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Old 03-22-2018, 03:13 PM
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Hi all, didn't read all the posts. GF is in jail in Oakland County, MI. She was dodging her PBTs by drinking at night and they surprised her with an ETG one day. She was doing so well recovering from heroin addiction but the drinking was turning into a more frequent clutch.

She'll be away from me for 6 months. We're talking on the phone a lot. I've always loved her but we both know that it's the price of addiction. I'm hoping to work a side job to save up and leave Michigan. We both need a fresh start. By the time she is out she will almost have an entire year drug free. It sounds weak but she is a better more caring and understanding person each month.

She signed an exparte guardianship with her grandmom and she's afraid it will turn to full guardianship. She also wants to take care of other warrants.

I'll be reading the rest of you guys's posts. It sucks going to a cold bed.

I feel ya brotha my gf is here in a CA state prison we both are Heroin addicts too she will have 6 months clean when she paroles the judge made her serve her violation in state prison and county jail which was messed up but thats the price you pay right .. Iím going on almost 2 months clean and come here too and read post its comforting and I know how it feels to go to bed alone for me itís hard to sleep at night I donít think I will ever get used to it I miss that girl so damn bad Iím just trying to stay strong itís all I can do for us both use this place to talk and vent it helps ...stay strong and have a good day
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Old 03-22-2018, 03:56 PM
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For all you guys here that are holding down your loved one and fighting other battles keep the faith. I hope only good things come yalls way. It was refreshing to see how many strong faithful men there actually are here. This is my 1st time venturing over here to read from a man's perspective. Thank u for sharing with us and hold tight.
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For all you guys here that are holding down your loved one and fighting other battles keep the faith. I hope only good things come yalls way. It was refreshing to see how many strong faithful men there actually are here. This is my 1st time venturing over here to read from a man's perspective. Thank u for sharing with us and hold tight.
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Helllllooooo husbands, boyfriends, good friends and partners of our female inmates! How's it going? Anyone have news to share? A grievance to air? A joke? A song to get stuck in our head?
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I'm just going to put this here. Maybe y'all can relate.
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Yeah guys, sorry, dealing with Dee stuff. Doing okay. "Holding serve" at the moment. At least she is not back in custody for anything, so thankful for that.

Just remember that post-release, while it will definitely vary from person to person (for those it is coming to,) definitely will come with its challenges. You'll have your good days and your bad. And just because someone's been out 3 months, 6 months, a year......doesn't mean you're "out of the woods."

Hope everyone's doing all right. It's okay to chat even when I'm not around as much, you know.

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Yeah guys, sorry, dealing with Dee stuff. Doing okay. "Holding serve" at the moment. At least she is not back in custody for anything, so thankful for that.

Just remember that post-release, while it will definitely vary from person to person (for those it is coming to,) definitely will come with its challenges. You'll have your good days and your bad. And just because someone's been out 3 months, 6 months, a year......doesn't mean you're "out of the woods."

Hope everyone's doing all right. It's okay to chat even when I'm not around as much, you know.

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I totally get what you mean about not being "out of the woods" when they come home. AN is doing very well, but there are some difficult things going on around her.

I have been trying to help and keep in contact with those that helped AN when she was inside, but not doing a great job of it. I hate that I have to put people on tasks lists before I write them.
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Yeah guys, sorry, dealing with Dee stuff. Doing okay. "Holding serve" at the moment. At least she is not back in custody for anything, so thankful for that.

Just remember that post-release, while it will definitely vary from person to person (for those it is coming to,) definitely will come with its challenges. You'll have your good days and your bad. And just because someone's been out 3 months, 6 months, a year......doesn't mean you're "out of the woods."

Hope everyone's doing all right. It's okay to chat even when I'm not around as much, you know.

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Glad things are going as well as can be expected. Developments on our end -

Tammy finally got permission to "work in classrooms" and "assist" instructors"! She can't "teach" because of her conviction but she's doing it unofficially and enjoying it a lot! She's still "head librarian" but not spending much time working in it. Needless to say, she's extremely busy, which helps time pass.

She found a lump in her breast a couple of weeks ago. She's supposed to get a hospital examination, hopefully soon. Very worrisome. Some women she knows had breast surgery. The state won't pay for any reconstructive surgery or even bra breast forms to make victims look and feel less damaged.

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Tammy finally got permission to "work in classrooms" and "assist" instructors"![...]
She found a lump in her breast a couple of weeks ago. She's supposed to get a hospital examination, hopefully soon.
Very happy to hear about her new work assignment! Teaching is one of those things that's in your blood an it's hard to not be able to do it. I'm glad for her.

I'll be thinking positive thoughts for her medical exam. I know they can drag their feet on these things. Please tell her there are prayers going up for you both.
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Old 06-04-2018, 10:53 AM
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Very happy to hear about her new work assignment! Teaching is one of those things that's in your blood an it's hard to not be able to do it. I'm glad for her.

I'll be thinking positive thoughts for her medical exam. I know they can drag their feet on these things. Please tell her there are prayers going up for you both.

Thanks. She's excited! It's good for her to be able to do what she loved. She doesn't care that she's doing work others are getting paid for. The 13th Amendment's alive and flourishing.

I'm hoping they'll take her to the hospital this week. The prison contract doctor only works a defined number of hours per week and treats people on a triage basis. The more serious/immediate the problem, the more likely it is to be addressed in a timely manner. Prison medical care is socialized medicine at its absolute worst.
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Mine was just offered a job as a teaching assistant also. Instead of the original kitchen work. She says she's much happier with the teaching assistant job.
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Mine was just offered a job as a teaching assistant also. Instead of the original kitchen work. She says she's much happier with the teaching assistant job.

Tammy absolutely hated working in the kitchen! She's had every job in there. Library was her favorite until she got assigned to classroom work. Despite enjoying the library, it has a couple irritants for her. She has a PC and phone on her desk. The phone's limited to the internal prison system and the PC isn't connected to the Internet. They're constant reminders of what she can't do.
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What's everyone got going on for their Fourth of July? Anyone getting an extra visit in this week?
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What's everyone got going on for their Fourth of July? Anyone getting an extra visit in this week?

Just got back from our EXTRA visit! We (including our daughter Sarah and Tammy's sister) had a family breakfast at Tammy's mom's place then we went to visit. We got there early but the line was already pretty long. It was as crowded as I expected it to be but most couples went to the patio, leaving some room in the VR. We got 3 full hours. We went back to mom's house, fired up the grill and had marinated chicken breasts, coleslaw, etc. I hit the road after lunch. Not going to fireworks displays. It's hot, humid and may shower. I'll spend a quiet evening and go to bed early. I'm always excited driving down (singing "Anticipation" now ;~) ). The drive home wears me out.


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Just got back from our EXTRA visit! We (including our daughter Sarah and Tammy's sister) had a family breakfast at Tammy's mom's place then we went to visit. We got there early but the line was already pretty long. It was as crowded as I expected it to be but most couples went to the patio, leaving some room in the VR. We got 3 full hours. We went back to mom's house, fired up the grill and had marinated chicken breasts, coleslaw, etc. I hit the road after lunch. Not going to fireworks displays. It's hot, humid and may shower. I'll spend a quiet evening and go to bed early. I'm always excited driving down (singing "Anticipation" now ;~) ). The drive home wears me out.


Yay so happy you had a good visit. I'm the same way on the way down very excited to get there the drive doesn't seem like it takes forever but on the way home it seems to drag and I just want to get home and go to bed I'm sure it's that way for everybody. Happy Fourth of July to you and your wife
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