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View Poll Results: Would do "the dirty" in the VP and chance losing your visits?
Yes it doesn't matter I want that with my man! 4 1.41%
Yes if I could if I felt we could get away with it! 50 17.67%
No my visits are more important then that minute or two! 213 75.27%
I don't know maybe maybe not 16 5.65%
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There is never a blind spot in most prisons and that risk just seems not worth it because some wardens will do more the just restrict your visits. It's not good to play with fire cuz you can get burned.
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Our time together is something I value more than anything right now. The hugs we share at the beginning and end of our weekly visits is what carries me through until the next week. Would I risk losing it? Not for nothing in the world.
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just remember that at any point in time they can lie and take your visits anyway. i know many people who will never be able to visit again and there isn't anything that they can do about it. the FDOC is the worst. they hate families and they hate visitors. they took everything from us and we can prove they lied yet no one is willing to do anything about it. i visited every Saturday, Sunday and holiday for 9 1/2 years and then ACI lied and took our visits and there isn't anything we can do about. We never broke any rules.
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This is a tough one. I want to start by saying I DEFINITELY wouldn't do "the dirty"...The visitation area has an inside and an outside. No one monitors the outside, other than a quick walk-around every 45 min or so. But there's a guard sitting on the inside area. We noticed after my first visit that one couple who was outside with us was making out a lot. I was so jealous. Before the second visit (I go weekly), he said "next time I'm sneaking more kisses". So, we do that because there isn't anyone out there. However, we wouldn't try anything more than that.
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I wouldn't do anything that isn't allowed at a visit. If we lost those out time would be pretty horrible. And I would never risk losing our visit for an extra kiss or a touch. Beside my husband says he doesn't ever want to be aroused durring a visit when he has to go back to a box he lives in with a man. And I agree. How horrible that must be. So we do what's allowed and that's it. We will have lots of time to make up for what's missed when he's home.
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Hey, ladies, I'm very new to the whole prison/having a boyfriend inside. I mean I knew him my whole life and I been there from day one and somehow we fell in love with each other. Now it's much harder for me than anything but we do enjoy our visit and there are those days you can get away with the small things so if it's a big tongue kiss a rubbing on him or you without anyone seeing hugging kiss without a CO getting at you ok and if you go as much you will know the day the time the ones who won't care and the ones who will, so it's cool every now and then I mean they need that love it keeps their head up
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... The visitation area has an inside and an outside. No one monitors the outside, other than a quick walk-around every 45 min or so. But there's a guard sitting on the inside area. We noticed after my first visit that one couple who was outside with us was making out a lot. I was so jealous. Before the second visit (I go weekly), he said "next time I'm sneaking more kisses". So, we do that because there isn't anyone out there. However, we wouldn't try anything more than that.
Our patio's finally open! There was only one officer and she's not interested in anything as far as I can tell. She hardly looks around, let alone circulates. I hope she's assigned permanently!
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Our patio's finally open! There was only one officer and she's not interested in anything as far as I can tell. She hardly looks around, let alone circulates. I hope she's assigned permanently!


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I always felt there wasn't anything worth risking my visits for.
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I always felt there wasn't anything worth risking my visits for.
There isnt....no matter what guard is more lenient then the other you will get caught and the consequences will be harsh. Sometimes they act that way so you do get caught. My hubby was in the lowest level visiting room at one point where there wasn't even cameras and we did nothing to risk them. One lady used to let other guys go into the bathroom with their gfs to have sex....but we never did. We are grown and can wait. Definitely not worth losing our visits and getting more time. Good luck with all that.
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At our visit my guy kept rubbing my face. Getting hair out of my face when a strand would fly over or when I got a crumb in the corner of my mouth when eating. After a couple hours a guard came over and very politely told him they got a call and he has to stop touching my face. I guess someone somewhere else saw it on the camera. That was that. No more nothing. I spent way too much money and came too far to get kicked out of a visit. They didn't mind the hand holding or he'll grab my leg while playing or i'll rub his arms admiring his tattoos...I noticed others were doing much of the same as well so figured it was pretty normal. However after he told him stop touching my face I didn't want him to touch me period. I didn't want to risk it.
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just remember that at any point in time they can lie and take your visits anyway. i know many people who will never be able to visit again and there isn't anything that they can do about it. the FDOC is the worst. they hate families and they hate visitors. they took everything from us and we can prove they lied yet no one is willing to do anything about it. i visited every Saturday, Sunday and holiday for 9 1/2 years and then ACI lied and took our visits and there isn't anything we can do about. We never broke any rules.
I don't think this is true. A good law clerk can get visits back. Ours have been lost several times. It takes Marty about 6 months but, it's doable.
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I don't think this is true. A good law clerk can get visits back. Ours have been lost several times. It takes Marty about 6 months but, it's doable.
I have a couple questions: 1) Are you visiting in a state facility or within the FBOP? 2) Who is Marty and what is the fee for having work done to reinstate visitation privileges?

I am in the middle of a battle over False Positives on the FBOP stupid ION Scanners. I am going through the long appeal process, but so far have had no success. I am on to Central Offices at this point and legal action will have to be next.
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I have a couple questions: 1) Are you visiting in a state facility or within the FBOP? 2) Who is Marty and what is the fee for having work done to reinstate visitation privileges?

I am in the middle of a battle over False Positives on the FBOP stupid ION Scanners. I am going through the long appeal process, but so far have had no success. I am on to Central Offices at this point and legal action will have to be next.
I am speaking of State of Florida issues but, it should be the same process on any level.

Marty is a 32 year lifer I know and he's a law clerk. There should be no 'fee'.
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We talked about this. NOTHING is worth losing our visits together. We can both be completely frustrated, but not crossing that line. It is disrespectful of each other and every one else in the visiting park. Being able to hold hands, hug and kiss at the start and the end, and being able to talk face to face is PRECIOUS time.
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I would never risk visits I travel too far and appreciate the time with him so much.
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