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Old 10-11-2009, 06:19 PM
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Pearl you got a tattoo?!! Sweet!! I think I want to get one that says Munkey's Chunky!! lol
I love to hear"Why would you marry him?" um my response to the married people that ask me that is "Why did U marry him?"
No one will ever understand unconditional love like we do. No time, distance or walls can lessen our love for our men.
My mom says I have given up my life to be with my lifer. I feel like for the first time I am finally living
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my favorite was from a good friend when I told her he loves me she said well of course he does who else does he have.
I had forgotten that I have had this said in a little different way, I heard, "well its not like he has a choice of women".

This was both insulting and showed an obvious lack of information about the availability of women to men in prison.
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SEX?????? I just pray it's like riding a bike you never forget how................LOL
I totally agree
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Old 10-12-2009, 09:43 AM
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most moronic one i copped was ,

"but what if by some chance he gets out someday & he comes & finds you???

he could rape you .....[long dramatic pause] ....or worse...."


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(i'm hoping hard that in the future we'll have the opportunity to just want each other for sex. )
lol!!! Me too!!!
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STOP THE SEX TALK!!! i'm sooooooo in heat lmfao :P
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Old 10-13-2009, 07:30 AM
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STOP THE SEX TALK!!! i'm sooooooo in heat lmfao :P
Well, WHO ISN'T??? LMAO!!!
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Old 10-13-2009, 08:04 AM
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What are some of the funniest, craziest, most random comments, statements or questions people have said to you when they find out your a lifers life?

I was getting a tattoo a few weeks ago (Santino's Peach above my pelvic bone) and the artist asked me a ton of questions... once he found out I'm married to a lifer he literally put down the paper he was about to place on me and said,

"I've seen, heard and done a lot of crazy things, I've met a lot of crazy freaks doing what I do, but you are something else, crazy, but wow, just the craziest customer in a long time. "

I couldn't help, but to laugh.. this guy looked so crazy - a tube of some sort in his ear lobe all stretched out (yucky) a few face pricings, tattoos from neck to leg and longer hair than myself... my face hurt from laughing so hard!!! So while he's giving me the tattoo I asked him if he enjoyed the feeling of getting tattoos... he looked at me awkwardly and said, "NOOO, I HATE HOW THEY FEEL, why, do you like how it feels?" haha, again I couldn’t help to laugh… I have this guy played out in my mind way wrong and the more I speak to him the crazier he thinks I am - I left there feeling insane.
you definately put a smile on my face this morning as I read your thread...
What do I get alot of?
  • what did he do
  • do you get conji's
  • no s8x ever
  • are you sure your okay being with a lifer (knew him before he was a lifer)
  • you are one brave soul and strong woman to stay with him especially with out you know what s8x
  • dont you want more out of life family, friends, s8x all the time, and all that stuff
  • I dont get much off the wall stuff, because when they ask me where is your husband i tell them straight out he is in prison and they are about to say something and i say yes what would you like to tell me? then they go uh huh and drop it. Im not fit to have all this bad mouthing about my husband and ill nip it in the buttocks before they can say amen... AMEN
  • Santospeach (If i said the name wrong my apologies) who ever started this thread thanks put a smile on this face of mine
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Old 10-13-2009, 08:07 AM
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~sirlabios~ your in heat~lmao your devotion, determination part i so totally agree with.. page 2
~~classycrazy (I think thats your name)~ homosexual tendencies lmao physic huh, so physic he can feel his manly tendencies huh wow he must be gay. still funny as hell though..
~~~nypurple~ the s8x part about riding the bicycle you never forget (page 2) funny haha
~~~~hagala~ your going to prison for your bday well ill join you right behind you.. (page 2)
~~~~~chunkymonkey~page 2 i agree with you, no one will ever understand what it means to love some unconditionally while they are doing time (lifer) in prison unless they are there themselves. No one willl ever get it or ever will understand it until they place their feet in your shoes.... Love isnt a season where it comes and goes, love is so unconditionally that you lay down your life for that person. Love is a precious thing, that some people wish they had, but dont.. gosh I can go on and on about love, but dont wanna bore you all.
~~~~~~KJB~ no choice of woman.. that was rude what they said to you..
~~~~~~outinaussie~ one day he comes out and does something to you, oh brother highly unlikely... I think the roles would be reversed you'd jump his bones before he would want to jump yours.
~~~~~~~ kimi06~ afriad of prison rape (page 1) dang, she blurted it out just like that, wow i can see she had well bed side manners there. Dang, that was totally wrong of her... Me personally you can blurt all you want, but I wont stand for that non sense, I have a mouth and darn it I utlize it like there is no tomorrow
~~~~~~~LovingGlk~ great dialog were not crazy where in love

No conji's for lifers in california either. they used to though what a bummer... I believe really truly believe that will make families more unite and stronger. Because they will have bond with their family rather it be wife, kids, mother, father...
I strongly believe lifers should get them back (God knows I need them)


You ladies crack me up...

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Old 10-13-2009, 11:34 AM
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OMG.....I want it so bad from him......SOOOOOOOOOOOOO bad
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lol.. seems like everyones in need of a cold shower on here...

last time i had mine on phone hes needing to read something important to me re: title 15.. and im like, "baby..can you read it to me in spanish" lol.. i was in "that" mood..i couldnt concentrate on no title 15...

smokeyswife.. you got that right..hed be the one in trouble..lol.
usually i have smartarse response to when ppl say stuff like that..but ths one left me speechless hey. the 'what if he gets out' that was mortifying this person.. is what i pray for everyday ...
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Old 10-14-2009, 10:54 AM
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most moronic one i copped was ,

"but what if by some chance he gets out someday & he comes & finds you???

he could rape you .....[long dramatic pause] ....or worse...."


People can truly be morines when it comes to ignorance.

Sad.

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The craziest comments I got about my lifer brother was
"OMG YOU MUST BE AFRAID FOR HIM BECAUSE OF PRISON RAPE".
Talk about soothing, gentle and caring words. Thats not the choice words I
would use towards someone who's loved one is serving life as if I have not
already thought about those things a million times in my head. G thanks for the
support. Ignorance is a doozy isn't it more like appaling because it really
makes you sound like a damn fool. The other young ladies looked like
they could of fell thru the floor appauled with her comment.
As I walked away I heard one of the girls say are you that stupid you should
have just said nothing. I just think people honestly don't know what to say
and anything about prison that they heard just blurts out. I mean my
brother was not always locked up and a lifer so before this tragedy happend
to my family I have seen it happen in other peoples lives and again I would
have never ever used those type of words to someone who has lost there
loved one to LWOP you know.. Amazing the level of ignorance thou.

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So true! Some people were syaing things the other day-i just walked away. People really don't know and just say what they've heard..then don't want to believe anything different...sigh.
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I usually dont get a comment. I get the blank stare. Lol.

The only comment I have gotten was "how long have you been doing this?" Lol (regarding my relationship with him and me holding him down)
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wow lol
people think im crazy like why would I choose this life when I can have any man I want on the utside
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