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View Poll Results: Erotic Letters to Send or Not?
Yes! 376 76.73%
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Yes, but be careful of your words. 86 17.55%
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Old 06-11-2014, 12:57 AM
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I really need to send my love more XXX rated letters but really though I always forget too!! I think cause I'm so busy and the last thing on my mind is me getting all sexy in a letter to him. So when I do sit down and write him its always important things that I need to tell him but I think I need to change it up and send him something spicy and sexy
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Old 06-12-2014, 07:38 AM
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I send my man erotic letters & in our letters we take it to the extreme lol & so far he hasn't gotten into trouble.
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Old 06-17-2014, 05:29 PM
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I send my man xxx letters but I write my letters like a diary or whatever I write something everyday then mail it usually about once or twice a week. I just tell him what I am thinking if I am feeling naughty I write about it if not I don't but he also writes back the same way that way we aren't mailing letters everyday. My letters are pretty long and usually take about a dollar or two dollars sometimes to mail them. He enjoyes it and so do I
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this is super intresting i have always wanted to write a long letter that was intimate, but i never asked him if i could or what the guidelines were, iv said a a sentence or two in a couple of letters of how i wish we were doing this or that, but never full blown story and imagination. there are many times where i want phone sex and he can't and i have to have it at least 2-3 times a week or i'll go nuts maybe i can write a letter if i feel like i am in the mood. i do like reading letters or stories online all the time. just afraid to get it sent back to me,
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I love writing intimate letters and stories to my love. He gets so turned on. He says I make him crazzzy! Lol
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We don't do full-on erotic letters but all he has to do is write a line or two about being together physically and Im lit up like a Christmas tree.
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I think it fills the void when you are alone and he's not there if you close your eyes and take yourself to that special romantic place and let your feelings run wild you will both feel better. Naughty letters can be a good thing for both of you.
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I send them... Never have had them refused! He loves getting them and needs them as a getaway, or so he says. Haha but I don't mind at all.
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It depends where a person is. My husband is still in County and can even have my naked pictures, so in his case, he'd rather have erotic pictures than letters.
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Ive been sending my husband very naughty and explicit letters and poems and never had any issues. (knock on wood) He loves to read them and think about us together. He says it REALLY drives him crazy and he definitely gets even with me cuz some of the letters he wrote to me are WAYYY XXXXX Rated.
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I actually will start a scene and he will take over then i will take over. He is very graphic as i am more romantic. He just puts it out there and he loves them. Keeps intimacy alive and our imagination flowing.
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Hey there!
So I have been reading and reading and reading and I can not find any recent threads about sending "erotic" letters!
I thought we were not "SUPPOSED" to send them... but my BF is asking for details on things... and have only been giving him enough to keep his attention peaked because I dont want him to get in trouble for something that I have written (...but I really really really want to answer his questions!)
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Do we send them or not?
How far do you take it?
What can they get "in trouble" for?
You can send them they don't really get in trouble for those kind of letters. Dirty pics yes. The letters are ok the only reason to be worried about the letters is when his mail is being watched or opened for contraband. If he has no problems don't worry
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I don't send him such letters even though he keeps asking every now and then.
BUT problem is...the language. English isn't my mother tongue and I don't dare writing these letters....I probably wouldn't use the right words and I don't want these things to sound funny at all...
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I wrote my first erotic letter. It was light weight, not to heavy. He doesn't know I'm sending it, so I'm waiting for his response.
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I recently received my first erotic letter off my man as for those asking about what's allowed and what's not, lets just say he left very little to the imagination!!
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I love writing them to him and I love getting them. We don't use other material from books, we just speak from our imagination about what exactly we would enjoy doing. I think it keeps things spicy, and fun!
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At my mans prisons the letters can't be over 2/3's "erotic" so as long as you say hello and a few sentences that don't include sex your all good. Haha
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I have been working up the nerve. he told me The Forum magazines are real popular and thought they were hot. Until i sent him some of the Lady Porn stuff that is out now. The guys around him are all waiting to see what i send next.
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It depends on the state AND on the mail room I suppose.

Lately, letters got refused because of the content, and I sent way more explicit ones last year - and they made it. My man sent a kyte to complain about the Violation. The c/o in charge had a look at the letter (they keep copies) and admitted that this violation was in deed ridiculous - so he received at least the copy of my letter.

This is an Oregon story. I'm not allowed perfume and anything else besides written paper and photos. Some of you may even remember my thread about a portrait pic that was rejected because to them, it seemed as I was in orgasm at that second!

I was start slowly, and try more and more to see where their boundaries are.
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Never had any explicit letters or emails rejected. It a random thing depends on who is working in the mail room that day ie Ive had pictures rejected where I was showing nothing and pictures where you could actually see nipples etc get through. The 'moment of orgasm' got in as well ) it just depends on who is working and sometimes what mood they are in.
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I have four penpals, three of which I write sexy, erotic letters to. So far, I haven't had any of my letters rejected due to my written content. I have had several letters rejected because of the pictures I sent. And no, they were NOT nude pictures, they were "G" rated and had nothing to do with erotic or sex.

I will typically write a letter and insert pictures along with my words, printing them out in color on standard copy paper instead of individual pictures on photo paper. A Kentucky prison rejected this, so I re-printed the letter without the pictures, then printed the same pictures on photo paper, cutting each one out and sent that. They were okay with that. Same words, same pictures, nothing to do with sex.

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I write, and often I write LONG letters, but only one or 2 'naughty' letters. He is more visual, wanting photos instead of everything from scenery to my puppy to me!
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Does anyone worry about letters getting copied or leaked out? I don't know, I'm starting to get really personal with my loved one and while I'm not ashamed, I just wonder if they copy letters and if anyone has anyone heard of any type of letter being leaked out online or other avenues.
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Does anyone worry about letters getting copied or leaked out? I don't know, I'm starting to get really personal with my loved one and while I'm not ashamed, I just wonder if they copy letters and if anyone has anyone heard of any type of letter being leaked out online or other avenues.
In your instance, don't use 'identifiers' if you're worried that the letter might get recycled or leaked out. Another thing I'd suggest, is if you are concerned at all, state at the beginning it's a fantasy....good disclaimer in my mind!

My experience is the majority of guys are happy to have received 'stimulation' that takes them outside of their mind and into someone else's and they are usually quite private with their 'goodies'. There's always going to be a few rotten apples to spoil the barrel of cider, but that's why you state it's just a fantasy....and don't mention names or identifiable places.

Keep up with the kink everyone....I've been told it really helps *winks*

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