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Old 02-22-2004, 07:07 AM
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Hi There Ladies I Am So Scare, Worried And Devestaed I Need Someone Who Understands Me To Talk To Me Either On Here Or Pm Me I Found Out Las Tnight That My Boyfriend Mike Whom Is A Great Guy Never Gets In Trouble Whee He Is That He Ended Up In The Hole For Telling One Of The Female Guyrds To F**k Off And He Hates Her But This Isn't Good Because Now They Are Thinking About Transferring Him And I Don't Need Them To Move Him Further Than He Already Is.

I Am Sooooo Worried About Him He Called Him Mom Last Night Because He Wanted To Tell Her To Tell Me That He Couldn't Call Me And He Was Allowed To Call His Mom But Not Me And He Could Only Talk For 5 Minuted Than He Had To Hang Up.

But I Am Soooooooo Devestated And Worried About Him Because He Doesn't Deserve This He Is A All Around Good Guy Most Of The Time And This Has Never Happened Before So I Don't Know How To Handle This.

I Hope To Hear From You All Soon Take Care Amanda
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Old 02-22-2004, 07:15 AM
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Sweetheart don't panic, a lot of the guys wind up in confinement, I used to read about others and think well, MY man behaves himself LOL then he wound up in there, too, and I wasn't so uppity about. Just kidding, I'm not saying you're uppity, just that I was a little, thinking my guy was trying harder. Turns out no matter how hard they try even the best behaved often get in the hole, either b/c the guards mess with them (especially when their time is short) or they just snap. I mean, I would probably live in there if it were me. Is it 64 days til his max date or is that with gain time? Confinement does suck, I just went through it myself, but you can get through it. PM me if you want, I know how that feels
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Old 02-22-2004, 07:37 AM
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Amanda,

You will have to breath deeply and get through this. Like MT said - it does not matter how good they are... My Partner ended up in the hole a few times for something that was not his doing... you just have to get through it.

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Amanda: I want to echo what everyone else said. My boyfriend ended up in the hole because he had witnessed something that he was not willing to comment on. My point--it seems virtually impossible for them to do any real amount of time without someone finding an excuse to send them there. In my boyfriend's case, it did not result in any extra time--it was just a pretty boring two weeks. If it's possible, I would wait to worry. They might just be threatening to move him to mess with his head--I wouldn't put that past them. It is expensive to move people around, and I wouldn't think they would do that just because he said a bad word to a guard--but I guess they can do whatever they are going to do. Hang in there until you can get some more information and then trust that you will deal with whatever you have to deal with. I hope you know more soon. Andi
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I dont have much experience yet with the prisons but i wouldnt think they would move him if he is supposed to get out in 64 days. Take a deep breath, write him a letter. I am sure you are freaking out way more than he is. Ya'll are almost outta this mess. "this to shall pass".

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my fiance has gotten so he like the box!? he wants to just go back and max out in there! weirdo!!!! it does happen to lots. it is not a big deal. i understand how it is for u though. hang in there! don't worry too much yet! good luck and tell him to "stay outta trouble!!"
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Hey There Ladies,

Thank You For Responding I Got A Quick Call From Mike This Evening And He Is Very Worried Because He May Have To Be In The Hole For The Next 64 Days And He Will Never Be Able To Handle This He Will Die In There He Gets So Depressed And Now It Has Me Feeling Depressed.

He Tells Me Not To Worry And That He Will Be Fine But I Can't Help But Worry Thats My Job And I Fear That Something My Happen To Him In There I Just Wish That There Was Something That I Could Do For Him In There But I Know That There Isn't Anything That I Can Do For Him Right Now Except Support Him 100%.

But Sometimes Support Isn't What He Needs When I Should Be There The Most For Him I Can't Be And It Gets To Be So Confusing And Devestating On My Behalf And He Knows That I Worry And That Also Scares Himm Because He Doesn't Want Me To Worry All That Much About Him.

Thank You For Helping But I Am So Depressed I Feel Like My World Is Falling Apart Right Before My Eyes Right Now I Am Dealing With This And To Top It Off My Son Is Really Ill And Hasn't Moved Off The Couch All Day So Everything Is Happening At The Same Time.

Amanda
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