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View Poll Results: When you dream of him, what kind of dreams are they?
Sexual 167 56.04%
Worried or troubled that he could be/get hurt 43 14.43%
Cheating 21 7.05%
Being arrested all over again/loosing him all over again 28 9.40%
Sweet and happy memories of togetherness (not sexual) 137 45.97%
Feeling "guilty" yourself for cheating in ur dream 6 2.01%
Feeling "guilty" urself for "abandoning" him, or not being in prison instead 3 1.01%
Fears that he will leave you when he gets out 47 15.77%
No I do NOT dream ever 5 1.68%
Other... (please write what it is u dream about...) 55 18.46%
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:56 PM
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I have dreams about us laying in bed together talking.
I had a dream we were both in jail sharing skittles off commissary while we were in the hole together :S I told him that one we had a good laugh together. (he ended up being in the hole that time)
Another one I had it was random but when he first went out of town I had a dream he was locked up and a few days later he called me up collect and I knew he was in it's weird...

My dreams tell me things sometimes.
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Old 02-26-2013, 02:15 PM
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i dream all kinds of stuff that includes him some are out there crazy and some are normal and some are just us happy in love and enjoying our life together. i dream a lot about our future ... married ... babies and just growing old together <3
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Old 04-09-2013, 12:47 AM
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I just had a dream last night that there was a mistake in the jail and he was allowed to be released for a few days before he had to go back. He came home and was with me for a few days ... We went to see his family and my grandparents ... Then I woke up. I didn't write all the details here, but it was Very vivid and long ... When I woke up I felt like I had just spent time with him. :-/
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Old 04-19-2013, 09:13 PM
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I've seen his face flash several times in my dreams, he's doing everything from walking past me in a blue jumpsuit with his new beard (which I've yet to see in person) to being wheeled in in a wheel chair while we try and figure out how to get his handcuffed arms around me for a hug, to entering a hospital room with my son in his arms. It's just nice to see him in my dreams, and I definitely regret not furthering my studies in lucidity, lol.
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Old 04-19-2013, 10:01 PM
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I had a really weird dream about my babe the other night. It's been really freakishly cold here this April in South Dakota... we had a huge ice storm that knocked out power for about 6 days so it was about 45 degrees in my house at night. No electricity = no heat!

About halfway through the week I had a dream that I was just talking to him and telling him how cold I was. He said "I'll get you another blanket" and that was it. That was the whole dream. The freaky part though... when I woke up, there was another blanket on my bed that hadn't been there. Not only was it not on my bed when I went to sleep, it was in a big oak chest in another room. So... either my sweetie has some amazing teleportation or Jedi mind powers, or my dream compelled me to sleepwalk.
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All I dream about is him coming back home..I don't do well when he goes to prison and it drives me nuts. I have to be put on medications while hes gone and I find myself getting depressed and down. I just want him to come home I just have till January.
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Old 05-21-2013, 10:29 AM
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Mine has been gone a bit over 2 yrs but every dream I have he is not in prison he's here just as he looks now. His dreams are now more of prison than outside and I worry for him.

I once had a long and vivid dream where he was released and it was televised and the people apologized. Definitely was a dream...
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Old 05-22-2013, 12:14 PM
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When I dream about my guy it seems like no matter how close we are to one another I can never get to him. We can be in the same building but there is always an obstacle I can't beat. Seems fitting for the situation we are in.
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Old 05-22-2013, 12:20 PM
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When I dream about my guy it seems like no matter how close we are to one another I can never get to him. We can be in the same building but there is always an obstacle I can't beat. Seems fitting for the situation we are in.
I can relate. These are my dreams exactly!

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sweet & happy memories . & good times that await us together as a family with our baby.
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Old 05-23-2013, 12:06 AM
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I dream about many things, but it is often about the next time we will make love again. I dream about embracing him when he leaves the prison walls and how happy I will be when I get to kiss him all over. I miss him so much!!!
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Old 05-26-2013, 04:51 AM
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I have a lot of dreams about him where I am always trying to track him down but he's outrunning me, doing "errands" to keep himself out of jail Or I have dreams that we make out, I like those lol
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Old 05-26-2013, 10:44 AM
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My dreams about J lately have been us getting married and the good time to come. I have dreams about our "family". I have also had dreams about the day he comes home, and how this time we will do things differently than the last time he came home, just how we will spend the day etc. My dreams about him lately have been all over the place but all good things!
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Old 05-28-2013, 11:36 AM
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I don't typically dream about him. But as of late, he's been in some of my dreams. However, I never see him even though I know he's there. I never remember what the dreams are about, just that they made absolutely no sense. Some sexy time dreams would be wonderful, but my subconscience apparently ain't got time for that.
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Old 05-28-2013, 08:55 PM
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I dream about him coming home! Been back and forth with this man and now it's time for us to
move on with our lives. He says he's been dreaming a lot about us to since we've got a short time left! 2 more years to go!
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Old 05-30-2013, 10:04 AM
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I dream a lot about him or things relating to him - which is strange because Ive never met him. Last monday I had a dream about him feeling bad, being sick, and he was blue in the face...I just KNEW something was wrong...so I contacted his aunt, and she would ask him when he called for the weekend (I live in Europe)...he didnt call her before saturday, and I was right. His arms had swelled after training. Like *poof*...

Ive discovered that I always dream about him when something is actually hapening in his life. Its strange.

By the way have discovered lucid dreaming and it is awesome!
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Old 06-08-2013, 09:58 PM
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I have both sexual dreams lol and dreams that I cannot get to him, like I can see him, but I can't reach him.

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Old 06-09-2013, 10:13 PM
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I dream rarely of him but wish I could every night. I enjoy it when I do cause it gets me away from the reality that he's not here he seems to have them more than me so I enjoy hearing about it. But I don't think it is a good or bad thing to dream. Just depends on the dream to me.
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Old 06-11-2013, 01:58 PM
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I always dream I'm fighting with someone over him. I bet a psychiatrist could have a field day with that.

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Old 06-11-2013, 05:22 PM
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I have different dreams about him, but last night I had a dream where I was talking to him on the phone. I woke up with my head bent down on my shoulder like I walk around with the phone in my house. I told him I think it's a sign we talk too much lol
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Old 06-13-2013, 10:07 AM
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I do have sexual dreams about him but a lot of them are about him coming home sooner than expected
I have that dream reoccurring more than sexual.

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Old 06-14-2013, 03:29 AM
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I once had a dream that he was sleeping next to me, and when I woke up but I have a recurring one I get every so often that I'm waiting for him to pick me up and I'm standing outside the house and he keeps calling me telling me he's almost there and he never come and I have like a lot of bags and like furniture lmao idk
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Old 06-14-2013, 09:52 PM
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My dreams are never sexual . they are dreams about his release and us interacting with each other . i love seeing him in my dreams. i always wake up with a smile. hope i dream about him tonight
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Old 07-27-2013, 12:42 PM
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i had a dream about my bf lastnight, about him getting released. it was so real, and we were so happy to finally be in eachothers arms... it made me sad to wake up and realize it was only a dream :"( ..i told him about it when he called earlier, and (without intending to), started crying. i felt bad cuz i know it worries him when i cry, but he was sympathetic and said not to be sad cuz our day would come soon...

do you ever get emotional after a dream about your man?
do not give up what you want most, for something you want right now.
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Old 07-27-2013, 01:27 PM
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All the time. I don't usually tell him over the phone tho. I will save it for a visit and tell him. Of course he reassures me our time is coming. So hurry and get here please. Just try to enjoy the dream and know that one day it will come true.
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