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Old 12-25-2018, 02:08 PM
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I got 30 months left, I'm trying to keep busy and keep around positive friends and family. I know I can make it !
I feel ya we have 2 years left to go can't wait till it's over
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Old 12-25-2018, 02:13 PM
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I feel ya we have 2 years left to go can't wait till it's over
I wish I had a time machine sometimes ! But it's still a Merry Christmas because I have the love of my life and we only have a few more holidays alone and then he's all mine
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Old 12-25-2018, 02:53 PM
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I got 30 months left, I'm trying to keep busy and keep around positive friends and family. I know I can make it !
Hope it goes fast for u, it will all be worth the wait once he's home I'm sure how long have u waited so far has it been long I'm sure 30 months won't seem too long thank u so much for replying I haven't wrote anything on here before just read it before but was just having one of those days where I felt so down
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:04 PM
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Hope it goes fast for u, it will all be worth the wait once he's home I'm sure how long have u waited so far has it been long I'm sure 30 months won't seem too long thank u so much for replying I haven't wrote anything on here before just read it before but was just having one of those days where I felt so down
3 years already
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:06 PM
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Hope it goes fast for u, it will all be worth the wait once he's home I'm sure how long have u waited so far has it been long I'm sure 30 months won't seem too long thank u so much for replying I haven't wrote anything on here before just read it before but was just having one of those days where I felt so down
Holidays just don't seem right all by your self take care of yourself and keep smiling you to will be HF happy again soon
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:18 PM
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Hope it goes fast for u, it will all be worth the wait once he's home I'm sure how long have u waited so far has it been long I'm sure 30 months won't seem too long thank u so much for replying I haven't wrote anything on here before just read it before but was just having one of those days where I felt so down
He's been in there for 14 years but I just met and fell in love with him this year. It seems like so much longer you know. My dad has been incarcerated most of my life so the prison thing isn't new to me. Everyone needs a friend during these hard times. If you ever want to just vent feel free to pm message me and I'll always listen !
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:29 PM
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Holidays just don't seem right all by your self take care of yourself and keep smiling you to will be HF happy again soon
Guess u just have to look at the positives and see how far u both have come so far, your so loyal I'm sure he will be worth the wait, and I know it's really not been nice these couple of Christmases I've had without him everyone is happy at this time of year and literally the only thing I want u can't have
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:33 PM
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He's been in there for 14 years but I just met and fell in love with him this year. It seems like so much longer you know. My dad has been incarcerated most of my life so the prison thing isn't new to me. Everyone needs a friend during these hard times. If you ever want to just vent feel free to pm message me and I'll always listen !
Thank you I will keep it in mind. You have a merry Christmas
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:33 PM
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He's been in there for 14 years but I just met and fell in love with him this year. It seems like so much longer you know. My dad has been incarcerated most of my life so the prison thing isn't new to me. Everyone needs a friend during these hard times. If you ever want to just vent feel free to pm message me and I'll always listen !
Aw that's so cute, u have been so kind to me so glad I've found this with people in a similar situation coz sometimes my friends and family think I'm crazy waiting all this time for him but they just don't understand at all
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:35 PM
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Guess u just have to look at the positives and see how far u both have come so far, your so loyal I'm sure he will be worth the wait, and I know it's really not been nice these couple of Christmases I've had without him everyone is happy at this time of year and literally the only thing I want u can't have
Thank you for that compliment we have been together now for 29 years he is my life.
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:46 PM
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Aw that's so cute, u have been so kind to me so glad I've found this with people in a similar situation coz sometimes my friends and family think I'm crazy waiting all this time for him but they just don't understand at all
Nobody gets it until they are in the same situation. At least here you get welcomed with open arms ! Keep doing what makes you happy love life ! I'm sure he loves and apperciates all you do for him !
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Old 12-25-2018, 03:47 PM
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Thank you I will keep it in mind. You have a merry Christmas
Merry Christmas to you too ! Hang in there better days are coming !
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Old 12-25-2018, 04:00 PM
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Thank you for that compliment we have been together now for 29 years he is my life.
Thats sweet, u two are lucky to have eachother
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Old 12-25-2018, 04:03 PM
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Nobody gets it until they are in the same situation. At least here you get welcomed with open arms ! Keep doing what makes you happy love life ! I'm sure he loves and apperciates all you do for him !
That's so true ! Even though it's awful being without him and missing him I wouldn't change it for the world I just love him so much and couldn't imagine not waiting for the day he comes home !
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Old 12-25-2018, 04:04 PM
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That's so true ! Even though it's awful being without him and missing him I wouldn't change it for the world I just love him so much and couldn't imagine not waiting for the day he comes home !
You got it girl stay strong ! Ignore the others their opinion doesn't matter or count at all. I wish you guys the best !
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Old 12-26-2018, 05:10 AM
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You got it girl stay strong ! Ignore the others their opinion doesn't matter or count at all. I wish you guys the best !
With u two the best aswell !
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Old 12-27-2018, 12:49 PM
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I am facing that right now and I don't know what to do. To me, not him, there is the age factor. IF his case comes out positive he still may have 2 years to go. IF NOT, it's Life Without Parole. He has a very good case, however he needs a Medical Expert which there again, cost money. He has already spent 7 years for something he didn't do. He is a wrongly convicted man.
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Old 12-28-2018, 04:19 AM
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Now that my man has got moved to USP Lee County Virginia it is 12 hours from where I'm from and it has been a big change the last two months because they are locked down 4 out of 7 days a week so it puts a lot of stress on a relationship but I hope after the first of the year everything settles back down but there isn't a day that doesn't go by that I don't miss him.
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Old 12-28-2018, 06:19 AM
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I miss him all day, we get to talk 2 times every night and send letters once a week but throughout the day sometimes I just wish I could pick up the phone and call or text him.Visits for me are so bitter sweet because I get so happy to see him and be in his presence but eventually they end and I take the long drive back and go to bed alone. I try so hard to keep myself busy through the day but its hard since I work from home and I'm alone even more which causes me to overthink. Sometimes I wish I had friends I could just talk to or go out with but to many people have an input on my life choices and I just don't want to hear it anymore. I appreciate this site so much because at least I know I'm not the only person going through it. Thank you all for listening !
I feel you on wishing u had friends to vent to, ive been through hell and back with my man but itís been a hell and back that has made us stronger and reassured us thank our love is worth the wait and fight, but because of so many input by friends or family etc. Itís made it real hard to vent our just let it all out because there will always be that unwanted opinion that u just rather bottle it all up and hold it in
I hope time goes by fast for you good luck!!
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Old 12-28-2018, 06:56 AM
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My man got sentence to 2 years and 8 months. Heís been incarcerated before but never has he been to prison. It was all to a night that started off to a great amazing start and ended into a nightmare I would have never thought we would go through. We both had too much to drink and one thing led to another and we got physical. We have never put hands on each other let alone hurt one another but I got that liquid courage and it all we t downhill. The only way to avoid prison time of reduce sentence was basically incarcerating me and pressing charges(which I was more than willing to accept due to the circumstances and having no criminal history)but he took a deal before anything could have been done. He did not want me to go to jail or let alone have a felony. It kills me to know heís in there to some extent because of me even though he continuously tells me that itís not at all my fault but all of his. He just got transferred up state about a month ago doing the reception process so I havenít heard from him besides his monthly phone call and a letter. My life turned upside down without my baby online it shows a parole date of 1/2020 but Iím praying itís sooner than that because I just might go crazy! I love my man with all my heart and I donít see it getting easier especially not having friends or family who understand me and donít think Iím stupid for waiting I hope everyone loved one gets out soon and time get easier
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Old 12-28-2018, 08:13 AM
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I have been so lonely today! It's just a feeling that I can't describe! I miss him and I really need him here! I am nervous about his sentencing date being moved again. I think all the time about "what if". I am trying to prepare myself for sentencing. What if its more than we think? How will I handle it? How will he handle it? I pray and ask God not to let me have another heart attack, even tho I know I have some serious issues going on with my heart. I worry about him getting a diagnosis of melanoma and the place he is is so nasty and they don't care! He is going to have surgery and supposedly chemo and I can't see him or talk to him! We have spent 9 years together. The best years of my life. I want a second chance to live life together! Another chance to reach for that brass ring! Thanks for letting me get all of this out of my heart and my mind!

Have FAITH in GOD, PRAY INCESSANTLY. There is POWER in PRAYER. Remain calm, your man needs you, if anything happens to you, what will happen to him ?? So it is IMPERATIVE that you remain strong, which in turn will keep his spirits up. Which is a good thing.
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Old 12-28-2018, 09:54 AM
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I feel you on wishing u had friends to vent to, ive been through hell and back with my man but itís been a hell and back that has made us stronger and reassured us thank our love is worth the wait and fight, but because of so many input by friends or family etc. Itís made it real hard to vent our just let it all out because there will always be that unwanted opinion that u just rather bottle it all up and hold it in
I hope time goes by fast for you good luck!!
Its crazy how everyone just ups a leaves bc of who I you choose to be with. At this point I don't care once he's home I don't want anyone to try and become cool with him bc they judged him before they got to know him. I hope time goes by fast for you too !
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Old 12-28-2018, 07:38 PM
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Put a smile on my face today to see my man via a video visitation (known each other as early teens, stayed in touch but reconnected as lovers 2 years ago). I love him but more importantly, I love us. i love our love. What's most special is that even through all the hardships we have dealt with this year, we still have each other and we still can wear a smile. Many naysayers just see us as wasted time and pipe dreams but they don't see what we know. Can't wait for his release so we can build our lives together and continue smiling for those naysayers.
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I'm in Brazil and all we have are messages and calls. But since November 5 that I and his family have heard nothing. That hurts so much! The heart tries to comfort but the mind does not stop. It's a crazy mix of feelings. 😢
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My fiancť and I have been together for five years. This is new for me. He was given five years. This was the loneliest Christmas without him. I was all excited to see him only to find out that at Kirkland , only the immediate family can visit. I was wondering how do other cope with this. I was approved to visit to be told that I canít during reception and evaluation. Feel bad worrying about me when he is going through this.
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