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View Poll Results: What is the extent of your involvement with your pals?
Just Friends 168 36.60%
Friends for now, could be more later 61 13.29%
Im smitten he/she might be too 30 6.54%
He/she is smitten with me I could be persuaded 22 4.79%
Were smitten with each other 65 14.16%
We are totally in love! 95 20.70%
None of the above (please explain below) 18 3.92%
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Old 07-02-2004, 12:00 PM
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Just a fun poll to start to the holiday weekend!

You will obviously have to choose only one pal for this poll.

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I have a pretty close relationship with one guy my age, and just a friend relationship with a younger one. I will not have a close relationship with a guy much younger than I am. It just doesn't feel right to me. I really feel comfortable with the guy my age, and I feel we can have a future.
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We are all just friends. A few of them have hit on me or said they would like more than a friendship but I just let them know I am already taken. They are such sweeties!!
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Old 07-02-2004, 12:51 PM
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I voted, just friends, but GOOD friends with some.
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Old 07-02-2004, 02:21 PM
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Just friends with all of them. No possibility of romance with any... ever.

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Old 07-02-2004, 02:36 PM
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Old 07-02-2004, 04:09 PM
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well i have a fiance and my heart is totally with him so im not even thinking of starting something new with some one else. my 1st pen pal is a woman so i know theres no possibility of she and i hookin' up, and my 2nd pen pal is a guy and though he is fine i could not see myself being with him in the future cuz i truly do love jason plus hes on DR.
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I am pretty smitten with my pen pal and he told me he was interested in me.
I am trying to take things slow and get to know eachother as friends...getting involved with a man in prison just seems kind of crazy, ya know? Of course the last few dates I have been on have been nightmares! He is in prison for 11 more years probably and I just want to make sure I can wait for him before I promise him I will. I definatly don't want to break his heart...he is a sweetie. Plus the thought of telling my family and friends...I know you can't choose who you fall for but you can choose to be in a relationship. Anyone else been through this?
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Just friends is my policy since I have Jody and I am clear about that to everyone.
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All know and are ok w/B(a couple are his friends too) they are really good friends.
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Seems like good friends is the most popular.

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We're just friends. I'm totally fine with that. I don't anticipate any relationships but I'll never say "never".
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My Husband was one of my penpals(just Friends but we connected so well and Fell in Love,So now we are Friends and in Love) but I do have another Penpal that we are Good Friends and always will be.
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I am engaged to a "penpal" but I knew him through his daughter. I am "mom" to another and very good friends with 4 others. Two of them have been in prison since mid teens and are virgins and talk romantically with me. I discourage them. I don't know what to call it. mom/friend thing. It isn't a strictly "writing" relationship with any of them. These Two want to move to Mn and be involved in our life even after we are married. They tell me I will never want for anything done again! They will be at my beck and call! The two of them have no one else in their lives to give them support. Another in NY is in a relationship and says they will come to Mn at some point to meet me in person. he has family in my state. the other has a life sentence in TX. My son will be moving to Mn also, hopefully to parole. I have worked on getting the guy in TX and in FL visits. It is hard to set limits on phone calls, money, etc, for guys who don't have family to help them!
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REALLY GOOD FRIEND, and I am also starting writing with others too.
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We fell in love, and someday when the damn prison gets around to my application were gonna get married!
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Just friends with zero possiability of romance. Truthfully, I am not even sure I would want to see them in person once they are released.
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I am so head over heels in love with James. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met. He is getting out in 15 months and we are talking about moving our relationship to a new level at that time we have talked about a future life with the white pickett fence HEHE He is my soul mate it just feel so right talking to him and being in his arms
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I'm more than friends with my pp and I honestly never thought of him as a pen pal in the beginning anyway! but we recently started seeing each other, going out, dating, whatever you wanna call it! I can't say I'm in love with him.. I'll find that out in a little under two years. But I do have many feelings for him, a good bit of course, since I'm waiting for him. And I'm willing to do so. It's a bit hard because I never had to deal with this kind of relationship before and didn't even expect it to happen. If anyone is in the same situation, [Email Removed] Please see PTO Rules and Policies.


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I fell in love with mine. It started friends, then good friends, then visits and I do love him. I am getting to know his family and I am happy. Well, as happy as I can be having him there and me here. It is hard, I have a LOT of respect for those that had there man before he went in. Strength To All.
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Well since I am back to the drawing board so to speak; I only had one before and well...nightmare, I put just friends for now. BUT, the reply to my thread was so great and I chose 9 to write too...YES 9...who knows...anything can happen!

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I fell in love with one (who is now my fiance), and just remained friends with the others. Two of them were close friends.
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I ended up unexpectedly becoming smitten with my penpal and I'm trying to be very cautious because things are moving quickly! But the feelings can start if you go into the friendship with an open heart!
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Once I got to know the beautiful person he is I couldn't help but to fall in love.
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