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Old 09-12-2017, 04:22 AM
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3 months? Count your blessings and get a coloring book.

The police put a restraining order in place for a reason, probably to protect your life.
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Old 09-12-2017, 08:57 PM
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My husband just went through processing and I haven't heard from him. I'm worried sick and I keep hearing a rumor that they can't call for the first two weeks to a month in oklahoma. Our kids have even been asking why he hasn't been calling to say good night but I keep telling them that he loves them and he will soon. The last letters I got were from a and r here but nothing from the new place. Just sad and missing my heart so bad!!!!
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My husband just went through processing and I haven't heard from him. I'm worried sick and I keep hearing a rumor that they can't call for the first two weeks to a month in oklahoma. Our kids have even been asking why he hasn't been calling to say good night but I keep telling them that he loves them and he will soon. The last letters I got were from a and r here but nothing from the new place. Just sad and missing my heart so bad!!!!
Don't stress too much. He's going through intake. It took 2 weeks before I got a call. But I did get a letter within a couple days.. Stay strong.. you will hear from him.. In the meantime, get your phone set up if you haven't. County and state/TDC jails have different phone systems.
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Old 09-13-2017, 12:35 AM
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Missing my husband!! 2 and a half more years! Today my car broke down. I am sick and waiting for the judge to see me for ssdi ... 2 years of working on this so far. I need a transplant so... it just gets worse. Stressed over doing it all alone and tired of doing it all alone. Just tearful and his calls dont help. He is needy emotionally from all the stuff in there as you know how it is in there. Always drama. So, I am just missing him, missing having someone to be a lover, help mate, and just the sense of having him home.
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Old 09-14-2017, 11:19 AM
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Missing your man? And need to just let it out to people who understand? We all go through moments where we miss our guys and just don't have anyone on the outside who understands. Who better than the H/B PTO members to help you out during your difficult time.

So, if you are missing your man and need to get your thoughts off your chest, this is YOUR thread to do so.

Chin up, ladies. We'll get through this together.
Does anyone know if FCI Phoenix is on lockdown? I haven't heard from my husband since 9/9/17..
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Miss him so much but I realize we are lucky after reading some of these posts. We talk at least a few mins almost everyday and see each other monthly. He does so great showing his love for me even from within those walls. Finding this website has been a big positive tho. To be able to talk to people who understand what you are feeling is such a blessing esp in a world where most people who don't have loved ones locked up don't get it!
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Missing him. In so tired of being without him of being alone.Tryin not to be selfish but its so hard out here!!
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Old 09-16-2017, 02:26 AM
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I feel you. Mine was just put in the hole and i only get to talk to him two times a week for 10 minutes. Ive really struggled to even get out if bed everday. The sound of his voice everday was my comfort. And all my thoughts are of him constantly and it is so hard. No one around me understands. The song by babyface nobody knows it but me has played through my mind endlessly. I either lay in bed and let depression consume me or keep moving. Dont stop moving til i am so exhausted i cant stand. Then fall asleep crying. I have my kids as motivation and knowing that he needs me tk be strong too. My reasons to be. But when i sit still for too long i feel it creeping in on me. And i feel as if i will die My heart hurts so much. And i watch everyone around me laughing walking holding hands fighting taking for granted what i dream of. Unappreciative of how lucky they are. And the condescending way people look at me when they discover my fiancee is locked up and look at me with pity like im stupid and tell me hes just using me. And still as insulting as they are i wouldn't wish this upon them knowing the emptiness that this world is to me. My man says im lucky i have distractions. I say ots worse...hes desperate he doesnot see the world passing by...for me its my own personal hell where i live with constant reminders around me of whst i am missing out on.
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I'm feeling better today. I find praying helps.
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Old 09-16-2017, 09:08 PM
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I am missing my husband tonight. I got to visit Friday and we got an hour and yes I know that is more then what most get. It is just getting harder and harder to leave. I actually live in Tennessee at the moment and I cried all 5.5 hours home last night cause I hated having to leave him there and not able to touch him or hug him or anything of that nature. I have no support out here he and I are on our own his family is doing there own thing and my family wants to judge him cause he got a VOP and is doing 16 months. They are mad at me cause im standing by him. It is very depressing
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Missing my other half like crazy. Visits have been cancelled all week. Something is going on with my phone and he can't get through to me. No contact the last few days and I'm losing it. He's my best friend...literally all I have. Don't have any friends where we are, no family here...no one except each other. Feel so lost today....
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I miss him now more than ever, which is weird because he comes home in about 10 days. I think everything is just coming to a head emotionally. I feel like its been FOREVER and an eternity. Although I should count my blessings since he only did 3 months. I admire all you ladies who are holding it down for much longer than I have been, i dont think i could say it enough. You all keep me going! If it wasn't for all of you I probably wouldn't have gotten through it like I have been. We'll get through this ladies! God gives the toughest battles to the strongest women
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Old 09-19-2017, 11:38 PM
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Really missing my LO. My husband is my other half, and my best friend. Our kids miss him terribly. Worst case we have 8 months and 20 days left. Best case, we have 5 months left. But it all depends on school credits. Currently, he is not reachable as he is out on a fire.... out of county. I have been trying for weeks to get a trip happening to see him, as our daughter is due to have Spinal Surgery in 9 days. We haven't been able to see him since father's day. We are so sad. I miss him so much and his support now more than ever. Please send prayers, good thoughts and everything else you can our way. We need all the help we can get. On top of everything, I can't afford to travel to north Cali from South Cali. And I have to take 3-4 weeks off from work because if her surgery and the EDD only pays me part of my income only after the first 10 days of missed work. Plus all the other medical expenses... I have no idea how I am going to make this all work. And not loss my mind on top of it iall... I worry about him. I worry about her. I worry about the no ey, I worry about everything all the time. Please send prayers I survive and make it work. Thanks for listening.
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Really missing my LO. My husband is my other half, and my best friend. Our kids miss him terribly. Worst case we have 8 months and 20 days left. Best case, we have 5 months left. But it all depends on school credits. Currently, he is not reachable as he is out on a fire.... out of county. I have been trying for weeks to get a trip happening to see him, as our daughter is due to have Spinal Surgery in 9 days. We haven't been able to see him since father's day. We are so sad. I miss him so much and his support now more than ever. Please send prayers, good thoughts and everything else you can our way. We need all the help we can get. On top of everything, I can't afford to travel to north Cali from South Cali. And I have to take 3-4 weeks off from work because if her surgery and the EDD only pays me part of my income only after the first 10 days of missed work. Plus all the other medical expenses... I have no idea how I am going to make this all work. And not loss my mind on top of it iall... I worry about him. I worry about her. I worry about the no ey, I worry about everything all the time. Please send prayers I survive and make it work. Thanks for listening.
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