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View Poll Results: if you had the chance to get pregnant would you?
yes 897 38.37%
no 1,039 44.44%
maybe 307 13.13%
can't decide 95 4.06%
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Old 09-06-2011, 06:32 PM
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I said yes because we want another one, and by the time he is released i will be to old. I love him and finances aren't a problem.
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Old 09-06-2011, 07:48 PM
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I said yes because I am not able to have children...I had to have a hysterectomy and never had the chance to conceive a child. I would give ANYTHING to have that opportunity with my husband! So regardless if he was in there for 20 years or out here, as long as I could have a child with him, I would do it in an instant!
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I would take the chance. I am 24 he is 29 with no kids. depending on how long he would be gone because I don't know yet i probably would
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Absolutely!!! My love has served 13 years of a 25 to life sentence. (They gave him an estimated year of release of 2025) I have to think of ways to fulfill our life goals and having a baby is one of our goals. I know how hard it will be as a single parent but I will not wait until its to late than regret not having his child. This is not the way I would have planned but I would do anything for my Love, he is an amazing man and he deserves a complete family!
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I said yes because I am not able to have children...I had to have a hysterectomy and never had the chance to conceive a child. I would give ANYTHING to have that opportunity with my husband! So regardless if he was in there for 20 years or out here, as long as I could have a child with him, I would do it in an instant!
Im sorry to hear that.. I dont believe I can have children either but I want one with him more than anything and I am gonna see a fertility specialist before he comes home..

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Me & Von talked about it on plenty occasions and since he hopefully only has 10 yrs left we want to have 1 while he's still inside I am already a single mother of 1 child and von has no children but ever since we were young he's wanted kids he LOVES them he's wants 4 (zeesh) but I told him when we get married he can get his Baby
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I just posted this thread in another forum a few days ago, but i think i will do it, i do have 2 small children, (not by him) and yes it is hard but he really wants one really bad, if i get pregnant like next year the baby will still be young (5yrs)when he gets out and with family visits he or she can see daddy every 3months for the weekend, i dont think its bad because its just like having a baby by a man in the army or something i think its a good idea
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if he's a life no. im sorry but i would have to move on
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I think its already hard to raise kids on your own and he would have to wait to contribute 100% like me..
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No i wouldnt even consider that. i am 64 so it would not be possable anyway. Awoman and a child need that family unit to make there life complete. This is just my opinon but the child has no choice but the parents need to make the right one for the child.
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Old 09-24-2011, 10:38 PM
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YES--if there was a way..No conjugal visits in Az, n my man has 14 yrs to go...putting me in my early 40s when he's released
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Absolutely!!!! My love is LWOP and 0 conjugals in Oregon State! But, I'd love to have a lil precious piece of him to link us for life!!
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Old 09-25-2011, 09:45 AM
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no i am raising 2 alone so i wouldnt purposely do it alone. except in the case of medical reasons maybe
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Absolutely NO. My honey got locked up when our daughter was only a month old. It had been the hardest thing ever to raise our lil one without him. I have full support from both my family & his but it just isn't the same. We planned our princess and for that reason it breaks my heart that we ain't able to raise her together. Even tho we write, talk & visit him it breaks both his & my heart when all our princess wants to do is stay or go with her daddy. We both know that She will only be 6 yrs old when he comes home but those are some of the best years & he is missing out!
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Nope I would not do it. It would not be fair to my kid or myself. Since my man is doing such a short time I would wait until he got out. Infact when he gets out that is what we are going to do is focus on a baby
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I think guys want to get their ladys pregnant. Look at their point of view. Their locked up, in there they want to get released and go home to their families & for some stay outta of trouble. Getting their lady pregnant ensures that & ensures their ladys theirs! Now would I do it if my guy asked??? Yea I would. You know why? Cuz dispite the stress of paying bills, being a single mom, or what it'll do to the kids, life is always going to be hard with or without him. The real question is do you really love him? I know I do... & I'll do any thing he'd ask.
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I wouldn't n even if I did my man wouldn't want me too. He is heart broken cuz he isn't around our kids right now. He would only do it if I got pregnant the month before he came home. We both want him to be there for the pregnancy and the birth...
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I'm not sure if I would or not. We arn't married so no conjugal visits and we won't get married before he is out even though I would in a heartbeat. If the option were available I might depending on his take on the situation. He has always been the one I want to have a family with and having to wait these three years to get that chance is going to kill me.
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i was just wondering if you had a chance to get prenant while he was still in would you take the oppurtunity or would you wait until he gets out. but if your boyfriend was in there for life and you don't have that option to wait would you just go ahead and get pregnant?
I would either way me and my baby are.going.to be.good I would for the simple fact of cause one he comes home I wouldnt be due yet lol
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My man was sentenced to 10 years in April =/ I was a mess... we have 4 kids already. Well in August they told me I was 20 weeks pregnant #5. i had no idea I was pregnant. If he asked me after this..Id say NO! 5 IS ENOUGH ALONE =)
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I said yes because I am not able to have children...I had to have a hysterectomy and never had the chance to conceive a child. I would give ANYTHING to have that opportunity with my husband! So regardless if he was in there for 20 years or out here, as long as I could have a child with him, I would do it in an instant!
I'm in the same situation -I can't have children -and feel exactly the same way. I would do anything to be able to have our baby.
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with his baby or someone else's baby? LOL
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NO now let me explain we already have two children together who i stand beside through it all i see the pain in there eyes and feel the hurt in their heart daily it is a living hell for a child to have to stand up and face a parent in prison and personally i belive anyone who knowing the daddy is going to be locked up and still bring that baby into it is wrong sorry if i made anyone mad but that is just the cold hard facts of what it dose to a child
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