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View Poll Results: How did you meet your man?
We were set up on a blind date 17 1.11%
Through mutual friends 425 27.69%
Through school 118 7.69%
Through work 144 9.38%
At a party/bar/club 127 8.27%
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Old 07-20-2004, 05:45 PM
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I Met My Man Skipping School At The Age Of 13. Lol...it Was National Skip Day, And We Were At The Beach
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Old 07-20-2004, 06:10 PM
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my brother was his best friend in prison and he asked my brother if he could write me and we have been married for over 10 years now.
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Old 07-22-2004, 03:39 PM
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HE WAS MY CONNECTION. I'VE KNOWN HIM FOR 3 YEARS.
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I met my JR back in 2000 while I was doing an internship at the prison he was at. I was his classification counselors assistant. The first time I saw him it was love at first sight! I had to find out all there was to know about him! So I memorized his DOC # and pulled his file, read it, and wrote him a few days later. After about two weeks I gave up my internship for the chance at a relationship with him. Here we are 4 years next month and still kickin. Yeah the time is hard but I love him with all that I am.
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Old 07-26-2004, 07:08 PM
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I met Tony when I was working at a prison too. I was the canteen supervisor and he was one of my orderlies. That was in 1996. We've been married since 2000 and he'll finally be home in six months! I can't wait.



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I met my JR back in 2000 while I was doing an internship at the prison he was at. I was his classification counselors assistant. The first time I saw him it was love at first sight! I had to find out all there was to know about him! So I memorized his DOC # and pulled his file, read it, and wrote him a few days later. After about two weeks I gave up my internship for the chance at a relationship with him. Here we are 4 years next month and still kickin. Yeah the time is hard but I love him with all that I am.
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Old 08-22-2004, 12:21 AM
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Well it's a long story. My cousin and my guy were best friends. We all used to gather at another cousins house just to sit and kick it. Well I would catch this younger guy (5 years younger) looking at me and it made me feel kinda odd because he was in a long term relationship with another cousin who happens to be my uncle's daughter. My uncles daughter and I do not have a family like relationship. Hell she barely even have a relationship with her dad. Anyway he and my cousin have two children together. For a long time I put this guy off. I could not see myself dating someone that a family member had once dated. That was not the right thing to do. After about four years, I seen him riding around with one of his friends so my friend-girl and I stopped to talk to them. He began calling me nearly every night and we would talk for hours. Two and a half years passed by without us ever getting together but that changed one night when I was over to a friends house trying to fix my car radio. He pulled up with gansta rap bumping. I gave him my address and we started doing the damn thing. Our relationship has lasted for three years.

P/S He fixed my radio and had my car detailed! Damn I miss him
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Old 08-23-2004, 08:36 AM
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We met when we were 13 in middle school. We dated back then for about 8 months. Then split up when we got to high school- we went to seperate ones. Then the last year of high school we got back together and have been since. I always thought it was just puppy love in middle school. Now we are married and couldn't be happier.
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Old 08-23-2004, 01:31 PM
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I met my love in my back yard when I was 13. Where I gre up in BKLYN there was a group home attached to my backyard. He was the only boy just sitting there doing nothing one day so I called out Hey and he answered back. I still can't remember how we exchanged numbers but we did, and we spoke everyday while he was there. He got sent upstate to a group home aboyut 2 months later, and we wrote every day, and he visited ont he holidays. That went on for 2 years until he finished high school upstate. He came home in April we spent every single minute of every day with each other until August. He was my escort to my sweet 16. He got arrested 5 hours after the party. That was 10 years ago. We kept in touch the entire time through letters while I was in college, lost touch the last 3 years while I had a baby, and so forth. I found him on the DOC website, and wrote him. Sent a few letters, and then went to visit him. I saw him for the first time in 9 years, and 50 weeks later, two weeks before my 26th birthday.
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Old 08-23-2004, 01:39 PM
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i met him through my boyfriend at the time.We started hanging out as friends and things just went from there.
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Old 08-25-2004, 03:10 PM
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Ray and I met in the mall when I was 18. He was in the mall with his best friend. They walked passed me and my sister. He tried using that "don't I know you from somewhere line". What he doesn't know is I had seen him before but he didn't remember. We have been together since that day.
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Old 09-12-2004, 01:49 PM
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I met Bill through my cousin...she was with his friend and she called and told me about this guy that was there, that did tatoos..i wanted one..i called him up, and we talked for a while..i went over to where he was stayin, and when he opened the door i could not breathe!!! It was love. 13 years later...I still can't breathe every time i lay my eyes on his beautiful face.
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Old 09-12-2004, 08:53 PM
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I met Micheal back in '95. My cousin had a huge crush on him. And I always talked to him for her. He just wanted to be friends with her, so yeah, I cussed him out a few times too. Gotta take up for family. Anyways about 2 months later, we kissed for the first time. My junior prom night. That caused a lot of conflict between me and my cousin. But in the past 10 years, me and Micheal have hooked-up around 10 different times. We never had sex until this year. The night that we got engaged---June 12, my birthday.
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Old 09-12-2004, 09:55 PM
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We grew up in the same neighborhood, but on 4th of july we saw each other at the festivities and he first noticed me as a grown girl. I was 16, he walked me home from the fireworks and that was the night that started it all. We stayed together till I turned 22 and had his daughter. Then he got locked up 2 yrs later. Now we zare talking again
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Old 09-12-2004, 11:17 PM
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Old 09-13-2004, 08:39 AM
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I had rented a car from this fly by night rental company. Got behind in my weekly payment to them, so they sent one of their employees to come pick up the rental or to get some money from me. I was putting the key in my front door to lock it, turned around and saw the finest, tallest drink of chocolate I had seen in a while. He asked me for the money for the rental or the keys, so I told him he could have the car, but would have to drop me off at work if he wanted it, cuz I didnt have any money. He dropped me off at work! We talked and exchanged #'s and it just started from there.
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Old 09-13-2004, 08:53 AM
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I met my boyfriend at work.

I was a bartender and he was a bouncer at a club. We were actually friends for awhile before we dated.

He was always the sweetest thing though. He would come and chat with me on slow nights, or ask me if I needed anything from the store when he was going, just an all around nice guy. He was very protective over me also. It was a hiphop club and a little ghetto The club would be jumping and the crowd use to get WILD sometimes. There were a few fights to say the least. He always made sure that I was okay, and use to get into other dudes A**es if I was being bothered. I know that was part of the job, since he was security, but he always went above and beyond. Little things like walking me to my car at the end of the night. When I blew my transmission, he would pick me up and drop me off every night I worked, even though I was pretty close to the club. This was all before we even started dating....

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We met through my best friend. We were each other's first love! My High School Sweetheart! I met him when I was 14 (about 15 years ago). I always knew he was "The One", but we both went our seperate ways, I was around 19, until we were reunited with one another a year ago. I also was told by many people he was searching for me through the years. We hadn't seen one another for 7 years. But, once I saw him,all the old feelings came rushing back! I :love: my first true love! He has already asked me to marry him because he doesn't want to lose me again!! Doesn't God work in mysterious ways? When we needed eachother the most, we were reunited.
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We began as pen pals, who knew it could grow.

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Well my friend James was locked up and we kept in touch.He had a close friend Joe who had just gotten out of county.Joe had a g-f waiting on him..But his new co-worker needed a girlfriend so Joe talked to James and James gave him my number to give to his co-worker.I saw Joe's number on my caller ID ( thank God) and called it back.Joe expplain that he had a g-f but his friend at work was looking for someone, Well we talked all day and that's when his g-f wasn't there he kept calling me.A week latter he kicked his g-f out and told his friend from work I was his..2 weeks latter I moved in..We've been together ever since 3 years!!
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Old 09-13-2004, 01:54 PM
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i met my husband at a restruant. i went to perkins in the town i lived in and he was my waiter. i got wonderful service and a wonderful man. that's diner and he ended up being my desert for the last 6 yrs
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Hi ...Im new on this site and ive been pretty much just reading the threads not saying much so I guess ill make my first move and join this thread. I hooked up with my baby over the internet a year ago this December. In fact i got my first letter from him on Christmas. I thought it was kind strange for me to be able to connect with someone under these cicumstances but im realizing im wrong. All my friends have been non supportive from day one, and i guess i can understand, but its nice to know that im not the only one going through this.
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I picked him up while he was in town on business!!

Jess worked for a rodeo company that held a rodeo twice a year practically in my back yard 3 years ago and it was love at first sight. He was so sexy all cowboy-ed up! About 4 months after we met, the company was bought out and he lost his job and he moved here so we could be together. One day soon we'll be able to get on with the rest of our lives - just as soon as Texas gives me my man back!
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I marked in school...actually it was college, he was my instructor.
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I met my fiance when I was 6 years old, we grew up in the same little town. So in a way I guess we were ment to be
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I was driving the church bus and picked him up at the treatment center...that should have been my first clue, huh?...but I didn't know it was a treatment center...it was my first time driving the bus and I just went to the address on the list..it was his first time going to that church...he just got there...to the center...that was the week before Christmas back in '99 so we've been together going on 5 years. What a roller coaster ride! But I still love him and believe in him! We've been married 3 years in December.
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