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View Poll Results: Are you riding with your man or are you cheating?
Being loyal to your man 2,807 96.66%
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:52 PM
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I'm tired of people tryna hook me up with other men. I am riding with my husband because I love him and I don't have the desire to be with anyone else ever. I made the mistake of being with soemone else and almost lost him to another woman willing to wait for him but I will not let that happen again.

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I'm riding with him, on this bid.. but I can't answer this question if he decides to be released & get locked up again.
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Well I didnt answer the question cause my option isnt there but its not cheating cause I am riding with him all the way. I do more than lots of people and more for him than anyone else has done for him. I am caring for him, writing, visiting, loving, mentally, emotionally taking care of him but physically he isnt taking care of me and we have an agreement if I get that feeling I am free to do what I want safely (as to not catch anything or get pregnant) and not to get emotionally attached. I am one of those girls who can do that, most can not but I can. So I am not cheating and just cause I may have my occassional fling or what-have-u I am no less riding with him than anyone else. Everyone has their own situations whether their man is locked up or not. Some people have open marriages/relationships and they work just as well for that couple. To each there own but If you choose to stay celibate more power to ya and you should make that clear to anyone who would try to hook u up with the next man. If he does another bid I am backing out. Also my personal opinion if a man gets himself locked up they hae no right (unless maybe they are married) to say you cant be with anyone while I am in prison for X amount of years because I couldnt do the right thing and stay out of trouble so now we both must "pay for" what I did. If he wants to move on that easily maybe he doesnt love you as much to move on to a new chick just cause she says she is "waiting" for him. Why is waiting not having sex. I am still waiting for him. Just my POV.
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Same answer I always give in each of these threads on the same issue.
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This question is type asked over and over on this forum......Each relationship define their own terms, who are we to judge anyone on what they consider "riding for their love one" ....


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To honestly answer your question, this is my second bid and i wont ride another. its my goal to stay faithful and i pray for the power to do so. but if i fail then nothing can be said he was not faithful to me nor was he thinking of his family when he chose to start up dope again.

dont know how long he is down for yet but i can promise this, i will remain faithful as long as my body and mind will allow. if he gets a year should be no prob anything more cant swear to it and be honest.
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To honestly answer your question, this is my second bid and i wont ride another. its my goal to stay faithful and i pray for the power to do so. but if i fail then nothing can be said he was not faithful to me nor was he thinking of his family when he chose to start up dope again.

dont know how long he is down for yet but i can promise this, i will remain faithful as long as my body and mind will allow. if he gets a year should be no prob anything more cant swear to it and be honest.
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Me asking that question was not judging anyone in any way. I was just curious and I believe I can ask any question I want you are the one that has the choice to answer if you want or not.
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I am riding with my man whether I cheat on him or not,,,Wait! He never asked me to be faithful for 15 years so I guess I could never cheat!
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I'll ride till death do us part!!! But the fact remains that this life isn't for everyone and yes people do cheat you just have to ask yourself was/is it worth it?
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yeah my friends keep telling me about the nice guys they know.. Im like, What? I have a FIANCE. Remember???
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I chose to ride it out with my bf !!! yes there are some lonley nights but I pray to God every night for him to give me the strength to stay strong !!
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Me asking that question was not judging anyone in any way. I was just curious and I believe I can ask any question I want you are the one that has the choice to answer if you want or not.
That was my answer to your question, each person has different definition of what riding for their man is. I was not saying that you were judging or not, but rather that this is a question that a. has been asked over and over on PTO and b. obviously from the different respond everyone gave different type of respond...some people hold down their man but still have a sexual life, some people chose to wait on that as well, others have there different terms so really the question if your riding this out is one that can not be answer with a yes or no. I am saying since there is no concrete answer as to what is a prisoners wife/girlfriend there will be no concrete answer to your question.

And again, I was not saying your not entitled to ask any questions but the question is a repeated question that has gotten the same type of feedback and yes it was my choice to answer the question and also to respond back to your comment.

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I hope I make it through this with my man at the end. I would love to say I WILL NEVER CHEAT. But.....as we talked about tonight (he and I). He wasn't giving me a free pass but he wants to come home to me and he loves me and if something unforseen happens we will deal with it then. Frankly, I have never gone this long without and I don't know how someone does it other than one day at a time. So today, I am really ridin' with my man and I have no plans to do any differently.
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I second that!
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Honestly I'm not sure how I did it.... but 10yrs later (and a whole lot of "toys"later ) I've managed to be faithful. If it happened again I don't think my heart would give me the option not to ride it out because I gave him my heart the day that I met him and if 10 loooooooonnnnnnnggggggg years hasn't changed the way I feel nothing ever will. Like those of you have mentioned, we are all different and have different views on being there for our men, personally it would have broke my heart if I would've cheated so I thank God for giving me the strength to be so strong. This life is definitely not easy and I pray for everyone who chooses to live this way. Good luck ladies!
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I'm tired of people tryna hook me up with other men. I am riding with my husband because I love him and I don't have the desire to be with anyone else ever. I made the mistake of being with soemone else and almost lost him to another woman willing to wait for him but I will not let that happen again.
I wonder if anyone on this post would actually be honest enough to say they cheated?
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I wonder if anyone on this post would actually be honest enough to say they cheated?

IMO, I don't think so.

We had a short bid this time (36 mos), last one was only 24 mos, too. Collectively, we've done 4 years (5 years when he's finished) of this bull$hit, not too bad.. however, I wouldn't be able to answer this question if he had a long term sentence. As I alwaaaaaaays say, God bless the ones who do remain faithful during a long bid but as I said, if we had longer, I honestly don't know what I'd do until I was wearin' the shoes that I'd be walkin' in.
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To honestly answer your question, this is my second bid and i wont ride another. its my goal to stay faithful and i pray for the power to do so. but if i fail then nothing can be said he was not faithful to me nor was he thinking of his family when he chose to start up dope again.

dont know how long he is down for yet but i can promise this, i will remain faithful as long as my body and mind will allow. if he gets a year should be no prob anything more cant swear to it and be honest.
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