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View Poll Results: Is he incarcerated in a different state?
Yes, and it's hard on both of us. 927 81.03%
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Old 08-23-2014, 07:47 PM
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I am in California ... He is in Louisiana ... I'm hoppin on a plane in 12 days
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Old 08-26-2014, 09:34 AM
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I'm in Florida and he is in New York. I'm hoping to see him in October.
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[quote=bunnybrazell;7354220]I am in California ... He is in Louisiana ... I'm hoppin on a plane in 12 days [/QUOTE

I know your excitement, lol... Im on my way to cali in 18 from texas. :-) it's an awesome feeling huh???
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Old 08-29-2014, 06:50 PM
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My husband WAS in California about a half hr from me. He was just transferred to New Hampshire. I'm gonna go visit him next month.
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Old 08-29-2014, 06:54 PM
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I am in California ... He is in Louisiana ... I'm hoppin on a plane in 12 days [/QUOTE

I know your excitement, lol... Im on my way to cali in 18 from texas. :-) it's an awesome feeling huh???
Oh yes! Lol... Pretty much all I can think about...lol... I can't wait to see him
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I'm in Pennsylvania ... he's in Florida.... can't afford to go visit him... but he will be home the latest, March
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My boyfriend will be officially sentenced on the 25th, he has already served 2 years. He is considered a straight detainer up to this point, because of this he has done the majority of his 2 years at the nearest jail to me, it's only a 40 minute drive. The state we reside in has several contracts with other correctional facilities around the country. The two that have the most Vermont inmates are located in Virginia and Kentucky. He has 2 years left to serve, I am terrified he will be shipped, we are taking steps to try and avoid this but more than likely, it's out of our hands. I will be completely devastated if this happens:0(
Just wondering if he had to get shipped. I hope the best and he got to stay near home!!
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Old 08-30-2014, 10:17 AM
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I am so glad there are some other women going through this. I met mine at his 10 year mark of his 20 years through his mom and I live in Alabama and he is in Missouri. He is on the state line and its a 5 hour drive but his prison just changed the rules for special visits so I can not see him for both sessions when I come so its means I have to take a weekend off work which I dont mind and choose which time to go but it is 4 hours when I go. He would love for me to move so I can come more often but I just started school cause I didnt know I would be falling in love with him. Now that we are getting married I see that we do need to be closer to help the marriage for the next 5 years before he is up for possible parole. I just wish he could more but it is harder from what I understand to move state to state so when school is done I am heading up his way.
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Old 09-04-2014, 08:28 PM
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I am so glad there are some other women going through this. I met mine at his 10 year mark of his 20 years through his mom and I live in Alabama and he is in Missouri. He is on the state line and its a 5 hour drive but his prison just changed the rules for special visits so I can not see him for both sessions when I come so its means I have to take a weekend off work which I dont mind and choose which time to go but it is 4 hours when I go. He would love for me to move so I can come more often but I just started school cause I didnt know I would be falling in love with him. Now that we are getting married I see that we do need to be closer to help the marriage for the next 5 years before he is up for possible parole. I just wish he could more but it is harder from what I understand to move state to state so when school is done I am heading up his way.
It's so so hard but worth the waiting i can only see mine once a year and school is so important.
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I'm in Oregon with a heart at San Quentin. Happy to see another Oregonian I'm in Corvallis...
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My love is in Georgia and I am in Pa..I will be moving down there this summer
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I'm in Maryland and he's in Florida.
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Old 11-22-2014, 06:51 AM
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I'm in Florida and he's in California.
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Old 11-23-2014, 10:41 AM
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I live in va and hes in ohio
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Old 11-30-2014, 09:39 PM
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My love was transferred out of California in 2011 after these hard times, he will be transferring back to California this week!! What a relief I'm excited
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Old 12-07-2014, 09:54 AM
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I'm in cali his in Mississippi. Just came back from a thanksgiving visit with him and already planning planning to go back in March, hopefully to get married!
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My BaBY IS IN ArkANSAS and I am in New Jersey. It is more then 1000 miles and 19 hours of driving. I have to plan on spending about 1ooo to visit and try to get a long weekend in. The sad thing is that where he is we can't hold hands or even sit next to each other - we are across each other and another couple right up next to us. He had to wear a stupid white jumpsuit. I understand that there is a lot of passing of drugs and contraband in the prisons but when I go thru so much to visit and I can't even sit comfortable and lean on his shoulder or hold his hand or talk intimate or personal stuff with him it makes it hard. When he was a the USP the visits were not so strict and now he is at a medium. He has done 14 years of a 25 years sentence. We are trying to get him closer and soon that will happen.
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I am in Nevada and he is in Cali...although Nevada is right next to Cali it's a 9-10 hour drive...I know because I drove it in a 24 hour period to see him for one hour... Driving back...I was wishing he was sitting next to me in the car holding my hand laughing. I cried all the next day even though I was so happy to have seen him I was so sad to have left him there! I am visiting him again in Feb. because I got ACCEPTED into grad school!!!! So I will be moving out of state and even further away from him. I know we will make it work...but it still makes it difficult. I applaud you ladies that are so far especially the ones in other countries! But hey, when you really care and love someone you are willing to make it work
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I'm in Florida, he's in Louisiana, 7 hours away. We haven't seen each other since he went in 2 months ago, but I am going to make the drive this weekend. They claim that this was the closest prison that had room for him...even though they are severely overcrowded...but I guess it is what it is. I have learned that no one cares about an inmate's family and the hardships we go through.
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I'm in Florida, he's in Louisiana, 7 hours away. We haven't seen each other since he went in 2 months ago, but I am going to make the drive this weekend. They claim that this was the closest prison that had room for him...even though they are severely overcrowded...but I guess it is what it is. I have learned that no one cares about an inmate's family and the hardships we go through.
Which LA prison? Yeah, all of our prisons here are ridiculously overcrowded to say the least! It's a shame for real
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Which LA prison? Yeah, all of our prisons here are ridiculously overcrowded to say the least! It's a shame for real
He's in FCI 1 Oakdale
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I'm in cali his in Mississippi. Just came back from a thanksgiving visit with him and already planning planning to go back in March, hopefully to get married!
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