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View Poll Results: How do you feel about strip clubs?
I can't stand them and my man better never go to one. 435 31.52%
I don't like them, but I'm not gonna stop him from going. 266 19.28%
I don't really have an opinion either way. 167 12.10%
I like strip clubs. I even go to them with my man. 512 37.10%
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Old 10-28-2005, 01:04 AM
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I would have no problem with it, but I don't think it is on his adgenda. He was a male dancer years ago and it is just entertainment, nothing more is how I see it. I go for my own entertainment about one a year, I took my 21 year old daughter to see her first male entertainer it was great.

Couldn't of put better myself, it's just entertainment!
I don't work at a club anymore but I do work at bachelor parties.
And yes, there are some out there (male and females) in the biz
who give this job a bad reputation. But it's typically good, clean fun.
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i dont know about all you other ladies but i love strip clubs. I dont think there is anything wrong with them. They are sexy, they make me feel sexy and they get him going... we go to them together we BOTH get lap dances then we go home and do it... and i mean IT...thats just me though. im a little freaky.
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We trust one another. I have no problem w/ him going to a strip club. I mean why would I? I feel if you're w/ someone you should have enough faith in that person to feel they will/would do right outside your presence. And besides a strip club aint something my man digs anyways.
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Strip clubs used to be a part of our regular routine we both love to go and have a few beers we've even gotten lap dances together, but we're more open minded than most people...
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Not as long as it wasn't on the drive home from picking him up!
The first time we went to one, we were sitting together but I finally went over to the pool tables and was shooting pool because I could tell he was not comfortable w/me there. He kept coming up to me seeing how I was doing? Is everything okay? Do you need more money? I said GO, have fun! Oh boy, did he get over that quick. It's just one more place to hang out together and have a good time.
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It was never my fiance's thing when he was out in the free world previously. Now if he decided he wants to go just to check them out then so be it. Holding the reins too tightly is sure to choke them. Let him have his fun. Trust me he'll appreciate what it is he has at home if you'll let him see what's out there!
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It was never my fiance's thing when he was out in the free world previously. Now if he decided he wants to go just to check them out then so be it. Holding the reins too tightly is sure to choke them. Let him have his fun. Trust me he'll appreciate what it is he has at home if you'll let him see what's out there!
I agree with you 100%. I trust my man and if he ever wanted to go I would let him. He would want me to go with him and if that is what he really wanted me to do I would
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I say let him go. He can go get all worked up, and then come home to his wife, me!!!!!
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because i am a child of God, I could not support him going to a strip club. because he is child of God, I don't forsee this being an issue for us.
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Well, I honestly wouldn't mind if my man went to a strip club. I think it would be a good thing if he did. We've already talked about it. He won't go when he first gets out, because he's going to be spending a lot of time with me to make up for all the lost time. I wouldn't even mind going with him. I know that if he goes he will be coming home with me so I don't see the big deal.
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i wouldnt mind at all if he went to a strip club. in fact i would probably offer to come along. its fun. he can appreciate a little eye candy if he wants. after he gets all excited we can go home and make good use of that excess energy. i would never be offended if he told me that he wanted to go to a strip club. it is a mans nature to want to look. hell ladies, have fun you can look too.
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i see absolutely nothing wrong with my man going to a strip club, i would even go with him. as long as he just looks and doesnt touch. there would be no problems. men are going to look at women anyways. my man and i have even talked about going. and hopefully if he gets out any time soon. we are going to go to one together. if he wants to go to one alone or with his friends then that is cool as well.
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I think a lot of what plays into strip clubs is a man trying to reaffirm he still 'has it'. never mind that there is gratutity expected! ha strippers dote on the man, do little sexy dances so on and so forth. oftentimes the men will bring friends so that there are witnesses to this! I don't know men that will give wallet and throw a marriage out the door for some stacked blonde. and if they did, well then- who really wants that d**k? and likewise, I don't know many strippers that would dump thier man for a man that came in as a customer. when the topless bars get frequent, then it's time to check it.

I hope Charlie does go into one, at least at his bachelor party- but like I said, I doubt he will. I ruined it for him by working in one.
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I could care less. Because all the things that we have been through he's not going anywhere!
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To be honest with you all it would not bother me if my fiance went to a strip club when he comes home for the simple fact that I know he will be coming home to me .
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I totally agree with you. I can't stand them either and I don't like my man to go. He likes them though, and I'm sure he will want to go to one when he gets out.
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OOOOOOOOOOH HELLLLLLLLLLL NO!

My husband knows his limits, I know that is something he would never think about doing while being with me. That is something that I find disgusting because that is no different than prostituting, women there would do anything for money and I would never ever ever eeeeever let no woman touch him or even leeesss give him permission to go and do whatever he pleased. I may sound possesive and selfish to some but if I am waiting faithfully for my boo why would I want for him to be or have another women feel up on him. Wether it is a stripper, dancer whatever it is still another woman feeling up on ur man and ur man feeling up on another woman. If he doesnt feel I'm enough for him phisically and mentally then he is definately not worth my precious years lol.
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I am all the stripper he needs. I gave him the lap dance of his life on our last trailer. He said himself that he doesn't need a strip club because he has one right at home with me!

If stripping is what he wants, then do it. Ladies give your husbands what they want because if you don't another woman will!

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I am all the stripper he needs. I gave him the lap dance of his life on our last trailer. He said himself that he doesn't need a strip club because he has one right at home with me!
You put the "dirty south" on that NY Boi, huh!!
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i dont mind them at all....i like going to them myself. We have already made plans in March 2010 to get to one when he gets out since we never got the chance to go together when he was out.
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I didn't really like the choices.....I wanted a HELL NO lol. I don't "hate" them really but after I waited all this time.....I'd expect he'd be wanting to see his own strip show at home....and of coarse I'd be offended if he wanted to look at other woman instead!
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It really doesn't bother me, however my husband was never the strip club type. I am his personal striper and he don't even have to put money in my panties. He would rather see me with a teddy on and give him a dance. And after the dance, we can take it to the next step
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When we were younger (at different times... years apart) we have both worked in them.

He'd better not be hanging around in one without me.
And IF HE GOES... he'd better be prepared to go to a MALE one with me.
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