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Old 07-13-2018, 05:01 AM
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Default Would you just give up? Haven't heard from him for a couple months

The man i was seeing casually for around 6 months was remanded into custody a couple of months back and i had no way of contacting him so i used the prisoner locater service here in the UK to find him, which took six weeks as they have to obtain his permission for his details to be passed on, so three weeks ago i wrote to him telling him i miss him etc and then a couple of days later i sent another letter and i included my telephone number and a stamped addressed envelope for him to respond. Anyway i have heard absolutely nothing back so i am assuming he is ignoring me and doesn't want to talk me, I'm just confused as to why he gave permission for his details to be passed on to me so i could contact him and now he's ignoring me. I don't want to come across as weird and stalkerish by keep pestering him and contacting him, should i just give up and leave him be and see if he replies in his own time?
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Old 07-13-2018, 05:17 AM
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If he gave permission for you to have his details he must want contact. I would leave it a bit longer he may not have writing paper. He may not have been able to respond straight away. Get on with you life and if he responds it’s all good and if not then it’s time to move on
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Old 07-13-2018, 05:21 AM
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I've got a lot of time on my hands at the moment as i am off work for the summer and i find myself watching for the postman every morning, which isn't healthy! You are right, I think I'm going to try and distract myself from thinking about it for a while.
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I agree!! Give it some time it could be anything he might be trying to think about what to say. I hope you hear from him soon.
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The first thing you should think of is you ad to enjoy life to the fullest.
He should be a positive addition to your life only and not someone/something your daily life revolves around. Not saying it does but I know how easily you can get sucked in.
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Dont distract yourself. Keep checking the mail so you can grieve properly and move on.
Might be something in there one day. Give it more time.
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Does he have money? If not that is why he can't contact you.
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Dont distract yourself. Keep checking the mail so you can grieve properly and move on.
Might be something in there one day. Give it more time.

This is bizarre advice. Camping out in front of the mailbox for a letter from a casual acquaintance is just ... weird. Obviously, keep getting your mail every day but I don’t think the situation calls for obsession and grieving.
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I must have missed out on where MissOne recommend "obsession" and to camp out in front of the mailbox.
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I must have missed out on where MissOne recommend "obsession" and to camp out in front of the mailbox.
Really? “Don’t distract yourself” from checking her mail and waiting for a reply doesn’t sound obsessive?
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Let it be.....there are myriad reasons he might not be communicating.
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