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Husbands & Boyfriends in Prison For everyone who has a husband, boyfriend or male partner incarcerated.

View Poll Results: Is he incarcerated in a different state?
Yes, and it's hard on both of us. 927 81.03%
No, thank goodness! 217 18.97%
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Old 03-24-2015, 05:06 AM
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I live in Kansas & He is incarcerated in Grovetown, GA. I'm 42 & He is 31! I'm an African American woman & He is an Caucasian man!

A LIL BACKGROUND ABOUT US: We met on a chatline towards the end of 2011. While I was not necessarily seeking anything in particular, simply was bored & had no one to talk to so I called a chatline, He on the other hand had motive to why he was on a chatline(of course @ the time I did not know)!! After speaking with him for a while online, captivated by his convo (rather surprised it was not your typical prison lingo/mentality) I decided to give him my # so that we could continue speaking; & as time went on conversations got more personal & deeper, now Im intrigued! Time passes, he hooked me, we went thru ALOT ALOT of ups & downs etc. BUT now our relationship has gotten to the point of being In Love & talking marriage!

Despite his being down for the past 11 yrs. & has 8 more yrs. to go, I AM TRULY IN LOVE with this man!! I have been faithful since day one & do not want anyone else, so I will continue to be faithful.

YES @ times it is very hard with me not being able to visit, for one due to the distance, and for two due to the fact that I am a multiple convicted felon! I honestly feel and believe that he is who I will spend the rest of my life with!

Can I get some opinions and outlooks on my rather unusual situation?
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Old 04-05-2015, 07:15 PM
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We "My man and I" lived in Miami but he's locked up in PA. He lived up there years ago and got in trouble. It sucks because I only get to see him once a year. Last time I saw him was last year May and it cost me over 800 bucks for 3 days which included a hotel for 2 nights, taxi services, flight and food! I want to see him again but since he's at Camp Hill Pa which is a classification center, he could be moved at any time and I don't want to fly up there in a few months and he be moved to another camp This whole situation is really difficult for me and the first time I'm ever experiencing anything like this.
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Old 04-16-2015, 06:52 PM
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We live in DC....He is at a federal prison in Maryland. It about 2 1/2 hours away from our home. So it's not too bad. Looking forward to visiting him as much as I can.
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Old 04-16-2015, 09:02 PM
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That would have been perfect for my situation. I live in DC, but my baby is in GA...sucks..but I can't wait to see him.
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Old 04-17-2015, 12:49 PM
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I'm in NC and my guy is in Cali. I visit every 2-3 months.
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Old 04-17-2015, 08:55 PM
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My husband is in Nj and I'm in Ca. He was here for 5 years and then he got sent to the east coast. I haven't seen him in 7 1/2 years. But good news is after 13 years in federal prison he is coming home soon 💖
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Old 04-20-2015, 10:53 PM
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I live in Oregon and he is in Mississippi.
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Old 04-22-2015, 09:19 PM
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Default My baby is far away

My honey is in Ky but Im in Il right now Im looking to relocate to be closer to him. I was looking in Ky but I cant find anything. So Im looking in knoxville tn. right now. The only thing is its a hour away, and I dont drive and use a wheelchair. So I was wondering if there is any ladies in knoxville tn. who have a loved one at Mccreary usp and if so will they be willing to allow me to tag along. Ill share the cost for this shared trip. I would appreciate this because I want to see my baby.
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Old 05-09-2015, 05:50 PM
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My husband is in Graterfird, PA and we live in North Carolina. It us very hard in me at times because I am used to seeing him twice a week. But every chance U get I got to PA to see him. IRS rough but I will always gave Hus back no matter what
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Old 05-15-2015, 06:00 PM
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Yes. I'm in Arkansas and he is in Colorado. We were best friends in Jr. High/High School but we were homeschooled by strictly religious families, who moved away when we developed romantic interests towards each other.

When he went to prison they went so far as to tell me he was dead. I didn't find out until I was already married that he was still alive. Upon writing him (with my husband's permission) I found out his parents had told him I had died too.

We now have an open marriage and are both waiting for him to get out. I have never been able to visit him.
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Old 05-15-2015, 09:06 PM
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My fiance is currently in wv beckley , I plan on visiting twice a month I live in P.A. Its only about 7 hours.
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Old 05-19-2015, 08:35 PM
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Hey yall this is all new to me..my love is at NKSP in reception in cali but im in kansas i havent seen him since september 2014 he should be getting home october 2015 and i wont be able to see him at all and right now now calls because 90 days reception ..quick question once his time is done will they send him home to kansas? how does that work we live in kansas but hes in prison in cali whats the proccess?
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My fiance is in California, I live in Kansas. We have agreed that any money spent on travelling would be a waste and could be better put towards our future.
Hey so where in cali is your fiance ?, my husband is in cali too and im in kansas its so hard to be so far away isnt it? what will you guys do once he is out? will they be able to leave cali?
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My boyfriend is locked up in the same city as i am. He may as well be in a different country because I cant see him anyway until my charges are dealt with.

Last time he was in jail.....the last couple months of his time we were in different cities and that was awful.

I must say just reading over this thread that I live in Canada and it seems like the prisons in the US are crazy when it comes to taking away visitations all willy nilly. Is it really common place to not be allowed to see somebody for 6 months because their visitations had been revoked?


shit thats crazy
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Old 05-27-2015, 10:33 AM
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Mine is in another state, 400 miles/7 hours. He can be transferred to my state but He will still be fairly far away 250 miles/4 hours. A bit of a pain in the butt to drive but we are lucky to get to visit 3 days in a row/7 hours each day.
How do you get them transferred?
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Old 06-02-2015, 10:41 PM
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Mine is Mississippi in CA I really want to visit
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Old 06-16-2015, 01:27 AM
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my boy's incarcerated in California , and i live in Oregon
we dated a few years ago while i still lived down there ,
but i moved to Oregon and we lost contact , up until last year
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Old 06-26-2015, 09:43 PM
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Mi love is in Oklahoma State Penitentiary... I live in Orlando, FL. We haven't even met yet. Only phone calls and mail.
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Old 06-26-2015, 10:06 PM
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My boyfriend is in California and I am in Texas. I visited him in May. I miss him but we talk every day on the phone. I probably won't get back until January.
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I live in Canada and He is in Texas... cant even call...its crazy...
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I was in Michigan and he was in Tennessee... So I moved to Tennessee and everything was good... But now I'm still in Tennessee but he got moved to West Virginia.... I'm NOT moving again lol
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I feel for you sweetheart, you ok with it all? What's in your head?
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Old 07-01-2015, 08:36 PM
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I feel for you sweetheart, you ok with it all? What's in your head?
Who me? I'm good. I have family here too so although he was a major part of the move I was ready to relocate anyway. He will be home in a year so it's not that bad just can't visit him as much
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Old 07-02-2015, 01:05 AM
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Hey can I buy a card at a store abd we d it with pics inside??? In Texas?? Man... I love him... I wish I could see his face. MWI
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I am in Oregon and my love is in Cali. We talk daily, and are about to have our first contact visit in over a decade. in 2 weeks for his birthday.

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