, I feel like I owe him an apology. He was wrong to tell me a lie, but I know he would never have intentions of physically harming me. I allowed the devil to mess with my mind and put fear in me that is not what God intended. I believe my boyfriend is so afraid of me cheating on him while he's in there that he gets desperate. It still hurts me and obviously causes me to have thoughts and fears that are not supposed to be a part of "us." But I regret labeling him as manipulative and saying he is making me hate him. He is actually a sweetheart and I love him dearly, but he has serious trust issues. I guess if I were in his place, I would too. Its just hard to look at it that way from where I stand, when my heart is breaking.
Honey, your thoughts were not the devil's doing. They were a perfectly logical way to react to a potential threat. His desperation and his trust issues probably are very, very deep, and you need to understand more fully just how deep and how possibly dangerous they might be.
You do not know yet if your instinct , your gut, might be worth listening to. Never discount your gut.
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