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Old 08-07-2010, 11:45 PM
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my..hubby..will..be..39..in..ima..be..38...he..is. .four..months..older...than..me..buts...its..all.g ood..wen..he..proposed...to..me..it..ws..all..over ..we..have..each...others...back...thru all..of..the..bs...dat...we..go.thru..undr..the.ci rcumstances...unconditional...is..wats...holdin... us..together...god..bless...in..keep...the...faith ...
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My baby comes home in 4 months. He'll be 20 and I'll still be 21. I know we are a young couple but I have let life bring me down trying to deal with my son (he's not the daddy), trying to find a job, start school etc. I have self-esteem issues so that doesnt really help I am trying to lose some weight before he comes home but so far nothings working. I currently weigh 180 and I am 5 ft 2. I am trying to get to at least 160 before he comes home
Try eating less and stop sodas. cook food and try execrising walking for a start. u can do it keep your head up. i buy some shakes from walmart can meal supplements by eqaute. in the vitimans section
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Old 08-08-2010, 06:22 PM
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i dont think about it but now i guess im faced with thinking of it...um i am 21 now he is 20...he has 18 more years left so he will be 38 and i will be 39...doesn't really seem that bad, especially since we have one child each(not by each other)...no one really wants to grow old because that only leads to dying but i embrace it. i see women who are still looking good at 50 (my aunts) because they say it's not how old you are but how old youfeel! my aunt is 50 this year and she still acts 21 so she looks 30! it's a great inspiration...so i cant wait to see how much we have changed over the years, mentally, spiritually and physically!
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Old 08-08-2010, 10:56 PM
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I think about it all the time. We haven't seen one another since he went in 10 yrs ago. He was 26 and I was 24. I was angry with him and still into drugs and alcohol really bad so I went on my way and tried to drown my sorrows the best way I thought I could. We reconnected 2 years ago when I cleaned myself up and got my life together and realized he is the love of my life and I didn't want to lose him forever. He still has a minimum of 5 yrs left and I have dedicated this time to getting to know one another again and my own personal goal of losing weight and getting things going in the right direction in my own life. If he does minimum time he will be 41 when released and me 39. If he does max time he will be 61 and me 59. I don't even want to think about that... But I am trying to stay positive. I have started losing weight and bettering myself and I have a goal of being a certain weight before I will go visit him (it's silly I know). He doesn't care what I look like he says but I just feel like I want to look good for him, I want to look the way he remembers me but with a few wrinkles and gray hairs.
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I must be the oldest one! If we do the full 15, I'll be 72 and he'll be 67. We've already got 22 years invested, though . . . so bring on the rainy days so i can get to the sunshine!
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Old 08-31-2010, 05:13 PM
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he will be 36 n i will be 34.
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My Robert will be 29 and I'll be 22. In total, my Baby will have spent 12 years all together in the Pen. This is his 3rd time in Prison. We'll still be young enough to have a family together, but I do worry that I'll change from the way he remembered me. Not really in appearance, just maturing. I was 19 and immature when we met, and I'll be 22 and have been living on my own for a while. I do look forward to him not having all the worries on his shoulders. I'm sure he does too
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We will both b 38..
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Let's see..if he does only 5 he will be 36 and I will be 40. Should he do all 8, 39 and 43...
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I would be about 30 1/2 he would be 38.
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I will be 38 & he will be 40. Age aint nothin but a number & i know we'll make up 4 all the lost time.
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I must be the oldest one! If we do the full 15, I'll be 72 and he'll be 67. We've already got 22 years invested, though . . . so bring on the rainy days so i can get to the sunshine!

Your my hero!!!!! I am in awe and am even more encouraged and inspired to hold on and surrender to LOVE.


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Old 09-02-2010, 11:17 PM
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ill be 40 and he will be 26.

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We will both be 26 when he gets out!! were 21 now...i want time to pass by fassttt!!
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We will both be 79 on his ERD. If he serves his full sentence, we will be 106. So sad to think about it.
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Old 09-04-2010, 10:32 PM
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we both will be 40.YAAAAAAAAA...
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Old 09-04-2010, 10:45 PM
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Hell, I may be back from Summerland by then.

I was 18 when he was sentenced. That was 24 years ago, he only got 180 years. Let me get the calculator....
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I win! The oldest! If we go the full 15, I'll be 72 and he'll be 66! I try not to think about it. We had 23 good years before he was wrongly accused and made a really big mistake with a plea bargain ($10K attorney wasn't worth spit). I don't care what he looks like or how many wrinkles, as long as he's still reasonably healthy and I have him snoring beside me!
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I will be 28 when my baby gets out. Im 27 now
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I will be 40 and he 47. Yes, I'm working on my physical appearance but not so much to his glory than to my health. A medical doctor told me by the time you reach 40 it's common for whatever health issue the will plague you to rear its head, but with discipline and even minor changes in health you can head-off some things. I'll always be gorgeous to him and he to I. I'm more excited about my spiritual and personal growth. The preparations I'm making now are extremely intense and exciting at the same time (oxymoron maybe but that's how I feel). Whenever I tell him about another educational accomplishment and spiritual revelation he's so proud and supportive. I will be a stronger, wiser, and more spiritual woman who he returns to me. He says that is the ultimate turn-on. Living good spiritually and personally by contributing positively to society and others will undoubtedly translate into physical beauty and well being.
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If we do the whole 15 years, I will be 77; he will be 71. We just hope to have a few good years on the other end after 23 good ones on the front end.
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I will be going on 38!
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My fiance' thinks that he will be home earlier than what is stated on BOP inmate locator. But if I go by the date that it is on BOP inmate locator, I will be 25 yrs old and he will be 27 years old. It's crazy because he was 25yrs old when he went in....so I guess this is not that bad!
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Old 09-07-2010, 08:22 AM
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Well if he gets out on the date on bop's website I'll be 49 and he'll be 50, we are 26 and 27 now. It's hard a lot of times but we try to break it up into baby steps, our next baby step will be a contact visit!!! First time that we have touched since March of 2009, I am really excited. I'm just trying to do some quick changes to look good for that, I can't wait for that first hug and kiss, I am going to be so nervous!
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