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Old 05-24-2019, 12:54 PM
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Default How long did it take y'all to commit?

Just wondering what others experiences are like.
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Old 05-24-2019, 01:07 PM
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Me and my girl were talking a lil over a year before we became official bf/gf etc.

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It took us nine months. When we did, it was all the way in, as in talking marriage (which didn't happen for another year, though). I think that MWI relationships follow patterns of outside relationships in this regard -- sometimes people meet and fall in love and move more quickly on it than others, but that doesn't mean anything inherently unhealthy. Well, unless you pull a Britney Spears and marry someone three days after meeting them. I moved in with my first husband (who was a bf at the time) within nine months of meeting him as well, and we were married a year and a half later, so I guess that's my pattern.
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We got married just short of two years after we met. One year of being penpals almost a year of being a couple and now married for 6 months.
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We became exclusive very early on in talking, he deleted his pen-pal ad after only a few months. I don't think it's always good to move that fast, but for us it worked, almost 4 years later and we are still together!

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After 2 years of friendship we went ahead and made it official with a relationship. Been together ever since.
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He started calling me his girl within a month, and that's when we decided we're officially together. Neither one of us was looking for a relationship, it just kinda happened.
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