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View Poll Results: if you had the chance to get pregnant would you?
yes 897 38.37%
no 1,039 44.44%
maybe 307 13.13%
can't decide 95 4.06%
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Old 08-03-2011, 10:41 AM
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Old 08-03-2011, 01:49 PM
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Hahaha love it! My boyfriend found it funny but no where near as funny as I did. It didn't help that every time I had work I saw them and laughed. I hope all goes well with the appeal and the wedding as well xx

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haha seriously it cracks me up too lol! And aw thanks, this appeal stuff is insane but hopefully the truth will come out and he will come home... its rough ughhh lol and awwww thanks i cant wait until im officially his wife =) im super duper excited...
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Old 08-03-2011, 07:16 PM
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yes, I am 41 no kids and Raven maybe out this year if not in the next couple. My clock is ticking.
Agreed, tick tick tick. lol
Im 34, so I know just what you are talking about. My man gets out next year, so not like I would be alone for long

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Old 08-03-2011, 07:18 PM
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I would in a heart beat.... Ive always loved and wanted children. And my man has always wanted children to me ( something we talked about before we were even together lol ) My man will be out next year. But even if that wasnt the case, I would still want to have a child to him <3
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Old 08-03-2011, 09:50 PM
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i said NO... only b/c we found out that we were pregnant a week before he self-surrendered.... Luckily he's only sentenced to 6 months and is due to be released 6 weeks prior to the due date... But I'm going through this on my own. The morning sickness... the aches and pains...the joys of the pregnancy.... the doctor visits... having to buy up all of the stuff for the baby... and I'm doing this all on one income, now... as well as taking care of my bills, his bills and our bills... not to mention I'm also a full time student...

I'm ecstatic to be pregnant, don't get me wrong.... but I definitely would not have CHOSEN to do this with him locked away. Can't wait for him to get home.
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Old 08-04-2011, 02:11 AM
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i said NO... only b/c we found out that we were pregnant a week before he self-surrendered.... Luckily he's only sentenced to 6 months and is due to be released 6 weeks prior to the due date... But I'm going through this on my own. The morning sickness... the aches and pains...the joys of the pregnancy.... the doctor visits... having to buy up all of the stuff for the baby... and I'm doing this all on one income, now... as well as taking care of my bills, his bills and our bills... not to mention I'm also a full time student...

I'm ecstatic to be pregnant, don't get me wrong.... but I definitely would not have CHOSEN to do this with him locked away. Can't wait for him to get home.
I think I've mentioned b4 but I'm in the same boat as you! My hubby will be home about a month b4 the baby comes.. it sucks going thru it alone. And I can't wait to have mine home either!

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Old 08-04-2011, 03:39 PM
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if they give me the chance watever happens happens
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Old 08-05-2011, 03:48 AM
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Yes it's our prerogative & perhaps children are blessings to each's own!
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No I wouldn't, I wouldn't want to deal with all the UPS and downs. Pregnancy can bring by myself and I wouldnt want him missing out on the beginning of our babys life. I can wait for him to get home so he can be involved in our babys life
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I'm not gonna lie...we had unprotected sex like...three times before he got locked up. I'm probably not pregnant...but if I am, in no way will I regret it. To have a part of him with me while he's gone...selfishly would be amazing. If I thought he'd be serving a long sentence I'd prob think differently but most he'll get five I'm guessing...the kid would be so loved. So yes, I would get pregnant during my man's bid...
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praise jesus we only had 6 months. but yes if he wanted me to I would. in fact im begining to wonder if im pregnant now :/ my boobs are huge, i have horrible heartburn, i crave lemonade but the smell of it is making me puke, along with swollen feet, and mood swings like nothing ive ever had. if i am im 10 weeks today. i hope I am but at the same time idk...
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I feel goin to the doc Monday think I just had a miscarriage
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I feel goin to the doc Monday think I just had a miscarriage
I'm so sorry to hear that i had one myself they r hard to get thru

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I feel goin to the doc Monday think I just had a miscarriage
I'm so sorry to hear that i had one myself they r hard to get through especially if your SO isn't there with u..i hope the doctor has good news for u just try to take it easy until Monday

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Old 08-06-2011, 06:50 AM
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thx but if it is I didn't even know i was pregnant
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Old 08-06-2011, 11:40 AM
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Me and my husband had two. One planned and one a total surprise. It does get so very hard. I must admit that sometimes I wish I would have just waited.
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thx but if it is I didn't even know i was pregnant
I had my miscarriage at 4wks if i didn't take a pregnancy test the week before i wouldn't have known i was preggo i wulda just thought it was my period

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i wouldn't do it because i'm married.why get married and then have a child on him? thats my question,not just to you but to anyone who will ask me that question.then another reason why i wouldn't do it is because my baby gonna get out one day so why not wait.even thou i'll be like 26 it still isn't late cause i don't want them many kids plus i always said i don't want any kids til i'm 25.i say i'll wait but you know everybody situation isn't the same.
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If he was a lifer, and I didn't have children, I would probably want one by him. But we do have a child together (and I have 2 from a previous marriage) and I went through the pregnancy, labour, delivery, c-section, recovery and now a year of raising our little girl by myself. He was obviously out when I got pregnant. Under the present circumstances, we are planning to have another one but we are waiting for him to get out, be off paper and move up to Canada. Then we'll get pregnant again. I'm not doing this by myself again.
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Old 08-06-2011, 07:59 PM
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I wouldn't have a baby on him but u knw u can pay off COs to get a conjugical visit whether it's allowed or not
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How can you do that? Pay off a co to have a conjual visit? Just curious :-) bc I sure wouldn't mind trying it but I don't want to get charged for bribery lol
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I wouldn't have a baby on him but u knw u can pay off COs to get a conjugical visit whether it's allowed or not
Lmao my babe is totaly convinsed he can talk a CO into letting us at least in a closet for a visit nd look the other way we always joke bout it
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i would since I will be in my 40's when he gets out and chance havign a child can me minimum
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NO!!!! My husband got locked up while I was pregnant and he couldn't be there for the birth! That hurt him and me very badly! He says he will never forgive hiself for not being able to be there for me and the baby. It's to hard on him and me. I would never want to put anyone throught that. It's to hard and depressing.
I agree with this. I was 6 months pregnant when my fiance got arrested. He called 5 mins after I had our son which was such an amazing thing but having to do it alone is hard. And besides he hopfully gets parole in 2 yrs so I can wait. So I vote no.
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Yes I would me and my husband have a daughter but he has no kids of his own my daughter has a different dad..he is in there for 20 years so we want kids cause by the time he gets out he will be 46 hers old and I will be 42 so we will be past the age to have children and we want atleast one child together so yes I would and am going to try...but I think that it depends on your situation cause if you only got a couple year I think you could wait alil don't put the kid threw it but in my situation your dang right ima have a kid while he's in there before I get to old...
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