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View Poll Results: How do you feel about strip clubs?
I can't stand them and my man better never go to one. 435 31.52%
I don't like them, but I'm not gonna stop him from going. 266 19.28%
I don't really have an opinion either way. 167 12.10%
I like strip clubs. I even go to them with my man. 512 37.10%
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Old 09-16-2005, 10:38 PM
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only if i am the star other wise we have issues
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Old 09-17-2005, 09:57 PM
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Im cool with it hes coming home to me.
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Old 09-17-2005, 11:14 PM
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Maggie Luis, I like what you said about not putting restrictions on man and being his woman and not his mother.
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Old 09-19-2005, 04:51 PM
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I have always told my hubby that he can look at the menu but he needs to eat at home home. I really don't mind the strip clubs but as long as it's not a habbit.
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It wouldnt bother me either...I would go with him......Let him live it up a little....I know i will be the one goin home with him!
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Old 10-12-2005, 09:01 AM
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Although I don't like the idea of my man being around another woman walking around with no clothes on, I wouldn't knock him from going. Alot of my cousins and friends encourage their men to go and even go along with them. Although I have not told him, I may make an attempt to take him to one when he gets home. Just for the simple fact that I don't want to be so against it that he has to do it behind my back. He wasn't really into them when he was out, but after doing a 10-yr bid, who knows?

I just hope to GOD that I don't end up in a fight, LOL
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Old 10-12-2005, 09:05 AM
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I might be the one to invite him to go to a strip club. i personally dont mind b/c i have nothing but trust for my man. All a strip club is gonna do is get him ready for me when he come home. i have confidence in me and my relationship to let my man go in there and see all those loose females and he will still want to come home to me. u can't shield ur man from other woman cause thats called being insecure and if thats the case u either better keep him away from these music videos that are out nowadays or u better learn some new moves
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Old 10-12-2005, 09:30 AM
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I agree with mrs bernabela, I would go with my man but aint nobody dancing on him he can watch the dancers but no dancing. Plus i think he already go this out of his system so the only walking naked, pole dancing swinging in the air, stiletto stomping furniture breaking will be from me and in our bedroom
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Old 10-12-2005, 02:13 PM
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Uh...the strip club is here...I'll take those dollars, thank you!!! Otherwise, there's gonna be two hits: me hittin' him and him hittin' the ground and I'm not pickin him up either!
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I could care less about stuff like that. I am not a drinker and he really does not get off on strip clubs. I don't mind them, I find it interesting to watch each womens style of erotic dance.
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I kind of like to go to the strip club. Both men and women strip clubs. I go see the male strips with my girls and I like to go female clubs with my baby. I wouldn't mind if he wanted to go by himself with his boys. I trust him and i know he is coming home to me. And like I said before I am also open to going with him. But my man isn't really into to the strip club like that. He said it just doesn't do it for him and he has better things to spend to do with his money. And i feel him on that. He said he would rather get a dance from me. I don't mind him going though. I'll even buy him a lay touch. For some reason seeing him get a lap dance turns me on . Maybe i'm crazy. LOL

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I was just wondering how all of you feel about strip clubs? Someone mentioned that their man was going to a strip club after he gets out, and that would really bother me. I don't like strip clubs and how the girls throw themselves at the men to make more money. To me, lapdances are basically sex with clothes on. I can handle the fact that men wanna watch the girls, but it just makes me sick to think about my man getting a lapdance from another girl. How do you feel about it?

I agree with you dreamlover. Good thing my man has no interest in going to any. He is real old fashioned and I like it like that. I am a lucky, loved woman!
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I really don't approve of my man going to strip clubs either.Just the thought of it makes me sick.If he wants to get a lap dance he can ask me
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Old 10-13-2005, 06:39 AM
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I wouldn't have a problem with that.
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Old 10-13-2005, 06:53 AM
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My husband can do whatever he wantS!!!!!! I can't change him! You can't force someone to be what they aren't!!!!!! If you tell them they can't go, and they really wanted to go, they may lie to you and go anyway!!!!!! You can't stop a person from doing something they really want to do!!!!!

My husband has wanted to go to a strip club before! He asked me to go with him! (he doesn't leave my side, he's up my ass!!!!! thats something we are working on)
But, I went with him! I'm not bi or les or anything! I would rather be sitting next to my husband at one, instead of one of them girls sitting next to him!
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He has been before as have I, he said they do nothing for him. He said he would rather be home watching me dance for him ... then after the dance we do our thing!
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anywhere he wants to go....i will go with him
anywhere i want to go.....he will go with me
esp when he first gets out because we would have waited all this time without being with each other...oh heck yeah...i dont care where we go...as long as we go together and have all the fun in the world...
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I would go with him and pay for a few lap dances! But at the end of the night, I will be giving him a really good lap dance!!! I don't mind him going to a stip club at all, I know that he better be home berofe 3:30am and better be ready for a show at home.
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I wouldn't approve. It would really bother me.
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Oh heck no! His sexy a** better be at home with me, not with some skanky h**s. My man knows what he has waiting for him, he doesn't need anyone else.
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Old 10-23-2005, 02:57 PM
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Im not into strip clubs one little bit. Each to their own though. I would be upset oif my man wanted to go to one or even felt the need to go to one, but i douldnt stop him from doing it. It would be up to him, but i would stress to him how it makes me feel.
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Well, I suppose this won't be a problem for me anymore. However, we had planned on going together. We are just freaks though. He's always tried suggesting a 3-way (not w/ the strippers) .... never mind, we won't go there.
I would've probably been a little leary if he went alone though. Only b/c he use to hang around with that crowd, dated strippers and that's when he was into the drugs, back in the days.
I'm sure his strip club days aren't over, it would be out of character for him to not go once in awhile.
But I imagine and hope the "dating the strippers and doing drugs" days are over.
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Old 10-27-2005, 02:57 PM
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I wouldn't get mad or jealous because I know he would be coming home to me and it would all be just for the fun of it. I have been to a strip club once with some friends for a batchelorette party, and honestly it did not do anything for me. I had more fun watching some of the women make fools of themselves then anything...lol.. Me and my husband really look at it in the same way, why stick my hard earned money down some strangers g-string when I can get all I want for free at home...
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I would have no problem with it, but I don't think it is on his adgenda. He was a male dancer years ago and it is just entertainment, nothing more is how I see it. I go for my own entertainment about one a year, I took my 21 year old daughter to see her first male entertainer it was great.
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