Welcome to the Prison Talk Online Community! Take a Minute and Sign Up Today!






Go Back   Prison Talk > FOR FAMILY & FRIENDS > Husbands & Boyfriends in Prison
Register Entertainment FAQ Calendar Mark Forums Read

Husbands & Boyfriends in Prison For everyone who has a husband, boyfriend or male partner incarcerated.

View Poll Results: I call him........
I call him Papi 227 14.48%
I call him Daddy 648 41.33%
I call him BOTH Papi & Daddy 281 17.92%
I would NEVER call him Papi OR Daddy! (YUCK) 412 26.28%
Voters: 1568. You may not vote on this poll

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 03-17-2007, 04:29 PM
CharlotteLoves's Avatar
CharlotteLoves CharlotteLoves is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: <--- In the clouds, cain't ya C?
Posts: 1,821
Thanks: 174
Thanked 265 Times in 137 Posts
Default Anyone call their man "Papi" or "Daddy?"

Are there many who call their guy "Papi" or "Daddy"?

I early on called my pen pal "Chulo", sort of as a surprise to him, and he wrote back and told me he liked "Papi Chulo" even more and wouldn't mind at all if I called him THAT. I'm all for keeping a Latin man happy (especially THIS one) , so I thereafter threw myself wholeheartedly into using "Papi" and "Papi Chulo". Once he wrote: "Who's your Daddy?" and I'm telling you, it made me weak in the knees just seeing it in a letter.

If you do say them, has he ever told you how your saying it makes him feel? How? I'd like to know what any guys have said about it.

What surprised me so much was how much I enjoyed saying them to him. To the point of imagining being able to say it to him during, ahem, "those" moments (you know what I mean ) Does it do that to anyone like it does to me? Or am I just a big freak? LOL. Papi, Daddy, either one does it to me GOOD.
Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
  #2  
Old 03-17-2007, 04:36 PM
catcat73's Avatar
catcat73 catcat73 is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: nyc
Posts: 505
Thanks: 0
Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts
Default

I DON'T REALLY USED THOSE TERMS ,HE'S MY HUNNY,BOO,AND FOR THOSE TIMES WHEN AM ANGRY AT HIM I SPEAK SPANISH BUT BET IT ISN'T (PAPI)(LOL) SOMETIMES I START A SPANISH CONVERSATION WITH HIMAND HE BE LIKE (SI,SI,)THATS ALL THE SPANISH HE KNOWS AND BETTER FOR ME FOR THOSE ANGRY DAYS
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 03-17-2007, 04:37 PM
myliss's Avatar
myliss myliss is offline
miss myliss (:
 

Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: OH-IO
Posts: 1,755
Thanks: 318
Thanked 578 Times in 347 Posts
Default

i call deont'e bay, babe, boo, pookie, and baby. along with a few other numerous nicknames. i havent called him papi or daddy, i dont like those names for some reason! i just love calling him those names or hearing him call me my nicknames because its like personalized, and i love it. its like i am his and he is mine. =D
__________________
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; Proverbs 3:5
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to myliss For This Useful Post:
Jinty62 (11-17-2011)
  #4  
Old 03-17-2007, 04:38 PM
JnJ2hearts1soul JnJ2hearts1soul is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: New York
Posts: 784
Thanks: 0
Thanked 13 Times in 3 Posts
Default

daddy, daddy, daddy!! girllll I love calling him that . it turns me on in the worse way OMG the thought of his face when I say it,, whew let me calm down . he says his knees buckle when I say it. he loves it
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 03-17-2007, 05:59 PM
CharlotteLoves's Avatar
CharlotteLoves CharlotteLoves is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: <--- In the clouds, cain't ya C?
Posts: 1,821
Thanks: 174
Thanked 265 Times in 137 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by JnJ2hearts1soul
daddy, daddy, daddy!! girllll I love calling him that . it turns me on in the worse way OMG the thought of his face when I say it,, whew let me calm down . he says his knees buckle when I say it. he loves it
JnJ2hearts1soul, I completely FEEL ya. It's an incredible turn-on to me. That surprised me so much because I had never used those words before he mentioned me doing it.

I think for him it probably makes him feel like a big, strong man with a woman looking up to him.

I think for me it makes me feel like I have somebody big and strong being protective of and caring with me.

Anyone agree or disagree from their own point of view?
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 03-17-2007, 06:06 PM
LilSis08 LilSis08 is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Michigan
Posts: 1,011
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

Im not sure,To me it just seems weird no offense. I cant get over thinking that it puts him a position of power over me or something or its inapporiate. Maybe Im just thinking too much about it I dont know. Ive called him honey sweetie, babe, preppy boy, etc but never papi or daddy. I know papi is more of a Latin cultural thing right ???
Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to LilSis08 For This Useful Post:
hesmineandimhis (01-17-2011), hizshygurl (02-15-2015), LBee (04-13-2013), Peppermoose (10-10-2014)
  #7  
Old 03-17-2007, 06:16 PM
rydeordie4lyfe rydeordie4lyfe is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: usa
Posts: 229
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post
Default

i can't ever call him daddy because whenever I say the word daddy, i think of my father.....so it's kinda of gross. He loves it when I call him baby.
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 03-17-2007, 06:21 PM
babygurl919 babygurl919 is offline
6 years strong &lt;3
 

Join Date: May 2005
Location: NY
Posts: 3,871
Thanks: 0
Thanked 208 Times in 59 Posts
Default

I called him Daddy once joking around and it kinda turned him on, but it did nothing for me. I don't think I could ever say it to him seriously, it just sounds too weird to me. To each his own, eh?
__________________
proud fan of the
NEW YORK GIANTS
SUPERBOWL XLII CHAMPIONS!!!

Reply With Quote
The Following 7 Users Say Thank You to babygurl919 For This Useful Post:
Heem's Wife (09-26-2010), hesmineandimhis (01-17-2011), hizshygurl (02-15-2015), Jinty62 (11-17-2011), MissKd (01-25-2011), Rbarger (10-19-2010), valentine7 (03-08-2013)
  #9  
Old 03-17-2007, 06:28 PM
CharlotteLoves's Avatar
CharlotteLoves CharlotteLoves is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: <--- In the clouds, cain't ya C?
Posts: 1,821
Thanks: 174
Thanked 265 Times in 137 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by rydeordie4lyfe
i can't ever call him daddy because whenever I say the word daddy, i think of my father.....so it's kinda of gross. He loves it when I call him baby.
I never called my father "Daddy". Ever. I've always only called him "Dad". So, "Daddy" is A-OK for my Latin guy in my eyes.

And yea, MissTara, I believe "Papi" is a cultural thing....... Maybe because Hispanics come from a traditionally patriarchal society? That's my guess. Maybe the Daddy-thing comes from the same, but non-Hispanic, societal reason (male dominance)?

I'm glad I put a "YUCK" choice in the poll for you all........ I'm starting to feel like a freak over here because of you guys! Where are my Papi/Daddy sisters? LOL I need your support so I can feel normal again.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 03-17-2007, 08:21 PM
meganlea meganlea is offline
Closed
 

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: USA
Posts: 2,190
Thanks: 0
Thanked 13 Times in 5 Posts
Default

I, personally, find it disgusting, immature, and disturbing when people call their significant others those names. That's just my two cents...
Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 03-17-2007, 08:26 PM
2GunzUp 2GunzUp is offline
lovingour2
 

Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: waiting in VA
Posts: 330
Thanks: 0
Thanked 64 Times in 40 Posts
Thumbs up Its Hot In Here

Im here to join you . I always call mines DADDY. and he loves it . he calls me lil mammi ( because im so shorter than him) and we have been calling eachother that for years as also other names. and YES it does something to the both of us . You not the only one charlotte when i call him that he be ready to pull me over the table . BOY I CANT WAIT TILL HE GETS HOME .
__________________




Reply With Quote
The Following 12 Users Say Thank You to 2GunzUp For This Useful Post:
3hirty5ive (05-31-2009), Dunfedtime (02-02-2017), HsPersonalAngel (10-08-2010), jameswifey82908 (06-17-2010), JRP42187 (10-09-2009), missBlariviere (02-28-2012), MsEightball (06-25-2010), Seredipity (01-07-2011), ShortysLady (11-04-2010), Soon2BmrsP (02-14-2010), VjzWifey.!. (08-31-2009)
  #12  
Old 03-17-2007, 08:30 PM
ca_inmate_lvr's Avatar
ca_inmate_lvr ca_inmate_lvr is offline
Froggyz Girl Forever
 

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Hayden, ID, USA
Posts: 469
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Wink Ditto!

Quote:
Originally Posted by JnJ2hearts1soul
daddy, daddy, daddy!! girllll I love calling him that . it turns me on in the worse way OMG the thought of his face when I say it,, whew let me calm down . he says his knees buckle when I say it. he loves it
JnJ2hearts1soul.....I know exactly what you mean! Enough said about it though, I still have 5 months till he comes home. IS IT AUGUST YET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Froggyz Girl:love:
__________________
Forever Loving my Man!!!!!!!!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to ca_inmate_lvr For This Useful Post:
jameswifey82908 (06-17-2010)
  #13  
Old 03-17-2007, 09:33 PM
PTO-92958 PTO-92958 is offline
---------------
Donation Award 
 

Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 32
Thanks: 8,430
Thanked 8,489 Times in 3,829 Posts
Default

I never called any man in my life "Daddy" except my father, who died when I was 12.
I used to think it was weird to hear a chick call her man "Daddy" or "Papi".
But "USED TO" are the operative words...
I call my Love "Daddy" all the time now, and it gets me all weak in the knees...hell, it brings me to my knees!
Call it a "male dominance" thing if you want...a power trip...I don't know and don't care! He never asked me to call him that...it just sorta began somehow.
I love that submissive feeling...like I gotta make my Daddy happy and be a "good girl" for him.
But I also get that (ahem) "moist" feeling whenever he calls me Mami too!
Equal opportunity dominance in this relationship!
Mmmmm, mmmmm, mmmmm!!!
Reply With Quote
  #14  
Old 03-17-2007, 09:55 PM
countingdayz countingdayz is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Co
Posts: 198
Thanks: 0
Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts
Default

I'm not into the Daddy thing either I'm hispanic so I always call my father Papi, once in a while I call my husband my "papichulo" but not just papi by itself it would gross me out thinking of my dad.
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to countingdayz For This Useful Post:
MissKd (01-25-2011)
  #15  
Old 03-17-2007, 10:10 PM
monet420's Avatar
monet420 monet420 is offline
Registered User
Donation Award 
 

Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: San Diego,Ca
Posts: 7,627
Thanks: 45
Thanked 191 Times in 127 Posts
Default

every once in a while I will but Papi in a letter but I dont ever call him that. He always writes "be good for daddy" but again I never call him daddy. I just call him babe or baby
__________________

***My Husband is home and I am loving almost every second of it!!!***
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to monet420 For This Useful Post:
MissKd (01-25-2011)
  #16  
Old 03-17-2007, 10:31 PM
Patty's Avatar
Patty Patty is offline
WINNING! Admin

PTOQ Editorial Team Member 

Donation Award 
 

Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Rockford, Illinois
Posts: 38,202
Thanks: 16,072
Thanked 37,873 Times in 10,462 Posts
Default

I call my man daddy. I call my grandson daddy as he is the little man of his house. For me it's both cultural and affectionate.

Quote:
Originally Posted by meganlea
I, personally, find it disgusting, immature, and disturbing when people call their significant others those names. That's just my two cents...
Wow meganlea that's a bit harsh but I'm sure you've got your reasons, in any case you are entitled to your opinion so are all members and sometimes we just have to agree to disagree and I only ask that we do that respectfully...

Patty
__________________
For those who can, contributions to keep PTO up and running are most welcome HERE

THIS CORRESPONDENCE
IS FROM A WOMAN IN LOVE
WITH A FORMER INMATE OF
THE ILLINOIS DEPARTMENT
OF CORRECTIONS





Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Patty For This Useful Post:
  #17  
Old 03-17-2007, 10:33 PM
Addicted_one's Avatar
Addicted_one Addicted_one is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: So Cal, USA
Posts: 1,424
Thanks: 86
Thanked 388 Times in 185 Posts
Default

I call him Daddy. My daughter thinks it's GROSS and isn't trying to hear that so I think I will save it for the bedroom. But I also call him baby boy!

Other than that I would just LOVE to call him!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Addicted_one For This Useful Post:
  #18  
Old 03-17-2007, 10:48 PM
meganlea meganlea is offline
Closed
 

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: USA
Posts: 2,190
Thanks: 0
Thanked 13 Times in 5 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by HotLatinaMILF4U
Wow meganlea that's a bit harsh but I'm sure you've got your reasons, in any case you are entitled to your opinion so are all members and sometimes we just have to agree to disagree and I only ask that we do that respectfully...
Of course. That's why I said it was just my two cents -- which we're all entitled to on here. I'm obviously not the minority in feeling this way, however... To each his own!
Reply With Quote
  #19  
Old 03-17-2007, 11:21 PM
Waitin4BlueEyes's Avatar
Waitin4BlueEyes Waitin4BlueEyes is offline
Here we go again...
Donation Award 
 

Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Him~California*Me~Oregon
Posts: 1,188
Thanks: 68
Thanked 186 Times in 132 Posts
Default

I've always had nicknames for my guy like "Blue Eyes", but about a year ago he said he thought he'd like it if I called him Daddy. I immediately thought of my Dad and told him, "nope, can't do it hun". But he has mentioned it numerous times since then and refers to himself as such in his letters. After thinking about it I realized that I have never called my Dad "Daddy", so really it shouldn't bother me and honestly it does turn me on to call my man "Daddy" So I've started to in letters, but have yet to actually say it to him. Maybe the next time he calls I will answer the phone "Hey Daddy" and see what kind of reaction I get
__________________
Officially Mr. & Mrs. BlueEyes
Reply With Quote
  #20  
Old 03-18-2007, 03:06 AM
mrschris's Avatar
mrschris mrschris is offline
loved!
 

Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: somewhere up north =)
Posts: 8,251
Thanks: 524
Thanked 1,148 Times in 716 Posts
Default

i have a myriad of nicknames i call my hubby, including Daddy. even though he's latin i don't call him Papi...it sounds so psuedo to me lmao. i have written it out to him in a letter though. i don't have an issue with any pet names...i gotta make it do what it do for my love.
__________________
[b]Abraham thought he had to give his son for God's children, but God gave His Son for Abraham's children.
Reply With Quote
  #21  
Old 03-18-2007, 05:03 AM
JamaicanChula's Avatar
JamaicanChula JamaicanChula is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: NY, USA
Posts: 88
Thanks: 0
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
Default

Before my latin ex, I used to always want to be able to call a guy "Papi". I used it so much with my ex that now I think it sounds weird when I say it to my current man. I think I said it 1x or 2x and then I thought, damn this reminds me of my ex, so I don't say that to him anymore. He loves hearing "baby" so that's what I use.

Majority of people think I look latina so guys typically say "Hey mami" when they try to get my attention. I don't mind, I love the spanish language.

Now, the word Daddy is a different story - it sounds weird to me, I never called a man Daddy before because my mother didn't want my father to be in my life so I don't even know who my daddy really is. I don't care if other people call their man Daddy, it doesn't bother me.

Last edited by JamaicanChula; 03-18-2007 at 05:08 AM..
Reply With Quote
  #22  
Old 03-18-2007, 05:31 AM
JamiesGirl06's Avatar
JamiesGirl06 JamiesGirl06 is offline
Johnnysgirl10
Donation Award 
 

Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Michigan USA
Posts: 2,133
Thanks: 486
Thanked 244 Times in 227 Posts
Default

I have to agree, I don't think someone should call their lover, daddy! To me it sounds preverted. My children call their Father, Daddy. Just too weird for me!!!!!!
__________________





Reply With Quote
The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to JamiesGirl06 For This Useful Post:
A.D. Wifey (08-12-2012), MIKAER (04-11-2011), need2talk (08-03-2009), PsychedelcPanic (04-30-2011), rocker chic.. (10-04-2015)
  #23  
Old 03-18-2007, 09:09 AM
crow94 crow94 is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: aaaa
Posts: 1,678
Thanks: 0
Thanked 46 Times in 16 Posts
Default

Whatever floats anyone's boat...

but no, I would never call my love interest "daddy". I have a daddy, a dad, a pop, a father, whom I love very much and yes, I am a bit of a daddy's girl. So the whole "ick" factor is there for me.

I can't call anyone daddy except my dad, but that is just my own personal feeling. I mean, I could never even date anyone with a moustache because my dad has always had one, you know?

Besides, any man I would have a sexually initimate realtionship is not my father figure.... he would be my lover. To each their own: if that gets your kink on, then so be it.

Now, then again, calling your sigificant other "dad" has a different meaning if you have kids together. My mom always called dad "dad" in front of me and my sis growing up, so that we called him "dad", too, instead of my his first name. Just like my dad called my mom "ma". Well, dad still calls my mom "ma" in front of me, but now my mom just does the exasperated "HOWARD!!" most of the time...

Anyway, that is my
Reply With Quote
  #24  
Old 03-18-2007, 10:24 AM
LADYCEE's Avatar
LADYCEE LADYCEE is offline
LOVE U DADDY ALWAY!
 

Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: BKLYN, NY
Posts: 4,317
Thanks: 6
Thanked 56 Times in 43 Posts
Default

I call my hubby daddy so much I sometime forget his name (lololol). The look that comes over his face just does something to me so its not just to make him happy cause I'm all so happy of the outcome especially when we are alone. And he calls me ma...
__________________
I'm A Kept Women cause I'm loved R U.
Love U Daddy. 2Day, 2Morrow, and 4Ever


Hold fast to dreams,

for if dreams die,

life is a broken winged
bird that cannot fly.
-Langston Hughes
Reply With Quote
  #25  
Old 03-18-2007, 11:56 AM
haswtch haswtch is offline
one lucky woman
 

Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Ulster County, NY, USA
Posts: 10,954
Thanks: 158
Thanked 269 Times in 166 Posts
Default

I'd feel awkward with it and I think he would too, but I certainly don't think it's icky for others if the like it
There are some private ways we think of each other that I am sure some would find tasteless in their own right.
But I have a question. What does Chulo mean anyway? I feel so naive (blush)
__________________
"It is dangerous to be right when the government is wrong."- Voltaire -
[François Marie Arouet] (1694-1778)

Diamond: a lump of coal that did well under pressure
Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to haswtch For This Useful Post:
D's baby (02-28-2012), MIKAER (04-11-2011)
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Is he your "Daddy/Papi/Baby or Man"? noboundries Husbands & Boyfriends in Prison 57 05-13-2010 08:33 PM
You call him DADDY???? Temeron0926 Husbands & Boyfriends in Prison 4 11-09-2008 02:54 PM
Call Me Daddy!! onry Poetry 3 05-08-2006 05:02 PM


All times are GMT -6. The time now is 03:25 PM.
Copyright © 2001- 2017 Prison Talk Online
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Website Design & Custom vBulletin Skins by: Relivo Media
Message Board Statistics