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Old 03-29-2019, 03:20 PM
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Good afternoon PTO
I'm still very new to all of this. I just finally registered after lurking for months. I met my dude through a family member. She basically just wanted someone to drive with her to VA. She was like my boyfriend showed his homie your picture and he wants to write you. Naturally, knowing her boyfriend is always up to something (tbh so is she...perfect match), I agreed on the condition of having the mail sent to a P.O. Box and he had to send me a picture, as it was only fair, he already seen one of me. Per her and her boyfriend's usual B.S. the picture has 2 different dudes in it and they are super far away. Typical. Nevertheless, what my dude wrote in his letter was enough for me to take the first trip to VA.

Going to visit a Federal Prison for the first is already a mind trip, let alone going to go visit someone that A: you have never met in person, B: seriously don't know what he looks like other than the brief description he wrote me. Nervous cannot fully communicate how I felt. Her boyfriend came out first and these two paid me no attention. I tried to make eye contact so I could get some type of signal as to know when it was my dude. But nothing.

But when my dude walked in, I just instantly knew it was him. (Yes, I realized, he seen my picture, but I didn't think if that at the time. Lol) Our eyes just met up and he gave
me the warmest and sincerest smile. We hugged. Then we sat and talked from 9:30am to 2:45pm non stop. It just flowed and we vibed. It was natural and not forced. I never imagined that I would be someone that connects with someone in prison. It just happened. Life is crazy like that.

It's been months and we've fallen in Love. It has been Rocky at times. Me and my sister are no longer speaking, so I haven't been able to to visit him since the beginning of the new year. I finally decided to register and hopefully find some like minded people in a similar situation. Most of the world will not understand. But those of us that know that this our path in life, just know that.

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Old 03-29-2019, 03:48 PM
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Welcome to prison talk. Do you drive? if you drive go by yourself if need be. I met my fiance 20 years ago we just recently got together last summer and thing's went from there. He told me all of what and why he was going to prison but it went by so quickly and Jan was here. I sat there and watched him walk out the door as i cried i told him not to look back. And i promised him i would not miss a visit. Does he call you ? Mine calls me every day 4 times a day we don't stay on the phone long it costs 1 1/2 cents a minute. I know my situation is not the same as your's but if you both love each other there is a way to work around things to have things happen.
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Old 03-29-2019, 04:00 PM
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I am working on being able to make the long trek by myself. He doesn't call often, we usually email daily. We are still in the beginning phase more or less but I'm going to stick this out.
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Old 03-29-2019, 04:59 PM
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to PTO, I too met my LO while he was incarcerated back in 2004, didn’t seek him out, sometimes just as you said, these things play out the way they do and so that being said, I’m rooting for you two !
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Old 03-29-2019, 05:03 PM
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Old 03-29-2019, 05:07 PM
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I am working on being able to make the long trek by myself. He doesn't call often, we usually email daily. We are still in the beginning phase more or less but I'm going to stick this out.
Good for you. I keep saying everything is going to be okay and i believe it will for you to. Do you write to each other ? If you want message me
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Old 03-29-2019, 05:11 PM
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to PTO, I too met my LO while he was incarcerated back in 2004, didn’t seek him out, sometimes just as you said, these things play out the way they do and so that being said, I’m rooting for you two !
My dude is from NY. I've never been but definitely want to come visit one day!
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Old 03-29-2019, 05:13 PM
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Old 03-29-2019, 05:15 PM
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Old 03-29-2019, 06:16 PM
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My dude is from NY. I've never been but definitely want to come visit one day!
My LO and I are native NY’ers born & raised, so to us it’s like eh you’re not missing much, lol.
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My LO and I are native NY’ers born & raised, so to us it’s like eh you’re not missing much, lol.
Everybody I ever talked from NY says something like that. Lol. I think y'all are sick of traffic caused by visitors.
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Old 03-30-2019, 02:59 PM
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Everybody I ever talked from NY says something like that. Lol. I think y'all are sick of traffic caused by visitors.
Perhaps that too lol but I just feel there are much more beautiful cities to visit.
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Hello and welcome. We have a similar story! Many blessing to you both!
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Old 03-30-2019, 05:56 PM
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