Hey everyone. My boyfriend got locked up last thursday. I was there for it, and I never ever want to go to court with him ever again. It was the first time I went to court with him, and of course he has to get locked up when Im there. The stupid people wouldn't let me say bye. Just left me standing there crying in the court room. It was awful. The first few days were hell because I wanted to talk to him soo bad and I missed him a lot. I had to go to his place and get all of my stuff, but I kept all of his things at my place. I needed him with me even if it was just his clothes and stuff.
Now we have been writing letters and he calls, so it is getting easier. But we don't know when he will be out for sure. The most right now is 9 months. Which seems like a long time for me, but I know a lot of other people on here are waiting a lot longer than I am. If he can he is going to try his hardest to get out in 6 months. Doesn't mean he will be home for the holidays, but he will be here for the summer, my favorite time of the year.
Right before he went in he was supposed to move in with me at my place. I am totally just lost right now because he was going to help me with my rent and stuff. It sucks.
We werent dating for very long before he was sent in, so I had an issue of whether or not I should put myself through it all and stay with him and miss him a lot while he is away. But I realized I like him a lot and I can't be with out him. I am going to stay with him and be faithful while he is there. It is going to be soo worth it.
I just need him to stop hanging out with the people he hangs out with because they are the ones that get him into trouble. I dont want to ask him to change but I want him to know that if he keeps hanging out with them he WILL end up back in there. Its not fair to me. I dont know what to do.
But this is my story...and Id love to hear what you all think.
Intro-- brizee from Massachusetts
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