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Old 12-31-2004, 07:19 AM
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Default He will be home in 90 days!!! need plans!

My husband/baby daddy! will be home in 90 days. We have worked together for the past 3-4 months to plan a trip to Disney world for 3 weeks after his return. ( he has been down for 3 years!!!!) But i want to so something special for him when he gets home. any suggestions.
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Old 12-31-2004, 07:20 AM
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bathtub full of jello sounds fun.
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Old 12-31-2004, 07:28 AM
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LOL busman you crack me up!

Nykole ~ congratulations on your upcoming reunion. DisneyWorld sounds like a lot of fun. As for the special something you can do well I bet just being home with you will be special enough. How about fixing his favorite meal and seeing how things go. Sometimes it's best not to do too much preplanning and just let things happen.

Now here is a reminder from me to you. In the days ahead please take care of yourself, get plenty of rest and take your vitamins as you will need your strength both emotionally and physically in the days ahead.

I look forward to hearing about your happy homecoming. Please keep us posted. Oh and one more thing, whatever you do please do not bother to clean behind the refrigerator, trust me he ain't gonna move it to check! =)

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Old 12-31-2004, 07:56 AM
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congrats on his homecoming.
my husband came home 4 months ago after being gone for 10 years. I just let things happen without any planning and we had a wonderful time together.
be sure to take care of yourself in these next 3 months. these will be the worst times of the process. your going to feel every emotion possiable, one day you'll be up, another day you'll be down. don't allow these emotion's to take over you, just do what you can for today.
I wanted to do something really special for my husband for Christmas, but money wouldn't allow it this year. when I apoligised to him, he said" just being home with me was so very special, that nothing I could do would be more special to him".
remember that, of all the things you can do to make this day special, having you there with him will be the most special of all.
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Old 12-31-2004, 08:01 AM
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Congratulations! When my husband came home, I took some time off work and we had a lot of "us" time. We actually visited several of his relatives and just sort of hung out. It sounds boring or hokey, I guess, but we just wanted to be together.
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Old 12-31-2004, 08:57 AM
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Well I was going to suggest a limo like I plan on doing but Disney World is probably going to take a nice bit of your change. Nice plan by the way.

How about a "King for a Day" day. Like you just leave it up to him...if he wants sex give him some (lol sure you won't mind that), if he wants to go see relatives, or even just sit out on the porch and breathe some fresh air. LOL, if you really wanna get into it then buy him a crown. Just let him know that today its all about you and I'm here to grant your every wish. I'm sure that would mean a lot to him.
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Old 12-31-2004, 10:39 AM
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Congrats--90 days!! WooHoo!! My Sweetie will be home in 94 days....he has been gone for almost 5 years. I am planning to take that 1st week off work and just be with him. He has pretty much planned out everything. He just wants to be with me and his family...also, he wants to eat at every restaurant. I told him that if he did that, he'll be awfully sick!! LOL

Yes, get some rest, as I will have to do. I'll just play it by ear because he's got his own plans!!!
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Old 12-31-2004, 03:21 PM
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Just for the record - jello is FOOD at our house...

I would suggest you ask your man what he wants. When bus got out he just wanted to come home and have some privacy. His plan was to order a pizza and eat it while taking a long hot bath ALONE with no one else in the house. Didn't mean he didn't want to be with me - he wanted some privacy. We had our personal time together... You must understand EVERYTHING they do is monitored by someone else - showers, dressing, and I will stop there. Bus also didn't do large crowds for a while until he adjusted to having some freedom to move around. I would have some ideas, but don't plan too heavy because he is also adjusting to being out of prison. It will take a while for both of you to adjust to being with each other. If he is up for an outing - go for it but take it slow.
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Congrats!
When my guy came home I took some time off work and like E1950 said I just let things happen as they would,didn't plan to much just took things as they came at his pace,whatever he felt like doing.......
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Old 12-31-2004, 10:27 PM
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congradulations!!!!!!!!!!!!

what ever you do will be great!!
he is just going to be so happy to be in the free world with you.!!!
a cute nighty
candles
some nice food
fresh flowers

his toilitries

have fun!!
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Old 01-01-2005, 10:04 AM
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Wow! Ya'll are lucky....boo will be going to a halfway house when he gets out.
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Old 01-10-2005, 09:20 AM
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Ya'll have given some wonderful ideas. As i stated earlier, i planned a trip to Disney World for My husband, our 3 kids and myself. Which he and I are soooo looking forward to. But that is 2 weeks after hs release. But i have come up with a plan for the wekend that he is released. He since being in there has fallen in love with that New Chrysler 300. So i have reserved one of them to pick him up. i have packed his stuff and will be picking him up at 10:00 A.M. on saturday April 2nd. We will then be driving to Virginia Beach where i have made reservations for an oceanfront suite. From there What ever happens happens!!!!
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Old 01-11-2005, 12:18 PM
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I only have 70 days to go and I cant decide on what to do either. Poppa says what ever I want to do is fine with him....more like
"Come home take a shower, have a drink, and tap that.....but I want to make it as special as possible.

Any one know of romantic hotels in the los angeles area..specifically with a jucuzzi in the room????
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Old 01-16-2005, 02:40 PM
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When my husband comes home I think I'm reserve a room for us to stay in at a nice hotel in NYC and us just act like fools in there. I won't be taking my traditional week off though because when I've done that in the past I wound up spending that time alone at home because he was out runnin the streets. He's saying he's done with all that and that he's gonna be more homeward bound this time but I think we'll have a nice time in one of Manhattan's ritziest hotels.
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Old 01-19-2005, 10:57 AM
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Well I have a whopping 669 days left until my boo comes home so I have plenty of time to plan something really special. We have already discussed going to the Bahamas when he comes home just the two of us. I too plan to take some days off but probably not the first couple as I know he has to get time with his family and get his head right. I think the limo idea or a car rental would be nice. Especially if it takes you too a nice hotel for the day. These are some of the idea I have. Even to take them out to a nice dinner would be nice. Have fun!
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