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Old 06-03-2018, 05:32 AM
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Today, I get to visit for the first time since he's been transferred . It's been a month since I've heard his voice. I'm so excited, and a little nervous too.
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Old 06-03-2018, 07:11 AM
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It's honestly gotten kinda bad, he got a free call and I could tell he was hurting. My boyfriend is in a wheelchair, he had back surgery last Sept and woke up unable to walk. His back and legs will start hurting him and it gets pretty bad. He will never complain about it... but it hurts to see it.... Hearing that On Thursday I haven't slept since. Everytime I start to drift off I see him and I instantly start worrying and get bad anxiety...... I went from being around him constantly, except for when I was at work, to him suddenly being gone... What makes it worse is his younger brother and his girlfriend live with us also. Both of our men ended up getting arrested... so we are a mess... and don't know what to do...
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Old 06-04-2018, 02:08 AM
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I haven’t been able to see or speak to him in 5 weeks. It’s tearing me up. We write a lot though. I am grieving the lost chance of the present and some of the future. It hurts.
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Old 06-04-2018, 02:09 AM
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The lost chance of the life we wanted to have that is. I am also grieving the loss of his presence, but I had time to process it before it happened.
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Old 06-05-2018, 07:41 AM
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I had a visit yesterday. It was my first one since last June. Omg the hug at the end was EVERYTHING. I feel so happy so secure and so safe in his arms. He has 4 months left and I CANNOT WAIT. I just want to sit and embrace each other. Now I'm patiently waiting for his phone call!
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Old 06-12-2018, 08:01 PM
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I miss him a lot. Just got off the phone with him and it was different...he seemed different today and I just hope he wasn’t in a good mood because it got me a little concerned.
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Old 06-13-2018, 02:02 AM
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I miss him a lot. Just got off the phone with him and it was different...he seemed different today and I just hope he wasn稚 in a good mood because it got me a little concerned.
Hang in there, sweetie - my advice would be not to put too much weight on one day's conversation/feeling...he may have been distracted with what's going on in there, just tired, or generally feeling down
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Old 06-18-2018, 09:21 AM
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I’m so glad I found this site so I can relate to others that are going thru the same thing I’ve only been with my man a year we met while he was in prison he’s alreddy been there for 10 years and he’s not coming home until 2039 I don’t know what to do somto days or how I’m going to keep going especially now he’s in usp Coleman 1 in Florida and I live in NC But now his prison has been on lockdown for 3 weeks and all we have is mail that takes so long however and at least I was able to hear his voice everyday that’s the only things that kept me going I don’t know if I’m going to make it does anyone know how long these things last? It’s alredy been 3 weeks and he told me it was because a CO got injured in a fight between inmates
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Old 06-24-2018, 05:03 PM
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Talked to him on Friday...was supposed to see him the next day but he had to cancel because he had to get something looked at(his right arm is red so I hope it’s just a rash and nothing to serious but I always think the worst in situations and I need to stop that) he was laughing so much during our call that I wanted to cry because I miss him so much. I can’t wait to hold him again.
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My man got transferred to reception June 15th. I sent him a letter on the 27th and got a response in the mail on July 5th. So it was really really fast. I sent out my response to his letter July 10th. Today is July 18th and still no response. I知 really trying to keep calm. I know the time can very :/
I just really really miss him. & honestly I知 tired of reading his letter over and over again I wanna know his response already !!!
Ladies comment below on some of your coping strategies for nights that you really miss your man !
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My man got transferred to reception June 15th. I sent him a letter on the 27th and got a response in the mail on July 5th. So it was really really fast. I sent out my response to his letter July 10th. Today is July 18th and still no response. I知 really trying to keep calm. I know the time can very :/
I just really really miss him. & honestly I知 tired of reading his letter over and over again I wanna know his response already !!!
Ladies comment below on some of your coping strategies for nights that you really miss your man !
Mail in the reception is unpredictable at best, hang in there. My coping strategies would be: exercise daily, read, write (you could journal your thoughts and frustrations), talking/meeting with friends, meditation (empty your mind & help calm down), TV and Netflix
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Old 07-19-2018, 04:31 AM
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My man got transferred to reception June 15th. I sent him a letter on the 27th and got a response in the mail on July 5th. So it was really really fast. I sent out my response to his letter July 10th. Today is July 18th and still no response. I知 really trying to keep calm. I know the time can very :/
I just really really miss him. & honestly I知 tired of reading his letter over and over again I wanna know his response already !!!
Ladies comment below on some of your coping strategies for nights that you really miss your man !
I know how you feel. I sent my letter a day before you and haven't received anything either. The anticipation sucks and then when there is nothing in the mailbox is the worst. But my bf said it normally takes him 6 days for him to receive my letter. So, I'm assuming he barely got it on Monday because I know they don't get mail Saturdays, I'm not sure about Fridays. Then best case he finishes the letter that same day to get it out the next day. Then it normally takes 2 days to get to my house. So, basically it can take 8-10 days to get a response. Hang in there. Reception is the worst.
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Old 07-19-2018, 08:58 AM
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I love this Thread ! Sending everyone of you a Huge Hug <3 I am on the same boat and what makes it harder is being 900 Miles away . This isnt our first Stretch in the system but I hope its our last . Things dont get easier thats for sure ... I just want to roll over and see him next to me hmmmm ;(
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Old 07-20-2018, 11:54 PM
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I am having a rough time right now. Lately it feels like there isnt even anyone I can talk to. I miss him. This f**king lockdown feels like its been going on for a year!! He's written me tons of letters though I can tell things are weighing on him. I need to put my arms around him so much. It should be feel like the end is in sight, (it isnt that much longer) but right now that day seems so faint. I hope he's able to call again soon.
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Old 07-26-2018, 07:17 PM
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I can honestly say that I miss my boo like crazy. I am so glad that we only have 13 months left on his sentence.
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Old 07-28-2018, 05:38 PM
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I am really having a rough time today. I live 3 1/2 hours away from where he is (so much for FL trying to keep families together). I cried all the way home. I just need him here....and I need him here NOW. I know things are weighing on him also, but we are trying to make the best of a messed up situation.
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Old 07-28-2018, 05:41 PM
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I've been missing my guy like crazy. He just got transferred to a different prison, but tomorrow I get to finally see him.
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Old 07-28-2018, 06:08 PM
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I just wish it was October already �� going to see him for the first time since 2012!
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Ever since he got moved to medium it’s been harder for him to call me because there are only two phones so I don’t hear that much from him. we had a wonderful visit on Saturday though we were making each other laugh. I miss him so much.
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Old 08-01-2018, 10:13 AM
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I really miss my boo, I find myself thinking about him every minute of the day. I try to pull myself out of being depressed by just telling myself that it will be greater later. We have 13-months left on his sentence and then we will be together forever..
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Old 08-02-2018, 04:29 PM
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Even though this is the first relationship Ive been in really with someone in jail for more than a week or so, I feel like I mostly handle it fairly well. Until now, when he was suppose to be released yesterday on parole but they have yet to come to inspect the house. And hes out of phone time. I am an avid novel length letter writer (lmao) but I miss his voice so much!!! Being 7 months pregnant and hormonal helps oh so much too.
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I had my man send me a pair of shorts he had worn and I hold them on bad days. Sometimes I am on top of things but at others I get emotional. I try to stay focused on what I have instead of what I don't and I am beyond words thankful that I have him. Sometimes I just can't deal. So, I put together a wonderful letter of hope for him because giving him joy makes me smile. I am a beter person because he is in my life and people outside can't understand that. Let them think I am crazy, I am where I need to be. I love having all of you to chat with))) We are a special culture of strong, determined people. We've got this!
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Old 08-09-2018, 10:25 PM
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Hello all, I am new to this particular sight.
I'm in a local one for the cdcr ,so I'm glad there is also a larger format chatting place!
Nice to see all the post from women going thru the same heartache and ups and downs that I am. Makes me feel better to read that someone can understands my feelings(o have no one else to talk to, the family isnt happy with my choice to continue my relationship)
So thank you all for reaching out!
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Old 08-11-2018, 04:26 PM
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I like this site but it is so hard to post on responding to people all of that... anywho I miss my man we have over 24 months left but we were just busted for contraband so now I've been banned for ever coming back to the jail. Iim also facing 36 months in jail I believe
I don't know when he can or will be able to call me. Hes in the hole currently. I dont know if I will be able to do video visits. My heart hurts and none of my friends understand. They feel like I'm throwing my life away.
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