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Old 11-25-2006, 08:46 PM
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I went to go see my man ( who I mwi) yesterday and I took my best friend with me. Well she had seen pics of my man and told me that she thoought he was fine and she would f@#$ him. Well now that she met him she is all about him and really likes him. How or what do you do or say. He knows how she feels and tells me that I have nothing to worry about but it still bothers me. She always wants someone elses man. Why can't she find her own? I am really irritated at the whole thing. So, please ladies tell me what you would do.
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Old 11-25-2006, 08:48 PM
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Old 11-25-2006, 09:01 PM
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I totally agree with KAINZ..get a new friend because a real friend wouldn't even fix her mouth to say something like that
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loose her..... ive had the same trouble....
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Old 11-25-2006, 09:12 PM
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Knowing her as you do you probably shouldn't have taken her with you to the visit. I wouldn't worry about it though if he cares for you he's not gonna be taken in by your friend. Be the bigger person and tell her you are flattered that she thinks your man is great and that you hope she will find someone of her own real soon.

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Whoop her butt - good. Then get a new friend.
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Old 11-25-2006, 09:21 PM
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Lose that friend cuz she will only cause you pain in the end....If the truth be known, maybe you shouldnt have taken her with you but if she was really your friend she would never have talked about your man like that. There is such a thing as respect....You deserve a better friend...
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Damm with friends like that... It is one thing if she says "Wow, he is hot" or "Good choice" that is one thing. To go on and on about your guy is RUDE. I would say "Well, lets get out of your fantasy world, because he is mine."
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First you may want to stop calling her your friend, like day said a real friend wouldn't say anything like that, no matter how good looking he is. I know I wouldnt take her with you any more, I would also let her know what is on your mind about her comments and that she needs to take a step back and put the brakes on that.

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Old 11-25-2006, 10:50 PM
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No true friend would go after another friends man ONCE--let alone build a name for herself by doing so. That's MESSED UP to the 3rd power!!! Lose your friend...she's not worth it...I wouldn't worry about your man being taken with her, either.
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Kick Her Butt A Find A New Friend. Why Do So Many Women Try Us . I Had The Same Problem But I Dropped Her B4 She Could Get "he Is So .." Out Of Her Mouth
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Man-o-man it takes all kinds,huh? Ha,how pathetic of her! Girl,I'm gonna tell ya something,...I'm 41 years old,and have had dozens and dozens of girlfriends over the years,and only 2 of them have been truely loyal decent friends throughout a 25 year span. They're still my best friends to this day. My point is this,...that girl is NOT a true friend,and she's NOT a keeper! I'd distance myself from her. Dang,...you better hide your letters from your honey,or she'll be copying down his address,and writing to him!
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THIS is the very reason that I don't have female friends.
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Amen to all of the above. How/why was she put on his approved visitors list? Now she can go see him anytime she wants to - without you! She is NOT your "friend" ... but, I try to adhere to the "bees with honey" theory ... so, I would line her up with some prison pen-pal websites so that she can find her OWN man ... and then gradually wean her out of your life all together -- if you uneleash on her completely "cold turkey" - she'll only be incented to go after your man and try to cause problems for spite if nothing else. NONE of us wants to hear down the line a post from you saying "my best friend slept with/ seduced my man". when he gets home. Let the freaks on Jerry Springer have that crap ... I know you trust your man ... but this chick sounds evil and you never know what people are capable of ... she could start filling your man's head with all kinds of garbage and plant seeds of doubt or whatever ... regardless, it's not worth the stress, drama or aggrevation. She SO disrespected you!!! People get killed over that kind of shit on the "other side" of the wall ... no need for YOU to put up with it in the free world! Handle it with the grace of a woman ... and simply outsmart her before she even TRIES to start the game! She sounds like one of those jealous "cling-on" fake friends who is obviously SO jealous of you that she's going to try to take whatever you have. I remember that movie "Single White Female" ... there are some true head-cases out there ... do not allow her to participate in your life any further!
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why would you take your best friend to go see your man, knowing she's the way she is?

none of it makes sense to me. this is why i don't like females too much...things like this don't make sense to me.

if you keep her as a friend, be prepared for her to basically try to steal your man.
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Old 11-26-2006, 01:14 AM
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why would you take your best friend to go see your man, knowing she's the way she is?

none of it makes sense to me. this is why i don't like females too much...things like this don't make sense to me.

if you keep her as a friend, be prepared for her to basically try to steal your man.

I agree with this wholeheartedly .. I understand you are upset but you took her to the viist when you already knew what type of female she was . you need to stop talk too her straight up and get her off his list..
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friend? did you wrote the word friend? i guess i'm looking at the wrong threat as i see not friend in it but games.
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I went to go see my man ( who I mwi) yesterday and I took my best friend with me. Well she had seen pics of my man and told me that she thoought he was fine and she would f@#$ him. Well now that she met him she is all about him and really likes him. How or what do you do or say. He knows how she feels and tells me that I have nothing to worry about but it still bothers me. She always wants someone elses man. Why can't she find her own? I am really irritated at the whole thing. So, please ladies tell me what you would do.
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loose her quick. my friends husbands, boyfriends, "bennies", are totally off limits, even if they have broken up. i just don't want them no matter how attractive they are.
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To begin with, I would have never taken a *friend* with me to see him if she ever made that kind of comment about him. I have had a similar experience to this and after she said she would f#*k him, she did. Needless to say I will NEVER trust her around any of my men again. For reasons I can't go into now, she is still around. Our relationship is not and will never be what it used to be.

You need to get rid of that friend. With friends like that, who needs enemies. Sounds like to me that she will make every attempt to have your man.

Good Luck, I hope it does not turn out like mine did.
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That's what I would do anyways.

IF she was your REAL friend, why would she say that to you or even think it?!?!

Let me ask this, have you told him this?
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#1 take it from ex con here just gettin out almost 4 weeks now.

we call em birds or mmy personal fave which is PG'S we never take them serious. they are trouble.we know this with NO TYPE OF REAL LIFE.

we know it. if you have any respect for your self you do not go behind
ya friend or family member back to do this. PG'S dont last long,we will use them play em just as if we were on the outside cause we
will know easily what she is all about to go and do this to someone who is her own family or friend....

if i was you, listen to this member here. GET A NEW Friend. she aint worth much if she can do this.

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find a new friend for sure and why would u take her with u to see ur man just curious
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That's what I would do anyways.

IF she was your REAL friend, why would she say that to you or even think it?!?!

Let me ask this, have you told him this?
exactly. i c a m. with you LO.
and i know that you should never bring a girlfriend ugly cute gorgeous
pretty ok lookin tall short thick skinny whatever dont matter. DONT do it
cause that is YOUR TIME with YOUR GUY not hers.let her get her OWN pen pal. again we call those birds and or PG'S.coming from this Ex coni have no use for some one who can do that. they are not REAL women to me just PG'S who is not worth squat. actually she sound like my trifflent fast a--ss EX who i call C on here. i am glad i am done wit her.so happy.

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cause that is YOUR TIME with YOUR GUY not hers.let her get her OWN pen pal. .

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Girl, with friends like that, I damn sure hope you dont have enemies!!!
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