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Old 02-22-2006, 11:37 AM
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I am a little curious, and i know this is a very personal question, but just how much do you go into details? I mean, do you say your private parts or do you use nicknames? Do you make up/use sites of your erotic adventures with him, or do you say what you really want to do to him? How much is too much?
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Old 02-22-2006, 11:48 AM
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LOL, I see your probably writting your first freaky letter.As detailed as possible is what your man would probably advise you.You can change up what you call your private parts because you will probably have to make reference more then once.I have always made up my own stuff, never have used a site.I usually tell him what I would like, too much is when you no longer feel comfortable.Trust me girl I have wrote a number of these and my first is nowhere near like my last.If you're no ok with it, then dont do it.But it does take time to get the hang of it.Good luck.
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Old 02-22-2006, 11:51 AM
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Lol! excellent observation!! Thanks!
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Old 02-22-2006, 11:53 AM
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at first our erotic letters sounded like something out of a romance novel, but the more we do it, the more personal it gets. we get into detail about the things we have done, and the things we want to do to each other

i just kinda start off slow, then it all gets going and before you know it it's a full blown out steamy letter. i mean i almost embarrass myself sometimes with the things i say,but it's nothing i wouldn't say to him in person, in private!! it just seems embarrassing thinking about it and actually writing it! but it's worth it, because it keeps our relationship hot and spicy, lol

i love when he writes them back to me, he actually shocks me with the things he says, but i gobble it all up and can't wait for the next one!
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Old 02-22-2006, 01:51 PM
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My husband and I got married within 5 days....Tuesday, we decided to get married, and did it on Saturday. While he was incarcerated, we re-wrote segments of our dating, engagement, and the wedding of how things should have been if things had been different. We would each write our own side of the story up to a certain point and then the other one would catch up to about the same point of the story. We also wrote 'porno' letters, but in my opinion, those weren't nearly as good as the long one. And sometimes, I would not have time to sit down and write him a new story, so I would just go to a site and print out someone else's story. It is not as good as a personal one, but second best is never bad. No, there is not a limit on what you can write in a letter as far as TDCJ is concerned, call the parts whatever you want. But, the pics are WAY more strict. The most you can get down to is about bra/panties these days. Have fun and Good Luck!
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Hey i just checked out this site for erotic letters. You type in urz and his info and select a scene...it comes up with one for you. It can name particular parts, or sub them for random words! It's so funny and racy!!! Go ahead and check it out, it could at least give u some ideas.
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Old 02-24-2006, 06:32 AM
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Thanks so much... I feel less embarrassed now that i know I am not alone. You guys cover all the bases on this site, this awesome!
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Old 02-24-2006, 08:11 AM
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WHEN i get into that zone i just let it all go.....i don't hold back....now the problem is when it comes to eyeball to eyeball i get uncomfortable saying these things out loud....but im working on it!!!!
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Old 02-24-2006, 08:19 AM
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I guess I am an old "fuddy dudd", but I just keep thinking about other people in the mail room, other inmates, etc. getting ahold of those letters and reading your most personal stuff. I would think that to be SUPER embarrassing, especially if another inmate saw them and then saw you at visit. I would be wondering what that guy was thinking...(I'm just throwing this thought out there.)
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Old 02-24-2006, 09:56 PM
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I also don't like saying certain things out loud, but my desire for him easily comes out on paper. I woulld be totally embarrassed if someone other than him read "my desires"
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Old 02-25-2006, 01:16 PM
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well ladies, thank you....my husband has been in for almost a year and I had NO ideal I could write a letter like that anf get away with it, I thought they( tdcj) would not give it to him... think I'm gonna try it..he just had heart surgery in there last week so maybe that would rev the ole ticker up and make him stronger...thanks gals
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Old 02-27-2006, 03:19 PM
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Girl, I don't think that there is to enough to tell the person that knows you inside and out. Tell him what you want to do to him...I do. Let him know that the thought of him being all over you still turns you on. Dont be afraid he is your man. He needs some kind of fantasy in there, cause you know if we dont do it, some one else will come along and do it for him. Oh, and take sexy pictures for him that always helps. My guy tells me what he wants me to wear and do.
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Old 02-27-2006, 03:30 PM
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I send sexy pictures and in exchange he writes me hot letters. He's better at writing those than I am and he'd rather have the pictures so it works out well.
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Old 02-28-2006, 02:41 PM
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they ussually dont care unless there are some nude photos inclosed. my unit allowed pics of anything except penetration. they are all 400lb mail room workers that are underpaid in work in an area the size of a cell. they get bored and WILL read the freaky ones.
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Old 03-04-2006, 04:21 AM
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Hey 4-Flat...what unit is that unit? Whoo! Whoo!
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i know what you mean about others reading or seeing it, I hadn't even thought of that until AFTER I finally decided to send one a few days ago, and now i am freaking ou tthat someone might read or see it, I hadn't THOUGHT of that at all! i want my letter back, I don't want anyone to see it!
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Old 03-04-2006, 11:54 PM
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yea I havent gotten up the ummm courage to send my man any "hot" letters yet I am worried about who is going to be reading them too
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Old 03-06-2006, 10:38 AM
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i write my man once a week about things that no on should read, but i know they do, i got over that feeling when my man told me how those kind of letters brought him out to the real world,read them i dont care life is to short not to enjoy your man,
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Old 03-06-2006, 01:20 PM
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The men are the ones that have to look those people in the face...not us. So, if he wants erotic letters, SEND THEM. They don't have a clue who you are from adam and they read so much mail that when you show up for visitation, they won't recognize your name....if the mail person happened to be filling in for the visitation clerk. Once you receive his reply to your letter, your fears will all go away.
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Old 03-09-2006, 06:09 PM
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You know what's crazy?


He's been locked up six years and I've never wrote an erotic letter. I just began hinting to him that I'm in need but I never get into details. You ladies are bold. Guess I'm shy. If he'd ask me or started it off I could get into it but for now I'll remain "Mrs. Innocent."
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Old 03-09-2006, 07:49 PM
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well i used that hoochymail and just changed things up a bit, but it was mainly just a theft from them LOL. AND I am now freaking out b/c his jail says he is NOT allowed to have WRITTEN EROTICISM and he has NOT gotten the letter, BUT they show no denied letters on his chart!!! Where is my mini porno, I dont' want just anyone having it!
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Old 03-09-2006, 09:37 PM
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OMG Freespirit, How hard that must have been for you. I hope he is doing well and will be all better soon.
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