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Old 05-19-2013, 03:44 PM
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I want to take him out to see all the female flesh he can. I have actually been looking forward to this...
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I took my (now ex) boyfriend to a strip club on new years last year. I also invited along his best friend so he wouldn't spend it alone. His friend and I even got a lap dance together. I think I had more fun than my ex. I'd do it again in a heartbeat with my man now.
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I would definitely take him to the strip club. I always have fun with the ladies when I go. I think my Fiance' wouldn't want to go though sometimes he can be a party pooper.
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No. I know myself and even though I trust him completely I would get jealous seeing him get excited by another woman. I wouldn't want him to go alone either.
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No way. If he wants to get excited by someone, it can be me.
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I want to take him out to see all the female flesh he can. I have actually been looking forward to this...
Would not be something I would be into....but to each his/her own.

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Sure...if a group of friends were going and he wanted to go. I don't care if he goes with friends either. But we are a bit older, and he's spent quite a bit of time in strip clubs in his party days. (I'd be more concerned about the drugs than the dancers) I'm all about admiring beauty...if Shemar Moore goes on a male dancing tour please believe I'm there! On a serious note at this phase in our lives, we know what we have, and how lucky we are to have it. Strip clubs just aren't a big deal for us.
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Sure, or he can go with his buddies, if he prefers..... I know he's not off doing anything I'll regret and I expect the same faith from him.
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Yes, I would take my man...its something I've wanted to do for a while we just never got around to it...perhaps when he comes home we will.
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HELL NO! i would never take my man to no strip club...he does NOT need to be seeing no other females naked body parts besides my own. why would you give him options to compare you with???...uhh no thank you...im glad i dont gotta worry about that cuz my hubby wouldnt wanna go see no random trashy SKANK on a pole...i may not be the perfect 10 but i know how to turn my man on enough so that he dont even think about wasting money at a strip joint! Plus whats more attractive than a respectable WOMAN thats a freak in the bed just for him??
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I have a part- time job bartending at a strip club.... I have no problem letting my husband go to one. He has spent enough time there throughout the years he was actually getting sick of it. but I dont mind, not just because Im confident in myself: but along with many other things, Im not going to try and keep him locked up with blinders on. The female body is very beautiful it all shapes and sizes - if its together its great, if he goes alone with his 'boys' and has a blast at least hes coming home to me. There is nothing wrong with looking. WOman who strip aren't SKanks... they do that job for whatever reason it may be who am I to judge - Ive known planty of strippers and the type of people they are is no different then you or I. I know dentist, head of PTA, you'd be suprised - what they chose isn't fair to judge them. If my husband wants to look - more power to him.... I dont mind. I better stop I could go on this subject for awhile.
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Strip clubs are fine.

Kinna tripping on all the jealousy and insecurity in some of these posts.

There is NOTHING wrong with your man looking at other women, or getting turned on by them. It is called "human nature".

Whether naked or clothed we ALL look at beautiful people and recognize their beauty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though.

Obviously "your" man thinks your beautiful inside and out because he is in love with you right?

So why not give him some eye candy to turn the heat up, as long as he uses all that heat with you?

A confident woman who trusts her man should do all kinds of things with, to and for her man - and she will because if its fun for him, it will be fun for her.

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Strip clubs are fine.

Kinna tripping on all the jealousy and insecurity in some of these posts.

There is NOTHING wrong with your man looking at other women, or getting turned on by them. It is called "human nature".

Whether naked or clothed we ALL look at beautiful people and recognize their beauty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though.

Obviously "your" man thinks your beautiful inside and out because he is in love with you right?

So why not give him some eye candy to turn the heat up, as long as he uses all that heat with you?

A confident woman who trusts her man should do all kinds of things with, to and for her man - and she will because if its fun for him, it will be fun for her.

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I'm sorry, but I disagree. For me it is not okay to involve other people to our sex life. It's not about jealousy, it's not about insecurity or if I am feeling confident or not. If I wanted an open relationship, it would be different then and each to their own. Every couple has their own style, and it is fine, but for us it's a no-no.

Some people, like us, have those old fashioned values, where sexuality is about intimacy between two individual. I know nowadays people want you to be "open" about your sexuality, and it seems that if you are having these old school values you are judged as insecure and jealous and prudish, when it's not the truth, at least not always.

I am confident about us, I am confident that I do turn him on, I am confident that he does not fool around, but I don't feel going to strip club and either one of us getting excited by watching other people is okay for us. It's not ok for us just because it is plain ol' wrong when it comes to our values. But like I said each to their own, we all have different values, and I am not saying mine are better, but they are mine.

Having different values than you doesn't make me insecure. It just makes me different.
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Strip clubs are fine.

Kinna tripping on all the jealousy and insecurity in some of these posts.

There is NOTHING wrong with your man looking at other women, or getting turned on by them. It is called "human nature".

Whether naked or clothed we ALL look at beautiful people and recognize their beauty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though.

Obviously "your" man thinks your beautiful inside and out because he is in love with you right?

So why not give him some eye candy to turn the heat up, as long as he uses all that heat with you?

A confident woman who trusts her man should do all kinds of things with, to and for her man - and she will because if its fun for him, it will be fun for her.

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I agree with this 100%. What some women forget is that men are going to look ANYWAY... You can't control it! Either you're going to go with him or he's going to go with his boys or whomever.

My husband and I have gone quite a few times and to different ones. It is no stain in our relationship. He does not love me any less. I am not a size 6 and the women there have "perfect" bodies but I am no less of a woman because of it. They are who they are and I am who I am. I applaud these women who have to work so hard to take care of whomever they are supporting. All of those tricks on the pole.. that's a lot of work! lol!!

We have gone, we have had drinks... we have chilled as if we were dating and it was fun!!

To those that wouldn't go.. don't be scared he's going to leave you. Have fun! lol!!!!!!!!!

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I will go with him, he can go with the boys. All that matters is that he comes home to me at the end of the day. He can look but he can't touch. He is a man, of course he is going to look, he wouldn't be human if he didn't look. We have actually said we want to go, just didn't make it before he went back in... We will one of these days, and if I know him, we will barely be able to make it home after we leave
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I know that my man looks at other women. I think it would be kind of be weird if he didn't. I am not a black woman who is blessed with a big booty. I know my man likes big booties. So, when we are out and about...if I see one, I point it out to him. We may even engage in conversation about said booty. He's a man, he has eyes and I'm not going to get upset for him doing what is natural to do. I don't mind taking him to a strip club because I appreciate the female form. I don't want to engage in any sexual exchange with a woman, but I am secure enough in my sexuality to admire the aesthetic. My man has been down for a minute, so I don't mind treating him with some eye candy. I'll even go as far to get him an a**clapping lap dance. I'll take him home and know that he has a fresh supply of mental images for the mind reel. Trust, I know my man is satisfied with me and what I got...it's just an experience that I would like to have with him.

I don't like to compare old school values and morals to now. I used to sit and listen to my great aunts, grandmothers, and other older ladies. Please believe, men have loved to look at other women since there became more than one woman on earth. The difference between then and now is then women had to look the other way or pretend. Women had to stifle their sexuality, believing it was shameful or taboo. Back then, the women who took control of their sexual power and explored it as freely as men, were classified in less than reputable terms.

I respect anyone who says it is not for them, but I rebuke the notion that sexuality should be framed as an issue of morals and values. It is those very elements that introduce repression and even oppression. Just saying...
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I am neither jealous nor insecure. I am a confident woman who can turn her husband on simply from the sound of my voice. So the reasoning that I don't agree with married/attached men going to strip clubs is funny. I just happen to believe in the vows that I took which said forsaking all others. I don't need someone else in my marriage I am a grown woman who has this. If there was a need to go outside of me, I wouldn't be married to my husband. What would be the purpose?
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I lived in Las Vegas for many many years. I asked my husband if this was something he wanted to do. He's married now and it's not appropriate he said. He loves me and it's not something he would enjoy.
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I'm super confident, so him looking at other women normally doesnt phase me at all. I dont however think that after he gets home, going to a strip club with him will be at the top of my list.
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I have never left a strip club wanting to have sex with anybody I have seen there. I don't believe just because my man is watching a form of art is going to make him want to sleep with the person. My man is a grown ass man and I know for a fact he wouldn't want a stripper. Hell I go to learn some moves, enjoy the scene and just chill. Whats the difference between a strip club and porn. Not only that just because someone is a stripper does not mean they want your man.
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IF he wants to go with me, sure. But I'd try to make a point that he'd have more fun without me. Knowing him, he'd only go if I went with him.

I want him to have fun, experience any & everything. If him going to a strip club breaks us up, then our relationship wasn't worth saving. Just my opinion??
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And again, I am not insecure nor jealous. We just have different values. No, we don't look at other people, nope, not even porn. What we have is enough for one another to get us excited and satisfied. He knows how to turn me on. I know what he likes and spice it up as we both want. He is not 15 yo to get a hard-on because someone dances in front of him (by the way, when the 15yo goes home, he still has those images in his mind while he's doing... You know what... So, chances are, your man does the same - just saying). Out of respect for our relationship and what we have. Out of love and intimacy. That is why neither I nor him, would go to a strip club.
And yes, I am not judging the ladies that work there - they all have their reasons. But I know that if my daughter would work her way thru college like that I WOULD BE PISSED and think I did not raise her well. Just my opinion.
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yup ill take him ...and he can go with his buddies if he chose..i have no problem with him going long as its not sexual & he isnt cheating ..he can sit & get a million lap dances because guess what?? i trust him & plus he is coming back home to me so im cool with it..
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I don't understand the morals and values argument here... I guess I don't see how *looking* at someone somehow defines ones moral compass.

But I digress,

Yes, of course I would go to a strip club with my man. He can go with his boys too - I mean, he is a grown ass man and as a result, is able to do what he wants to do.

I suppose if one did research that one would discover that affairs with strippers represent a minute number of extramarital indiscretions. One would be more prudent to worry about the interactions their men have with colleagues rather than strippers...
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