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Old 10-21-2018, 12:55 AM
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Good morning, Well I have three days and a wake up... till my honey is home he started the Texas Tour on Thursday night, first stop was Huntsville and now he is at the Beto Unit... They did pretty good about keeping the web undated where he is located.. I kind of wonder where the next stop will be or will they take him straight on to hutchins.. and when.. i always thought they didn't travel on the weekends,guess I was wrong! I will say after 5 years I am scared!!! I have changed alot since then 100lbs lighter,grayer ad my mind is in a totally different place Now I love him but i pray this homecoming goes according to plan!!! I AM SCARED
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I think everyone's scared and scarred. All you can do is breathe, because there's little you can control what's going to happen. Whatever you do, find time to relax, let go and let your muscles go slack, let your mind focus on nothingness. It's a mini-vacation for your whole body, and you're going to appreciate that.

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Good morning, Well I have three days and a wake up... till my honey is home he started the Texas Tour on Thursday night, first stop was Huntsville and now he is at the Beto Unit... They did pretty good about keeping the web undated where he is located.. I kind of wonder where the next stop will be or will they take him straight on to hutchins.. and when.. i always thought they didn't travel on the weekends,guess I was wrong! I will say after 5 years I am scared!!! I have changed alot since then 100lbs lighter,grayer ad my mind is in a totally different place Now I love him but i pray this homecoming goes according to plan!!! I AM SCARED
You just described every fear that I have had already and we are at the pre-plea stage even! My husband is looking at 3-5 years and I've constantly thought about how different we will be when he's home. As women we worry about things long before we need to or things we never need to worry about at all. Look at it as a "new beginning".... yes there are things that are going to be different and changed, but that happens to everyone, in every situation. What matters is how you both deal with them and if your bond has remained strong all this time then while there will more than likely be an adjustment period once he's home, in the end you'll figure it out. Just make sure that you are both comfortable enough to express yourselves about things that you want to stay the same as they are now and he is comfortable enough to express something he would like to be done differently.

You have hung in there for five years..... you go this!!!
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Congratulations!!! Go get yourself a haircut / color and a pedicure. With only a couple days to go, its time for YOU to treat yourself like the special person you are....not everyone can make this lifestyle for 5 years. You did it! You'll both be nervous, you'll both have changed in some ways. Try not to smother him, don't tell him what he should/shouldn't do and/or how to do "it" (anything!) unless he asks....he's been ordered around for 5 years and may or may not take it too well Be patient, both with him AND with yourself.



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msbabyface76, Now, you do know that we'll be wanting an update in a few days (sooner if ya can ) Please post your update in the Now That Your Loved One Is Home... forum, located HERE.
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I wonder how it's going for them....I wish them all the best!
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