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Old 02-27-2005, 06:12 PM
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I Would Like To Know If U Waited For Your Man For 5 Years. He Gets Out, He Is Out Of A Month..and Gets Another 5 Years.would U Wait? If Yes, Why?
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Old 02-27-2005, 06:22 PM
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Yes I would because I love him with all my heart and no matter what he is the only man I want or need in my life. I would be upset, yes, but I would not leave him.
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Old 02-27-2005, 06:26 PM
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It would depend. If this something he did during the month he was out? If it where a crime that came up from the past, I may wait. If it where a crime that he commited during the month he was out with me. No I don't think I could stay. I have always told him that I would be down with him till he came home. But if he went back it was disrespecting our family and I would not be there when he came out. No matter how much I love him I can't do this again. But I never say never. And I do love my man.
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Old 02-27-2005, 06:29 PM
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Nope. I'm not doing this again. ever.
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Old 02-27-2005, 06:32 PM
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Nope, I am not doing this again either. Its not fair to me or my (our) kids. And he knows this---this is it. If he screws up thats it! We are over. End of story.

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Old 02-27-2005, 06:37 PM
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No I would not wait. If I put my life on hold for 5 years waiting for him to start living again and he goes and does smething else he will be alone when he gets out the second time.

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Old 02-27-2005, 06:40 PM
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IM glad Im not the only one. I met Donald while he was locked down..I told him when he gets out..im NOT doing this again. He better get his stuff together. He told me if he went back it was his own fault and he wouldnt blame for for not staying. Cause this "waiting" thing effects everyone.
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Old 02-27-2005, 06:46 PM
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No I would not wait, This has been the hardest thing I have gone through, I would not put my kids through this again.
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Old 02-27-2005, 07:25 PM
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Old 02-27-2005, 07:30 PM
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No way!!!! What was he thinking.....obviously not about you!
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Old 02-27-2005, 09:28 PM
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When I first met him.he asked me if i would wait 10 years for him.. I laughed and told him he was crazy. Than asked him if he would do it for me..he told me yea..i laughed and said if I wanted to wait 10 year for someone..Ill wait the extra 10 for my sons father
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NOT A CHANCE IN THE WORLD..........I think I'm an idiot for waiting this time. But, I always say, if I went through all the crap I did with him while he was on the street, I at least owe it to myself and my children to see if he can go back to being the person he was before all this started. When he comes home, if he picks up one drug.......it over. That would send him back to prison automatically anyway because he will be coming home on ISP (i hope). But no way in the world would I do this again.
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Old 02-27-2005, 10:16 PM
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Donald tells me all the time there is a lot of bullcrap at bayside. He will be 31 march 18. I think he finally grow out of all this crap..but I told him to prove it..cause words are cheap. we will see...I got a little while before he gets "home". I see a lot of ladys have kids with the men..Donald and I dont. We'll see what happens..Im takeing it one day at a time. I cant wait to hear from him..I still get butterflys when I get his letters.
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GOOD QUESTION! Sorry, but I don't think so. As much aas I love my husband, I also love myself too. For him to pick up another bid, that clearly shows that there's something wrong with his "plans", and that they do not include you.
And what makes your question so deep, is that this type of behavior does exist. I don't think I could be happy in that situation.
Now that I think about it, it's already happened. Not 5 years, but 2 years, so my answer is I WONT DO IT AGAIN!
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Old 02-28-2005, 08:54 AM
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I would never do this again! It is hard enough on my kids to have to be without their father for five years as it is. I love my husband very much and am willing to give him this one chance. But My kids always come first. If he was to mess up again it would show me that our kids are not as important to him as they are to me. And a man like that I wouldn't need. But I like to think that this is going to be a one time deal. Because I know much our kids and i mean to him. I don't think he would ever risk losing us again.

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Old 02-28-2005, 01:20 PM
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I am so glad, Im not the only one that feels this way. Hopefully he will be paroled this year, if not his max date is Jan. 2006 so thats not to bad. I can tell u this...time flys when ur haveing fun.
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Old 02-28-2005, 01:29 PM
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Most likely not...IMO it's bad enough that I'm waiting now and if my man f's up again I really think he's just thinking about himself and no one else.
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