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View Poll Results: Is he incarcerated in a different state?
Yes, and it's hard on both of us. 927 81.03%
No, thank goodness! 217 18.97%
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Old 03-11-2014, 08:41 PM
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My hubby is in VA, and I am in TN. Right now he is in a regional jail, if and when he gets transfered I hope its close by not some of the 6 hour away ones.
I am in the same situation as you only my bf is in a WV regional jail and I'm in TN as well. He's eligible for parole in May but I'm not sure he'll be able to transfer states or not...idk what to do...
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Old 03-25-2014, 09:08 AM
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i'm in wisconsin and my man is in milan mi. Its a 5 hr drive and I would do it in a heartbeat to see him, but we are co-defendants and I'm on fed probation so they won't let me into a prison. My p.o. finally gave me the ok after he was there for 6 months, so now just waiting on the warden to ok me, i feel doubtful....
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Old 03-28-2014, 12:10 PM
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My Anthony is Locked up in Virginia and I am currently living in Florida. I lived in Virginia until about a year ago and moved to Florida due to financial issues and had family here willing to help out. I have not been able to visit him. I am planning a trip to Virginia and hoping to get to see him though. It is very hard. We are always writing to each other but it seems to take too long for the letters to get here and there. He calls every other day and normally multiple times.
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Old 03-30-2014, 03:34 AM
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I'm in NC and my honey is in CA, it really gets hard at times, we try to.stay positive and focused
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He's in Florida and I'm in Tenn. . Def too far almost 600 miles/9hours ONE WAY. Still waiting on visitation application to be approved but once it is I'm making the trip!!

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Old 04-16-2014, 01:09 AM
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No, but he may as well be. He's still hours and hours away. Thank God I found freedomline.net and can afford the calls since they make it local for him to call. And they give you a referral number so anyone that uses it gets 300 free minutes and so do I. My number is 779626. So if your fella is far away the calls cost a ton. Way cheaper to go this route
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Old 04-17-2014, 10:38 PM
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My best friend who is also my fiancée is in Ky and I am in Indiana. Makes our love stronger.
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Old 04-27-2014, 06:48 PM
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I am in Texas and he us kentucky
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Old 05-03-2014, 10:53 AM
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I am in Denmark, Europe and my soul-mate is in Nevada.
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Old 05-10-2014, 01:24 PM
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I want to move to b closer to him but he doesn't like the idea hes in tx im in ks
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Old 05-11-2014, 12:35 AM
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Im in Illinois hes in Arizona. I visited once in December. Was planning another in June but things are hard now. Hes very angry I dont write as much since visit and am not contacting everyone he says I need to to find out about interstate compact. His release date is October 5. Im afraid he will not be able to come here. I dont know what my calling will do to help. He takes that as I dont care about his release.
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Old 05-11-2014, 12:49 AM
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I'm in New Jersey and he's in Washington state. Been to visit once last month and planning to go back in October. Can't wait!
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Old 06-23-2014, 03:20 PM
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arizona is home for me while he's in TN 1500 miles apart. i guess id be more thankful for this than him in another country like overseas
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Old 06-23-2014, 03:24 PM
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My love is in Australia and I am in Sweden. So when it comes to pure distance I'm pretty sure I beat most of you

I moved down to Australia to be with him only 4 months before he was incarcerated. We had already been together for 3 years prior to that. After he got locked up I stayed in Australia for another 3 months until it got too much for me to be there without any form of support from family and not being able to afford even proper food. Now I'm in Sweden and I'm staying here until he comes back out. Hopefully it won't be too long because I will probably only be able to visit once a year.
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Old 06-25-2014, 12:28 AM
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Yes he is in Alabama and I am in Oklahoma
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Old 06-30-2014, 05:28 PM
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We are in different countries and it's very hard. Im in the UK and he's in Nevada and so letters and phone calls are extra important to us. But it's not for ever thank god x
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Old 07-12-2014, 10:25 PM
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He just got locked up... it sucks. It will be awhile before I can go see him and the place he is at right now only does 1 hour visits a week (is that normal)
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Old 07-15-2014, 06:47 AM
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After reading all the post it seems like most couples situation is across the nation, goodness, iv even read some that where out of country like from the state to the UK, I'm in AZ and he's in TN. 1 day i will move to be closer to him
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Old 07-24-2014, 04:20 PM
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My husband is in Virginia and Im in Baltimore from Oklahoma to West Virginia they won't give him a visitors list he can only use the phone once a month because he's in a special housing unit we write each other every week sometimes 2 or 3 times but I haven't seen him since he left Baltimore I haven't heard his voice since june the 10th it's hard it's like they want to tear down what God created some nites I cry myself to sleep but I know this wont be a easy 8 years it seems like forever,I get angry Im withdrawn not myself without Rickey
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Old 07-29-2014, 06:34 PM
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He's in Georgia im in Pa
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He is in Colorado in the FEDS. I am in Minnesota. Am just beginning to ponder someday moving out there to be with him.

For all of you who are also doing the long-distance thing.....hang in there!!
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I'm in San Diego, CA he's locked up in Tennessee - CCA Metro Detention Facility
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Old 08-18-2014, 09:39 AM
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My boyfriend will be officially sentenced on the 25th, he has already served 2 years. He is considered a straight detainer up to this point, because of this he has done the majority of his 2 years at the nearest jail to me, it's only a 40 minute drive. The state we reside in has several contracts with other correctional facilities around the country. The two that have the most Vermont inmates are located in Virginia and Kentucky. He has 2 years left to serve, I am terrified he will be shipped, we are taking steps to try and avoid this but more than likely, it's out of our hands. I will be completely devastated if this happens:0(
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Old 08-23-2014, 02:46 PM
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I am from The Netherlands (holland) he is from California 17 hour fly and 1 hour drive to lompoc 5 years or 7 to go
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