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Old 07-27-2018, 08:40 AM
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So I’ve been in a good place and maintaining boundaries despite him wanting to “still be friends” and claiming he did not leave me for another woman. Phone rang last night and I decided to answer after not talking since June because I told him it wasn’t a good idea for us to talk. I felt good about answering thinking ok I’ll check in and say hi. He opened with “Hey, baby” which threw me but I figured it was habit. I said hey what’s up andhe says “who is this?”. I said my name... then I realized he meant to call someone else. He tried to go into “I really did love you but you couldn’t make us a priority...” I said “honest mistake—go call your baby”. He’s all... “okay but we’ll talk...”.
No, we won’t.

The whole thing just hurt all over again even though I should just be angry as he maintains it wasn’t another woman. Effing liar. Makes me question everything he ever said.
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Oh that's rough....if your not going to talk to him again then just block the number and save yourself the trouble of it all
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I am so sorry you have to go through this. I can only imagine how disappointing and painful it is. However use this as closure now you know he has lied and continues to lie. What is there to love or be friends with. It’s time to move on and don’t look back. He has gone to make way for someone who will be amazing.
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Oh crap, what a kick in the gut, I’m really sorry that happened to you ❤️
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I'm sorry, I can imagine it must've brought back the feelings of hurt Maybe best just to cut contact completely and block the number if it's possible.
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I can’t imagine how that felt and then for him to say what he did? Unforgivable. Block his number so he can’t call again. Don’t they actually have to dial the number? I know in Texas they do.
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So I’ve been in a good place and maintaining boundaries despite him wanting to “still be friends” and claiming he did not leave me for another woman.

I said my name... then I realized he meant to call someone else.
No, we won’t.

The whole thing just hurt all over again even though I should just be angry as he maintains it wasn’t another woman.
Effing liar.

Makes me question everything he ever said.
Please chica, keep moving on. Stay focus on being in a good place. I would know the woman has NOTHING over a woman like me, at all on ANY level and such pain from him would make me smile when saying this and not ever again speaking to any 1 who can hurt me/disrespect me, like that(if he did leave u for a chick) I also agree with others BLOCK HIM.(If you're wanting to do that)and i also think sometimes it doesn't help. You make the RIGHT/BEST choice, for you.
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Don't let him bring you back to a place where you're "once again questioning about another woman et.al., just don't do that to yourself." Then, the hurt will start all over again, and life is just too short to be "hurtin' all over again when you're able to enjoy moving on w/out him, and being happy each bless waking day chica." Good luck to you.Hugs and Blessings being sent your way tonight.
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