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I sent my boyfriend some important legal forms while he was still in reception but he got transferred before he received them ...does anyone know what happens to the mail ???
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Welcome to HDSP's 2012
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Anything and everything pertaining to the mail.
IE; Is mail going slow inside? How long is mail taking
from them being mailed out to us?, etc.

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I sent my boyfriend some important legal forms while he was still in reception but he got transferred before he received them ...does anyone know what happens to the mail ???

At best it will be returned to the mail room and re-distributed but he will get it.
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My husband isn't getting my mail. Anyone else having problems with their mail?
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My husband isn't getting my mail. Anyone else having problems with their mail?
I've been experiencing the same problem: I've heard from my boy once since this LD and have been quite antsy without a response to the letters I send him!
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I sent my my man stamped envelopes and paper on the 5th of this month and its a;ready the 21st ..wonder why he hasn't gotten his stuff ???
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I sent my boyfriend some important legal forms while he was still in reception but he got transferred before he received them ...does anyone know what happens to the mail ???

It gets re-routed and eventually reaches them. Legal mail seems to be delivered quicker than regular mail... but if the documents were time sensitive and you are able to send them again, I'd go with that. It can take a couple weeks at the least for re-route mail to reach them.
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I have gotten letters from my Husband with other letters inside wrote to other females. I know the guards do this just to get the men in trouble with there wifes or girlfriends. Has it ever happened to you?
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I couldnt image that. Was it in his hand writting
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Yes he wrote the letters cause I asked him, and he says yes and went on and told me they didn't mean anything he just wrote them cause he was bored. They were some of his cellies friends.
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Oooh nay nay.... I would be pretty pissed off.

I wouldn't blame the guards, though... I'd be angry with him. Just sayin'...
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That wouldn't fly with me. If he was bored he could write you not random females..don't overlook obvious signs in front of you. That is your husband!!! In my book he has no excuse for writing females. Friends I could overlook but reaching out to random females...NO WAY!!!! Just my opinion
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No this hasn't ever happened to me but oh if it did my man would be two seconds to being kicked to the CURB ASAP.!!!

Girl the guards did you a favor to show you what your "husband" has been up too!!! im sorry but the whole "i was bored so lets write females that aren't my wife" !!!

Come on, you cannot buy that excuse. he wrote these other females because he wanted to NOT because he was "supposedly" BORED!!!

No matter if these "letters" are harmless or not your husband shouldn't be writing other females that are not you. Period.!! JMO!!!
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Everyone has different limits if she isn't mad about it then let her be. J writes other females they have been friends for longer then I have known him...if they were just friendly letters and she is good why does everyone else feel the need to get her all worked up about it?
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Are you not taking the guards HINTS!?
Your husband, in my opinion, isn't being faithful to you & the guards are putting it right in your face!
If he's bored he should be writing his WIFE.
I'd be soo pissed if my man wrote another female!
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I'd be thankful to the guards and move the hell on!! If a man can't be faithful in prison no way he will be out here... A husband at that!!! Smh.
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I have gotten letters from my Husband with other letters inside wrote to other females. I know the guards do this just to get the men in trouble with there wifes or girlfriends. Has it ever happened to you?

Hell no and if it did there would some shit stirred up!

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hell no im sorry but if it were me id be gone out of his life dont matter how many years we been together if i was second best in the first place with other females in his life i will be in the end
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I'm curious to know, what did the letters say?

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Stuff that should not have came out his mouth that's for sure. I told him ok you write other females cause your bored, so it's ok for me to write other men cause I am also bored. He said HELL NO you can't. I told him to bad what you can do so can I we are equal. But am seriously thinking about just walking away.
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Stuff that should not have came out his mouth that's for sure. I told him ok you write other females cause your bored, so it's ok for me to write other men cause I am also bored. He said HELL NO you can't. I told him to bad what you can do so can I we are equal. But am seriously thinking about just walking away.
I'd tell him you need a break to see if being in the marriage is even worth it anymore. Give him time to think. If he's begging at your feet for you to come back & actually means it - there's your answer. If he doesn't care or doesn't try to get you back - I'd get those divorce papers ready!

I'm by no means a good one to give advice about relationships.. The one I'm in has been a roller coaster.. just giving you my input & what I would do! Good luck.
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Hi everyone! I just ran out of envelopes and just threw some in my shopping cart. They're security lined and have only purchased plain ones thus far. Can I send them? Sorry if this is a really stupid question. This is a very important personal letter and I don't want something so menial to prevent him from getting this.
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Yes you can , thats the only kind I send

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Does anyone know how long its currently taking for mail to get in and out?
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Can someone tell me if I can send prestamped envelopes to my husband directly from the post office? By the time I leave work, and get my kids... I don't have time to go into the post office. So I was wondering if there is a way of me purchasing them online, I've looked but I want to make sure I'm sending the write type of prestamped envelopes so that they don't get returned. Thank you!
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