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View Poll Results: How did you meet your man?
We were set up on a blind date 17 1.11%
Through mutual friends 425 27.69%
Through school 118 7.69%
Through work 144 9.38%
At a party/bar/club 127 8.27%
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Old 02-25-2004, 12:30 AM
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I met my baby on the net..... January 10,2003 I was lost and lookin for a friend and there he was we matched up 100% on a singles site... and the minute he put his hand in mine I knew he was the one... don't misunderstand me we haven't had it easy.. but I think we both realize the mistakes we made....but in the end it was worth it.. and I LOVE MY JOSHIE!!!

I could have missed the pain..... but then I would have had to miss the DANCE...
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Old 02-25-2004, 12:40 AM
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We lived in a very poor neighborhood and there were only 7 kids.
Brad, his 2 brothers, me, my two brothers and Brian. Our parents went to school together and Rendon is one of those towns where everyone talks about leaving, but noone ever does so we were raised around each other. my mom was 16 when my older brother was born and his mom was 14 when she had Brad. My mom took care of all 7 of us most of the time. My mom is everyone's mom. awwww the good old days!
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Old 02-25-2004, 01:04 AM
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We dated in high school for a little while. Of course we were both young and wanted to be young and have fun. We broke up and remained friends. We lost track of each other for about 4 years and he got married I got married and then I read in article in the local paper about him and I found out where he was at and then started writing him again. I have since gotten a divorce and he is in the middle of one. We have been talking since he got put in prison 3 years ago. I am so glade that I found him because now I know it wasn't just a childhood crush I know that it is real. That is what he tells me as well.
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Old 02-25-2004, 07:04 AM
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Met him at work. Our eyes locked and that was it.
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Old 02-25-2004, 09:06 AM
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I met my Roger at an after party in July of 2002. He had only been out on parole about 2 months. He was so F**&^$ sexy!
Well, I'll spare you the details but he left my house about 5am! LOL Never saw him again until (read below)
We happened to make us a little girl that night. She is so beautiful! By the time I caught up with him he had already violated parole and was in Illinois Detention.
Since then, we started writing and have just grown from there. We are planning to have some kind of future together, but he will still be gone for nearly two years and I have about two years left on my degree, so we are taking it one day at a time.
But, girls, between you and me...I will spend the rest of my life with this man. I know it. I want noone else (and I'm usually a fiend for the men)
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Old 02-25-2004, 09:08 AM
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I consider it fate the way I met my man. When I was thirteen, my friend and I skipped school, we thought the truant officers were following us and we started to walk down a bunch of streets, any way we got really lost. My man and his two cousins were also skipping school (he was 13 as well) I saw the three of them standing at the end of the street we were walking down, I told my friend that I had a feeling that they were going to try to talk to us and I asked her to cross the street, she didn't want to cause she said her mother worked up ahead on the street I wanted to cross, I said okay but don't say anything to them, so we had to pass them and my man stopped me and said he just found the love of his life (love at first sight) he wouldn't leave me alone till I talked to him,he kept following me. We talked , went to the park and hung out all day, since we were lost he said he would walk us home, since he knew the area better than us, (I lived across town from him) He said first I had to kiss him or he wouldn't show me the way home. After that first kiss, it was LOVE. We were together all the time after that until he was incarcerated.
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Old 02-25-2004, 11:28 AM
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wow...a lot us have known our men since childhood!
my man's grandmother and mine have lived next door to each other for like 50 yrs.
so we grew up knowing each other's family....we were all like family.
around 11 or so I developed a crush on him.....we finally started just messing around. (holding hands and stuff/kissing) He ended up being my first. Then he went away in 1998....never came back. All these years...we asked about each other. Finally I started writing him in 2002. We were friends and it blossomed from there.
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Old 02-25-2004, 12:22 PM
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I started writing Daddy and a few others inmates with questions about the prison system and my ex love.

Quickly we began to see how much we thought alike. Our goals, dreams and desires all lined up. Of course i was apprehensive at the start, but all that was laid to rest. We write all the time and talk about everything. I feel like I grew up with this boy you know.
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Old 02-25-2004, 12:24 PM
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Last July(2003) I was out in Yakima, Wa.(180 mile drive from home- South Seattle) visiting a friend of mine that was locked up in the county jail over there. Well in one of our visits that day there was this guy totally acting like a monkey jumping around on the seats (he was entertaining his 2 daughters). He caught my attention and I thought nothing about him except the fact that he was totally hott! Anyways, 2 months roll by and for some reason I couldn't get this guy off my mind. A friend called me up that I havent talked to in a month or so and asks me if I wanted to go back out to Yakima to visit her BF. I was up for the trip because I had fun that summer hanging out and meeting new people out there. Well the problem was that I didn't want to go visit her BF what kind of fun is that? Making casual conversation, I asked her about the monkey man, did he go to prison yet? She said no, he didn't yet and he wants to meet me - last time I was out there (july)I cought his eye and he had been thinking about me. WOW!!! What was really going on, I thought to my self. So we make the trip at the end of September and I met the monkey man guy, Jonny (a firefighter with an gun charge). Well needless to say we hit it off! A few days later, on my birthday(October) I recieved a card (my only birthday card I got) and it was from Jonny telling me he had a big crush and fallen head over heals for me when he set eyes on me in July. I felt that same way! A few days later I decided to go out there again to tell him how I felt. So I did, now with only knowing eachother for 10 days Jonny shocked me by asking me to marry him - I said yes! Its now 5 months later and I have met his entire family, children and a few friends. We have not got married yet but are still engaged. He is "In Transit" heading my way to the Sea Tac Federal Prison(a 5 mile drive).
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Old 02-25-2004, 12:31 PM
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he's my brothers brother in law..LOL....wait...he's my sister in laws brother...LOL...
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Old 02-25-2004, 12:39 PM
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we meet by my sister n his brother. my sister n his brother were in junior high together one day he came to the house cuz he use to go to school with my sister from there we started chating n one day isaw my now man pass by the cam n iask whos that then we switch emails n me n him started talking. thanks that i met my brotherinlaw first lol
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I met him on the net Jan 2000. Crazy huh??
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I was looking for my brouther who at the time was in prison in Fl.I found a pen pal site and started to read the profiles.I was drawn to him by his plea for friendship and the need for love.I wrote him for 3 months and I decided to go met him.It was love at first sight for us both.I have been with him for 3 years now and love him with every thing in me.
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I met my man when I first got out of prison November 1st 1995. He was mesmorized with my toned body. I guess my thickness was his weakness :fb: it's been on and popin' ever since.
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Old 02-26-2004, 10:50 AM
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HaHa! i used to date his brother! Dumped him (my ex) because he was always going to jail for one thing or another....irony is funny!
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We met when I was 18 and he was 24-(he lied though he really was 30)

We met through mutual friends, after I found out his real age it was to late I was already in love with him.
He really didnít lie I had asked him how old are you and he said how old do I look and I said I donít know like 24 and he said then thatís how old I am.
I was pretty green back in the day.
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I don't know when I "met" my husband. I just always knew him since I was in elementary school. We grew up in the same projects and we just always knew each other. Wow, now I realize how old we are!! Damn!!

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I have acrazy meeting story...I met him online but he was friends with my husband when they were younger & my ex actually had me talk to him on the phone the 1st time i ever spoke to him! Then when ever I was online he would IM me and we would chat. Then me and my husb split I met him in person and then we wound up more then either of us ever expected LOL
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He sat next to me on my front porch and introduced himself to me.
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I met my guy on the internet November 27, 2001.... he moved to Ny to be with me and ends up in prison 2 yrs later
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I will never forget the day I met my boyfriend, destiny brought us together in the deli downstairs from my building 4 yrs ago, it happened to be that we both lived in the same building almost all our lives and didnt know it.

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I meet my baby through a x boyfriend who was a close friend of his. We became very close friends he helped me dry my tears when that relationship ended but we didn't hook up until years later.
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Well i met my husband on the phone chat line. I was on there making fun of the ppl and then he sent me a message. Bein that i didn't know much about it i had to get my lil cuz to show me how to check it(duh)! We started talking and from the first time i saw him i knew he was my soulmate. I stopped talking to every other guy and in a week he was telling me that he loves me and i was returning that love. In less than 1 mths and 1/2 we were married and on march 12 ( 2 days before his b-day) 2004 we will be married for 2 years and we have a beautiful little girl. Funny thing is that all of our lives our paths have crossed. So god knew what he was doing, and it worked out . OH HOW I LOVE FAITH!! YEAH
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I was looking for info for a paralegal class I was taking and ended up on a pen pal website. We wrote for a year before I went to meet him. The day I went to see him I was so nervous I threw up in the parking lot of the gas station. When we sat down and started talking, the 6 hours went by too quick. I think that I got to know him through the letters and we talked like we knew each other for years. That was a year ago and since meeting him, there's no room for anyone else in my heart or life.
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