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Old 07-30-2018, 10:23 AM
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Default MWI getting a home leave: Nervous, excited, apprehensive, so many emotions!

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I have 10 days until my MWI is due out on a home leave which he's spending with me!
I met him out in the community as he has a regular job but goes back to prison at the end of each day, preparing for release! We struck up a friendship and began writing to each other. He's not made any promises, and I've got to know him quite well through our letter writing! Well I hope I have as I trust he's being genuine.
As the time gets closer I have so many emotions going on! I've been single a long time and stayed away from dating for a long time but this man has managed to get under my skin and as the day gets closer, the thought of spending a day in his company is making me nervous, excited, a lil bit scared (I'm not scared of him, I guess I would be the same with a guy on the outside - it's just been a while!) I wonder if things will change between us after spending time together properly, it's easy to talk on the phone! I guess I'm posting here as people in my life don't understand/approve and the majority of you know how I'm feeling right now! I just hope I don't feel too sick on the day - I don't really know why cos he's such a decent man, he's respectful and has manners, we are so alike in so many ways! I don't know if I'm looking for advice, good/bad stories or just to tell someone, seen as I can't share with too many friends I'm sharing with thousands on here!
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Old 07-30-2018, 12:25 PM
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Welcome to Prison Talk and I hope you guys have a great home leave.
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Hi I am guessing that your MWI is in a Cat D prison on work release and now has home leave at weekends.
I can understand the nerves and excitement, that is normal. Just try and relax and enjoy your time together.
I am sure it will be amazing and you will look forward to your next home leave and then the next until he comes home.
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Have fun!
Don't worry I know how you feel lol
First visit at prison with mine I was so nervous it was unbelievable.
When he got released and I picked him up I was so nervous I couldn't eat, I STILL get nervous everytime I see him and we video chat and we've been together two years lol
He's amazing
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I am excited for you! Will you let us know how it goes?

You’re going to have an amazing time ☺️
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Ohhhh I can't wait for feel those emotions...
Just go for it and enjoy and read my foot-note.. ;-)
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I'm so looking forward to it regardless of all the emotions. I definitely will let you know how it goes! if all goes well I get him at least once/twice a month for the next 9 months! I feel like a kid at Christmas right now! the disapproval and the wonder of how I can give him the time of day from people really gets to me sometimes - we're all human. Thank you for the well wishes! :*
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Tomorrow is the day! I'm so nervous it's unreal!!! Although I also can't wait to have some alone time with him. I hope I can sleep tonight!!
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I am sure it will be wonderful , enjoy your day and let us all know how amazing it was when you can.
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Tomorrow is the day! I'm so nervous it's unreal!!! Although I also can't wait to have some alone time with him. I hope I can sleep tonight!!

Yay!! 😁❤️😁
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Thanks for the well wishes

We had a great day! We talked a lot, laughed a lot and ate well. As well as releasing almost a year of frustration - for me anyway
We got on really well, it didn't take long for my nerves to subside! I enjoyed his company, he's so interesting and we have another date set. I'm really looking forward to it! I'm sure I'll still be a lil nervous the next time.
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I am really happy for you both .
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Tomorrow is the day! I'm so nervous it's unreal!!! Although I also can't wait to have some alone time with him. I hope I can sleep tonight!!
hola . hi chica, i am ABSOLUTELY thrilled/happy/so happy for you, enjoy.awww.
G-night.adios. hugs and blessings for you this week.
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