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Old 06-08-2015, 11:12 AM
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So my question is have you met your MWI in person and if not how long have you been in a relationship with them? I have been with my MWI for over 6 months as a couple and we have not met face to face yet due to distance and money
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Old 06-08-2015, 11:18 AM
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Yes I have met mine and I plan to visit as often as I can. The first visit was amazing and really enhanced the feelings we both already knew we have. I was so nervous but it was worth it. Hope you guys get to meet up soon.
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Yes, but I did wait a year to meet him face-to-face. I wish I didn't wait so long though Our first visit was the best day of my life!
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I met mine last month and plan to go back in November.
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Yes I first met him face to face about 6 months after I first wrote. I am from the UK but visit every 3 or 4 months going again in July.
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Met him, married him. No regrets.
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this is what the forum need (more success stories)i did not see this one. happy for you. and god speed."I like to see some who still return/after the prison and their loved they married/engaged etc., after the MWI etc.l ,when he is home or when she is home. so nice to read this

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I'm trying to do the same get married, did you have to have his Identification to get married and if you did what kind of ID did you use?
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Yes we were friends for about six months first, then became a couple a month or two before he was released to the halfway house. we then met about 4 months after : ) It was hard waiting but Im glad I did as it was a lot nicer meeting him on the outside
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Yes we were friends for about six months first, then became a couple a month or two before he was released to the halfway house. we then met about 4 months after : ) It was hard waiting but Im glad I did as it was a lot nicer meeting him on the outside
I have never read a post here til' yours admitting that it is much nicer than meeting him inside and how you're glad you did wait. That sound like 1 of my friends who met this way (mwi) like you.

That's very nice to read." My friend waited to meet her MWI" i recall on the outside. She never went to see him even if she desire to so bad for a while.They are still together.(he went back on a parole violation) she is waiting for him and happier than ever. Them two are solid."

So both agreed it was better on the outer, than in prison. My other BFF met her MWI while inside but took a long time though.Now,she not with him but will be if he is as wonderful she say on the "outside" (she dumped him) after seeing him smh all premise on being frighten like hell that next winter early part of 2017(feb/march) that he will dump her/hurt her when release.")that was her way of dealing with not being hurt again as her several past relationships.
But he is a great guy but i get why she feel she need to be this way."
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went to visit him about a month and a half after we started talking... totally hit it off even more... i went back 2 weeks later... now i go every weekend! haha love my honey!
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We met in person almost a year after we started writing. Now he is my best friend, sweetheart and future husband.
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aww this is a sweet one.

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Met him after 10 months of writing, married him after 2.5 years as a couple, setting up home together in 15 days!!!
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I got a special visit a month after we started talking and have been visiting every 2/3 weeks since.
We were just talking about this at visit last weekend, and he saved his visit pass from that first weekend, he said he knew it was going to change his life.
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I will be meeting mine in a month -- we started writing 6 months ago.
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I was staff, so we met in person, obviously. But because of my annoying anxiety about following rules and keeping my job, we didn't get the perk of getting to know each other on any personal level in person. So after he left it was still months of writing and phone calls before we had our first visit, and it felt like meeting him for the first time. Very weird.
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Yes I have. First time was when we had already been together for 18 months. It was so exciting. We've been together 5 years this september .
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Yes. We have met. We had known each other for almost a year and a half or more by the time we met. I wanted to make sure so I planned a trip to see him. The first time however some things had happened and he was in the SHU. We had talked about possibly doing it another time...and then I was like "NO! I'm doing this!" I drove all night and morning to see him for a freaking hour. So worth it. I remember walking down the hallway to all the little rooms with glass and he was at the end. I was so nervous. I peaked my head around and saw him standing. Instantly I calmed down and I got excited. It was awesome. He was so nervous he jumped into his seat! lol! I loved it. Anyways...sorry for reminiscing yes we have visited and I will be visiting more. I would like to in the future move closer to him after school and be able to visit every weekend. That would be amazing. But until then, it's every couple of months.
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We were writing for 4 months when I visited my guy. It was like a blur. I was so into him, I barely remember the visit. I'm going back this weekend. It's only a 3 hour drive, but my car needed some work, and I just had it fixed. I can't wait.
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Yes, about 4 months after we started writing. I wanted to put a face with the words!
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Yes, about 4 months after we started writing. I wanted to put a face with the words!
Just wanted to add, our first 4 years of visits were behind glass. Last month I had my first contact visit with him, it was amazing! All I thought it would be and more! Just made me want to be with him more, if that could even be possible.
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I have been with my MWI for 16 years no contact and we are waiting any day for that green suit to changed to blue then he can have contact visits.

I think I will be a bawling mess when I get to finally touch him. I hope they don't have to pry me off of him. ha,ha, ha.....




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YES I HAVE SEEN MY MAN! I. saw him today and going back next weekend YAY I saw him about a few months shy of our first year anniversary. I was sooo nervous!!! When he came up to me(i was sitting) i got up to hug(semi-hug) him but i couldnt look him in the eye due to nerves. and for several minutes after that, i still couldn't look him in the face, my legs were shaken, i was a ball of nerves lol. I thought that he would think I was ugly and unattractive. My bae talked to me and calmed my nerves and now when i see him I'm all up in his face and personal space ready for my hug and kiss!!
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