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Old 11-20-2018, 09:53 AM
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Hi thank you for writing me. Itís nice to know there is someone else that knows how I feel. My boyfriend has 6 years more. He comes up for parole every year for is denied. This has been for the last 7 years. Very depressing. Iíve written letters for him. But itís just denied. How long does your husband have to go?
I'm sorry that he is denying your letters my husband has 2 more years to go can't wait until it's all over. Maybe when it's time for his review he will get it good luck to you hon
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Old 11-21-2018, 12:11 AM
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I just learned about this sight and im so greatful to know it even exsist. The nights i can say r the hardest for me. I have been with my fiance for 4yrs straight and have never been seperated from him that whole time until now. It is the hardest and most undescribable pain i have ever felt and still remain to feel. I dont know how to be ok and be happy that he will return to me again i just feel like my world is gone.
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Old 11-21-2018, 07:08 AM
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I just learned about this sight and im so greatful to know it even exsist. The nights i can say r the hardest for me. I have been with my fiance for 4yrs straight and have never been seperated from him that whole time until now. It is the hardest and most undescribable pain i have ever felt and still remain to feel. I dont know how to be ok and be happy that he will return to me again i just feel like my world is gone.
I know what you mean I found this site by accident.I have been with my husband for 26 years and other than the navy being separated from him we have been joined at the hip this whole time. Yes its hard there is denying this but the thing I can tell you to find a hobby something to keep your mind busy you can get through this
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Old 11-21-2018, 10:21 PM
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This is the first year he won’t be around for the holidays. I’ve been weepy. I miss the sex too. It’s rough. I wish he was here with us.
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Old 11-21-2018, 11:31 PM
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This is the first year he wonít be around for the holidays. Iíve been weepy. I miss the sex too. Itís rough. I wish he was here with us.
I'm so sorry what you are going through. I know how you are feeling., I get really lonely too, but he is in canon city prison in Colorado,
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Old 11-22-2018, 12:10 AM
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I'm so sorry what you are going through. I know how you are feeling., I get really lonely too, but he is in canon city prison in Colorado,
Yes it does get lonely for us. I have 2 more years of this crap. Get a hobby to take your mind busy the phone calls are nice and we write letters to
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Old 11-26-2018, 02:35 AM
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I normally donít post anything but I miss my man so much right now especially sense itís the holidays right now there on lockdown and normally he sends me a letter and itís been almost 2 weeks and no letter it worries me that something has happened the fight was in his unit and it just terrifies me that something has happened and there not letting us no anything I hope I received a letter soon
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Old 11-26-2018, 09:06 PM
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I normally donít post anything but I miss my man so much right now especially sense itís the holidays right now there on lockdown and normally he sends me a letter and itís been almost 2 weeks and no letter it worries me that something has happened the fight was in his unit and it just terrifies me that something has happened and there not letting us no anything I hope I received a letter soon
I know how this feels and be encouraged that it is temporary. You will hear from him. Just keep writing him because he probably feels the same right now. If I have learned anything from these moments, it is that while we are thinking how miserable we feel they are doing the same only with less things to keep them busy. It is hard for them to not be able to reach out to just let you know. Send him a big smile and an I Love You.
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Thank you so much and your so right! I’ll do just that I’ll keep on writing him thanks for the help until I found this site I would always loose my mind during these lockdowns
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Old 11-27-2018, 07:26 AM
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[quote=upsetspouse;7753289]Yes it does get lonely for us. I have 2 more years of this crap. Get a hobby to take your mind busy the phone calls are nice and we write

Yea 2 yrs not to bad, but yea I can feel you getting lonely for him, not easy , but at least you can talk and write. Plus visit him. Hope you start feeling better, I know at first it's really hard especially with these holidays. I will be glad when it's over, you can always talk to me if you want, since we are on the same state. Lol
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Old 11-27-2018, 09:05 AM
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Yes it does get lonely for us. I have 2 more years of this crap. Get a hobby to take your mind busy the phone calls are nice and we write

Yea 2 yrs not to bad, but yea I can feel you getting lonely for him, not easy , but at least you can talk and write. Plus visit him. Hope you start feeling better, I know at first it's really hard especially with these holidays. I will be glad when it's over, you can always talk to me if you want, since we are on the same state. Lol
Thank you that means alot hope you have a wonderful day
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Old 11-27-2018, 10:37 PM
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My husband has been gone for a year and a week now. It was a huge surprise when the Feds came and got him, and I didn’t realize that kiss was the last one I’d have for a while. I met him at 19, and we’ve never spent more than a week a part. 14 years later, we have 3 kids, who desperately miss their father. Last year was harder since it the first time he was a part for the holidays, but this time around, it’s a little better. Christmas is huge for us, and it’s a true damper. He gets sentenced January 30th and it seems like an eternity. Praying for time served, but he can get up to 5 years. I hate being a part from him, I feel so alone. Reading you girls stories, I realize it can be a lot worse. But no one can take their places. They’re some lucky guys to have us!
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Old 11-28-2018, 12:21 AM
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My husband has been gone for a year and a week now. It was a huge surprise when the Feds came and got him, and I didnít realize that kiss was the last one Iíd have for a while. I met him at 19, and weíve never spent more than a week a part. 14 years later, we have 3 kids, who desperately miss their father. Last year was harder since it the first time he was a part for the holidays, but this time around, itís a little better. Christmas is huge for us, and itís a true damper. He gets sentenced January 30th and it seems like an eternity. Praying for time served, but he can get up to 5 years. I hate being a part from him, I feel so alone. Reading you girls stories, I realize it can be a lot worse. But no one can take their places. Theyíre some lucky guys to have us!
I know what you mean hon mine has been gone for 3 years now with 2 years to go. I didn't even get a chance to kiss mine goodbye and that sucked. The holiday are his favorite time of year. We have been together for 29 years now the only time that we were separated is when I was on the ship on deployment in the Persian gulf I miss mine alot to. Photos and letters and calls . Does it get any easier hard to say it varies. Just stay strong and you will get through it.
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Old 11-28-2018, 10:07 PM
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I know what you mean hon mine has been gone for 3 years now with 2 years to go. I didn't even get a chance to kiss mine goodbye and that sucked. The holiday are his favorite time of year. We have been together for 29 years now the only time that we were separated is when I was on the ship on deployment in the Persian gulf I miss mine alot to. Photos and letters and calls . Does it get any easier hard to say it varies. Just stay strong and you will get through it.
Thank you, Iím definitely trying. You sure are a strong one. Youíre more than halfway there. Itís almost over!!
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Old 11-28-2018, 11:45 PM
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Thank you, Iím definitely trying. You sure are a strong one. Youíre more than halfway there. Itís almost over!!
I know right in the beginning I was not strong at all but with time I learned to be strong for him and prove to myself that I could do this. And with time you will be strong and able to tackle this head on .
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Old 11-29-2018, 07:31 PM
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I'm sorry that he is denying your letters my husband has 2 more years to go can't wait until it's all over. Maybe when it's time for his review he will get it good luck to you hon
Thank you!
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Old 11-29-2018, 07:39 PM
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Thank you, Iím definitely trying. You sure are a strong one. Youíre more than halfway there. Itís almost over!!
You are definitely a very strong woman. Your husband is very lucky to have your strength beside him. I know with your love for him, your lives will be good when he comes home and very blessed.
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Old 11-29-2018, 08:45 PM
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Ok, so maybe I just need to vent. We didn't get our normal contact visit this weekend, because it was the 4th for the month it had to be at the window, so I didn't get my fix I guess? But this week I have really missed him.
I started a new job, so we haven't been able to talk as much over the phone either and that is driving me insane, but the job is going well, so that's a plus.
I really cannot wait to see him Sunday though, since it's a new month we are back to contact visits for a little while!!
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Just wanted to share this thought here tonight...I always miss my sweet guy! After talking to him tonight I realized it was especially hard for him missing me. I think sometimes I forget how much easier it is for me to find things to occupy my mind, when he really suffers more than I realistically. I just want to bring Him some sunshine and hope on those particular hard days! Wishing I could love on him all the more, miss him so much!
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I know I keep posting in here lamenting, and onedayatatime13 was very helpful last time. I just miss our LO so much because more holidays are approaching. The whole family is feeling his absence. I remember last year and how great it was. He’s not here and won’t be here for a long time. This is the first round of holidays without him, and it’s really really tough. We visit him, but it’s not the same as him being here helping us wrap gifts and decorate the tree. Thanks for listening.
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I miss him all day everyday! During the day, I keep myself occupied and send him messages throughout the day, but at night is where it really hits me the most. When I’m alone in bed with nothing else but my thoughts it really makes me miss him so much that sometimes I question myself as to why I chose to love someone incarcerated. His messages, phone calls, and surprise cards and pictures make it all worth it to me. On the phone the other night I was venting to him about how sad I get because I miss him and he opened my eyes a little bit and I felt so selfish. I wasn’t even thinking about how he was feeling. He told me he misses me everyday and thinks about me all day and can’t escape it. I have the opportunities to go out and occupy my mind where he is in a cell 22 hours a day and can’t really do anything else aside from daily work outs. By the time he gets released, I graduate college a few days later, so he tells me that we’re finishing our “time” together! Even from prison, he still makes me feel so special! I’m forever grateful for him being there for me. I never like complaining or venting on the phone because we only get 30 minutes a day, but he said it makes him feel connected to me and wants to be there for me and talk me through my bad days and celebrate on my good days. He’s the first man I’ve ever been with that’s been incarcerated but I wouldn’t change a thing. Sorry for going on and on!

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I miss him all day, we get to talk 2 times every night and send letters once a week but throughout the day sometimes I just wish I could pick up the phone and call or text him.Visits for me are so bitter sweet because I get so happy to see him and be in his presence but eventually they end and I take the long drive back and go to bed alone. I try so hard to keep myself busy through the day but its hard since I work from home and I'm alone even more which causes me to overthink. Sometimes I wish I had friends I could just talk to or go out with but to many people have an input on my life choices and I just don't want to hear it anymore. I appreciate this site so much because at least I know I'm not the only person going through it. Thank you all for listening !
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I feel like you. I miss my husband. You are lucky to have him. Please count your blessings to be able to go see him, talk to him and send mail. I know it’s hard to do that. I tell you that because mine passed away suddenly in prison in August this year. Three days after my birthday. I couldn’t always see him, I made plans to see him for Christmas. I can’t do that. I do feel for you, I was there. Now I have nothing. He was taken away from me. It was his time to go home. I hope he is in a better place. I know you appreciate what you have. He is just not exactly there with you. But pray and thank God for what you have. One day he will come home to you and you will have a happy home. It will complete you.
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I feel like you. I miss my husband. You are lucky to have him. Please count your blessings to be able to go see him, talk to him and send mail. I know itís hard to do that. I tell you that because mine passed away suddenly in prison in August this year. Three days after my birthday. I couldnít always see him, I made plans to see him for Christmas. I canít do that. I do feel for you, I was there. Now I have nothing. He was taken away from me. It was his time to go home. I hope he is in a better place. I know you appreciate what you have. He is just not exactly there with you. But pray and thank God for what you have. One day he will come home to you and you will have a happy home. It will complete you.
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Yes I miss my baby another holiday alone. Only 2 more to go. I'm sorry for your loss . But on the brighter side Merry Christmas
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I feel like you. I miss my husband. You are lucky to have him. Please count your blessings to be able to go see him, talk to him and send mail. I know itís hard to do that. I tell you that because mine passed away suddenly in prison in August this year. Three days after my birthday. I couldnít always see him, I made plans to see him for Christmas. I canít do that. I do feel for you, I was there. Now I have nothing. He was taken away from me. It was his time to go home. I hope he is in a better place. I know you appreciate what you have. He is just not exactly there with you. But pray and thank God for what you have. One day he will come home to you and you will have a happy home. It will complete you.
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Aww I'm so sorry to hear that, I really hope you get through it and I'm praying for you. He is still with you in spirit. I thank God everyday to have mine he came in my life when I was at a low. I pray that you are able to find happiness, please stay strong !
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