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View Poll Results: Is he incarcerated in a different state?
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Old 01-31-2012, 08:52 PM
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Yes I'm staying with family to help pay the bills for my Mom, in Maine, he is in Mass, I will be moving back to Mass next month on my own again to get a place so he will have his own to home to come home to...can't wait <3
Where is Mass is your husband? Mine is in Lawrence
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Old 01-31-2012, 09:38 PM
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I was just wondering how this might effect how often you visit, and when you do if it's harder to say goodbye at the end of the visit.

I'm flying to Michigan for my first visit to see my man next Friday. I'll see him Friday (fresh off the plane...just couldn't wait) and Saturday, but due to some drama in his family I might not get to see him again during my vacation like he and I hoped. I know I'll cry when I leave that day because I'm not sure if I'll get to come back later during the week and who knows when I'll be able to come back to Michigan next.

Background to our story: I grew up in Michigan, so I still have friends there, he's there (I met him when I was 14), and his family is there (I'm close with his mom and his sister). My point is that I'm not just going to Michigan to see him, but he was my motivation behind the trip. Where I will be staying for a majority of the trip is 3 hours away from where he is. I just found out his sister was denied visitation, but his mom was approved and I have a feeling she is going to use not having a car as an excuse. Also, no one has gone to see him since he left county jail more than a year ago. He wants me to visit him again before I leave, but by that time I will have already gone above and beyond to see him in the first place. I was really depending on his mom and sister to be my way.
He's in Mississippi n I'm n Missouri; 8 hours apart but 10 when I go to get his family first so yea....10 hours. I go to see him fairly often though for real.
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California inmate recently sent to mississippi I'm still in california, a 2 day drive!
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I'm in cali he's in mississippi..
Isn't it just nerve wrecking!
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Old 02-01-2012, 06:36 AM
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My baby is in Florida and I am in Puerto Rico. I haven't been able to visit him yet
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My boyfriend is incarcerated in Virginia and I am in Michigan. This has been the longest 5 months of my life and we have till Nov 13, 2012 to go but Tennessee has a detainer on him and wants to charge him with more charges. So I have no idea what is going to happen with that but I have begged him to look into the interstate compact especially once he goes to trial for Tennesse cuz this is killing me. And I can't afford to travel that far to see him and the phone calls are ridiculous. His 16 yr old son lives here with me. I am not his mother but I am his son's legal guardian. We took care of all that before he was incarcerated.
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Old 02-01-2012, 07:08 AM
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I'm in northwest indiana and my love will be in Ashland Ky
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Old 02-07-2012, 11:01 AM
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Yes, I am in Georgia and he is in Virginia at USP LEE
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My baby's in Texas and I'm stuck out here in Cali I haven't been able to fly out there just yet to see em cause of school and work but hopefully this summer after I'm done with school I can go see my handsome if GOD allows me to do so ♡ I miss him terribly! Thank goodness for phone calls and letters . Otherwise I'd have some type of meltdown >.^

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My hubby is in NJ and I'm in NYC you would think it would be easy to get to him but it's not
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Old 02-10-2012, 10:31 PM
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My husband is in Florida and I am in Texas...an 11 hour drive...flying, car rental and hotel is not an option! I try and see him on all of the 3 day visitation weekends that I can...it takes a lot of sacrifice to make those visits happen...but he is worth it and I love him...it is always hard to leave on the last day and I spend the first 2 hours or so of my ride home crying because I already miss him! We are hoping for a transfer to Texas! Visits will be more frequent but not as laid back as Florida...Oh well, time together no matter what is precious!
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I'm in Wisconsin and he's in California fortunately I don't have kids and have a really good job so flew out last month and going again in 5 weeks but praying he gets moved closer never know with federal
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Old 02-15-2012, 02:51 AM
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Yes, he is in Texas and I am in Idaho. I will be moving to San Antonio in September...once that happens I will only be 3 hours away from my baby!! So excited!!
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Im in ohio he is in arkansas the distance is hard but just shows how strong the connection is :-) love my bobey
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Yes I live in Texas and my fiance is incarcerated in Alabama!!!! I love him very much and recently had a visit with on Feb.5th. We kissed the whole time and he couldn't keep his hands off me. I will travel to go see him I don't care where he is serv ing his sentence. we are soulmates and I look forward to seeing him next time.
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He was picked up for extradition to Florida yesterday and I'm in Georgia
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I had to move to Missouri and he's in Oregon. Now they say they won't transfer his probation after release because were not married. So know I'm going to move forword with that. but oregon only lets you get married 2 times a year. So Now I pary on that happening.
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I'm in NC and my sweetie is in NJ. Made the trip up there (9 1/2 hour drive) this past weekend, but don't know if I'll be able to get back up there again before he gets out in August. It is hard, but love cannot be measured in time or distance. My heart and his are close all the time, no matter how many miles separate us. <3
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im in washington and my boyfriend is awaiting sentencing in missouri ):, its hard but what dont kill u makes u stronger. truly believe that!
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Well I am in a different country, in Europe, and he is in Illinois. So that our visits are not so often. I am going to see him soon, will be the 2nd time, my last visit was a year ago. So, once a year and if we are lucky twice, will be the most we can visit. Good thing is we get extended visits, so 4 hours a day times 4 for each of the 2 months, that's not all that bad then :-)
Hello I'm Valérie and I'm from France, my boyfriend is in NY I went to visit him for the first time 3 weeks ago and I miss him so much that I'm making plans to go back to NY in may . Can you tell me the way to have extra time for the visits because I will just stay a week and I 'd love to spend more time with him.
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My love is in California at Pelican Bay and i am in New Mexico. It will take me almost 23 hours if i drive but i need to send a letter to the warden because my visitation was denied...any ideas on that
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My man is in Missouri and I live in California. I haven't made it out there to visit him yet, but I am planning on going there this summer. Both of our families and old friends live in Missouri, and I am really close with his dad, so it will be a nice little trip.
So right now we just stick to phone calls and letters. But it is really hard not being able to see him.
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I'm in Cali my babe is in Florida. So hard. I can't wait to have him here
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My hubby is in Florida and I am in California. We had been living in Florida for a little over a year when we decided we would move back to where I'm from in Cali. After the holidays he went back to Florida to tie up some loose ends and got locked up . This same thing happened a few years back and it is sooooooooo frustrating. Neither here nor there I love him like crazy and as soon as he is out of county I hope will be able to visit. Unfortunately, I am with the other women on here in the expenses, time, and sadness. Hopefully he will be home soon!
I totally understand I am in Cali and my babe is in Florida it's tough just keep it up God will cover u guys
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Im in Iowa mine is doing time in Lewisburg Pennsylvania
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