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Default And... It's still over (doesn't matter that he's changed his mind now)

So, MrB is back in trouble and has decided he doesn't want it to be over now. He regrets leaving me...Even though, according to him, he didn't really "leave me", he just needed a "break". I'm playing nice because I want him to actually sign the divorce papers when he gets them, but he thinks we're still happily married.
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Its his loss my love, you have found your happiness now so do what you need to get those papers signed and then go girl go go go. Enjoy your first love you deserve every happiness.
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Ah, yes, he remembers that you were the cushion so he didn't have to hit bottom while he was in....funny about that.
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Ah, yes, he remembers that you were the cushion so he didn't have to hit bottom while he was in....funny about that.
I've pointed that out to him a couple of times...
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I was wondering how you're doing and he's in la-la-land obviously.
Kind of funny if it wouldn't be so sad... he screwed up big time a you came out on top (literally I hope ). Keep us posted!
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So, MrB is back in trouble and has decided he doesn't want it to be over now. He regrets leaving me...Even though, according to him, he didn't really "leave me", he just needed a "break". I'm playing nice because I want him to actually sign the divorce papers when he gets them, but he thinks we're still happily married.
Men think they are so slick!! They need us when they locked up, but once they out .. and they try to keep you dangling cause they know you'll take them back ,stand your ground!! mine get out and went back to his ex, but I'm stronger for it..stood by him for 9 years.
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Im shocked (she says in sarcastic font)
Here is to hoping he signs papers.
Not sure if whichever state ends up processing them, that its going to happen regardless if he signs or not. (no fault? or some such wording)
It just takes a bit longer is all.

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Ah, what a surprise So happy that you can see through it all and have moved on.... I hope the divorce proceedings go smoothly and you can leave MrB in the dust
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Im shocked (she says in sarcastic font)
Here is to hoping he signs papers.
Not sure if whichever state ends up processing them, that its going to happen regardless if he signs or not. (no fault? or some such wording)
It just takes a bit longer is all.

Good for you Izzy.
I actually talked to my attorney's office today. I'm filing in Illinois and under IL law, he will have so many days to respond... If not, I will be granted the divorce by default.
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Kind of funny if it wouldn't be so sad... he screwed up big time a you came out on top (literally I hope ). Keep us posted!
I am so on top... On cloud 9, too.

I think he's getting the idea that he really screwed the pooch.
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I think he's getting the idea that he really screwed the pooch.
Let's hope so, I so truly wish you the very very best!!
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He's giving me a headache. The plus side is I'm still with my first love and beyond happy.

Good...Yep. Let him "Assume" you're um happy just til' he sign those papers.
I don't blame you for doing it this way chica. I hope he sign em soon. Of course he know now "what he lost."Then again as you're saying, "He just think we were on a break" or he needed 1. Typical jerk. JMHO on that.I hope you remain happy w/out him. Let us know when/if he sign those papers!

Fricken amazin' how a guy can have the BEST WOMAN he shall EVER meet.

Then, when he lose her he is "then" tellin' her how he f---ked up and how he really "never left her or wanted to leave her et.al.,"blah blah blah... Once a woman move on?I always smile knowing that she is doing the right thing.If the woman does not go back, she will be 100x happier. jmho
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