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View Poll Results: How do you feel about strip clubs?
I can't stand them and my man better never go to one. 435 31.52%
I don't like them, but I'm not gonna stop him from going. 266 19.28%
I don't really have an opinion either way. 167 12.10%
I like strip clubs. I even go to them with my man. 512 37.10%
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Old 09-08-2005, 03:40 PM
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The way i see it my man is going to do it anyway He already mention about getting my brother stripers
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Old 09-08-2005, 04:44 PM
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I'm on the fence with this one- we both like the strip clubs, but I know that he dated several strippers in the past and the type of lifestyle that's associated with that. I'd be ok with it ultimately as long as I knew he was coming home to me or even accompanied by me.
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I'm secure enough with my womanhood and in my relationship, therefore he can do him! If he likes going, so be it. I'm his woman, not his God.
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Old 09-08-2005, 06:08 PM
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I just saw this post. What a coincidence! I have mentioned before that I met D after he was already locked up; so we've never been with each other in the "outside world". We've had to get to know each other mostly through letters. We had sort of been talking about how we don't want to smother each other when he gets out; that we both should still have our own interests. In one of my letters to him about two months ago, I brought up the subject about strip clubs. I told him I wouldn't mind if he wanted to go to a strip club when he gets out. (Wouldn't bother me, 'cause I guess in my mind, I'd be waiting for him to get home to see what kind of action I would get!) He wrote back and said there's no way he'd go. Got all defensive about it. Said he was never interested in it when he was out. I'd heard stories that it enhances your sex life! LOL He said "Why should I go to a strip club if I've got a woman? So I can go home with the other woman on my mind?"

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I'm secure enough with my womanhood and in my relationship
Right on, girl!!!! You said it all right there. I don't see a problem other than what someone else said, why pay those prices when I can give it better for free (well, he has to work for it )? Those gals ain't got nothin on me, so I have no fears.

For all of you who don't think you could handle it: try it once. Take your man and be cool about it. It'll make him way hot. I went with my ex-hubby once, even bought him a dance. He was soooo thrilled I was willing to do that, he forgot about the boobies in his face and couldn't wait to get home!!!
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I won't care if John goes but I will be right there with him we have fun and I trust him
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he would never go cause he says there nasty but if i would never let him go anyway..
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Been there and done that.......if he wants to go......he can, but he usually wants me to go with him. However it goes though, he's coming home with me and that's all I need to know. I love him and trust him, that's all that matters in the end isn't it???
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Old 09-08-2005, 08:03 PM
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Well, I've been to a strip club with him and we had tons of fun but that's just us lol! I wouldn't be keen on him getting a lap dance but I actually just went to a VERY riske male strip show that he knows I went to....so to answer your question....as long as I could come but if he wanted to go with a bunch of guys it's cool with me because that wouldn't be fair of me to say he can't go since I just went to one.
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Old 09-08-2005, 08:09 PM
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that is ok, i guess. scott and i have this thing about strip clubs, i want to go with him. i think we would have so much fun together. he has gone before and then told me the next day, that i don't like, but if i know in advance, i think it would be ok
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Old 09-08-2005, 08:14 PM
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I don't think it would bother me at all for the reason I am the one he will come home to and make love to. I wouldn't mind going with him because it would be too funny to watch him act like a fool. I would feel secure with our relationship to allow him to do man things. I have been to one and even had a lap dance by a woman and I laughed through it all. Of course I had alot to drink that night as well. You would be surprized to see how many other women go with their men to these things. If I allow him to go with his buddies then he would have no reason to be upset if me and my girlfriends go to one and watch the men dance for us. A stripper is a stripper no matter what the sex of the dancer is. All they are doing is trying to make some money and I don't blame them, if they got the body go show what God has given them or should I say money has bought for them If I was younger and had a sexy body I would love to show it off.
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I offered to take my man to the strip club sometime after he gets out and he just about tripped out! He couldn't believe that I would take him. He said he wasn't too sure about it; I told him that it would be fun. As a matter of fact a few of my girlfriends are going with some of our guy friends this weekend to one. I told him that when he comes home in a few months that my friends would get together again to take him. The way I see it is that he's coming home with me anyway, so why not let him have a little fun looking at the girls.
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shoot we go together before. and i would take him and sit right there with him and all of that because i know when we get home its ON...
its all good because i am secure with our relationship
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when my man gets home i am the only stipper he's gonna ever need!
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Well, I don't know. He's never mentioned it before. So I can't really say.
When he was home, I did a lot of dressing up and dancing for him so I guess he's happy with that.
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My guy would probably like to go to a strip club but would be bored after the first few dancers. And other than memories there's nothing else he can take home with him. He'd better not.

I wouldn't be too happy with him going but then again, HE wouldn't be too happy if I were to go to a strip club with male dancers.
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I am very secure with myself & our relationship that I wouldn't trip if he went to a strip club. I'd even go with him.

I took him to a strip club once before and the funniest thing happened. Of the dancers came up to him when I was sitting there and I was going to offer to pay for a lap dance for him. Well right when she was about to sit on his lap he lightly pushed her off and said, "nah it's cool, I don't want you to wrinkle my pants." I told him that was really mean of him...but honestly I was laughing inside because she felt really stupid.
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Old 09-09-2005, 12:42 AM
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Id let him go, Ive gone to male revues and back in his troblemaking days hed always be around them. It wouldnt be right after he gets home tho, I want some time just to myself. We know who hes coming home to!
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If he went alone, I wouldn't like it very much....but I would have NO problem with it as long as I was with him!
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None of your poll options fit my answer so I will answer this here! Yes I would have a problem with my husband going to a strip club and why you wanna know? Because he doesn't need to look at no one else's body but mine; I could put on a better show than the club anyways!
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Well I've been to strip clubs, and I even used to go with my ex. I had fun messing with the girls myself, but when he would point out ones that he liked, it would bug me. I didn't like knowing which ones he wanted to f***. I never saw him get a lap dance, and that would have really pissed me off. I've given guys lapdances before, and to me it's basically sex with clothes on. I wouldn't stop my man from going to one, cuz I'm not his boss, but I would let it be known how I feel. And he's not allowed to get lapdances. I don't think I'd wanna go with him though.
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i wouldn't mind as long as i go with him and if he's thinking about going by himself we will have a big problem for that one... those females don't respect and things can go far away than just a dance
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If my man wanted to go to a strip club, I would let him go! He wouldn't go without me though! He goes NOWHERE without me!!!!!!!! (HIS CHOICE) So if he really wanted to go, I would go with him!
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I dont mind him going to strip clubs...I have even gone with him a few times. Its fun -and when we get home....HELLO!

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