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View Poll Results: would you want 2 days with your man BUT it would add 30 days to his time
yes!! of course 22 28.21%
he would definitely want to 12 15.38%
nah he doesn't have that much time left we can wait 19 24.36%
no way I've waited long enough 32 41.03%
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Old 07-25-2014, 08:13 AM
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Wink Would u spend 2 days with your man BUT it would add 30 days to his time

I was on the phone with my boyfriend and I asked him a silly question would he want 2 days with me.. like a conjugal visit BUT it would add 30 days to your his time.. would u he do it .. he said heck yeah!!! Lol I was more like nah well regret it when ur time gets closer, he was like baby a month is nothing you won't even notice it lol he was all tryin to convince me like it was real.. so I thought id ask u all would u do it? Do you think your man would want to?
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Old 07-25-2014, 08:24 AM
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Its a silly question and I really think I have more important things on my mine, two days would never be enough.
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Nope. Wouldn't do it....not worth the extra 30 days.
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I wouldn't mind & I most definitely know my man will take the offer of spending 2 days with me as well. Although 2 days is not enough but at least we get to spend some alone time together.
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My fiancé would say yes, because he's in school which helps take time off his sentence. He's already gotten 5 months off, so adding another month would probably be nothing to him...besides it'd be 2 days where we can do stuff we haven't been able to do in a long time. I'd say no though because I feel like I'm pulling my hair already waiting for him! I think if he were serving a longer sentence (say, 15 years or more) where 30 days is nothing, then I'd say yes. But with this sentence, nah it wouldn't be worth it at all. I like this question. It's fun, silly, and light-hearted!
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No way....wouldnt want him to be in there one minute more than he has to be. 2 days with him but loose 30 days with him nope wouldnt do it.
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Old 07-25-2014, 10:42 AM
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Since this is his 8th yr in... yes what the hell is another 30days !?!
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you know my love is serving 15-life and has been down 17 years already. He doesn't have a parole date yet but we're hopeful that next march he'll get one. Now if he already had one then I'd hafta say no. I don't want him to be in there and longer than he had to be. Now he might have a different opinion but I've never asked him a question like that before so I can't say for sure.
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My BFs situation is not so cut an dry.
He's sentenced to 80 yrs. Now he does
have parole thou. I could wait it out. I'm
sure he might not want to.
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Old 07-25-2014, 07:28 PM
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Nope, I wouldn't want to. I can almost guarantee he would say yes yes yes! But I don't want two days that's a tease I want my man home for good!
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Yes, 2 whole days if it was today . He has 30 more years, so we cherish anytime together.
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I voted yes my man is doin a 25 to life with little chance of parole so we would both be down for it. Especially if the offer was right now lol - BUT I would change my answer to no if he only had 30 days left
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My love has nine years left and his outdate is in july and I want him home asap. I would rather have him out completely with me in a bed that is ours,in a space that is ours then behind the walls of place that gives me anxiety when I am in a sallyport and they control my movement. I love me some him and the thought of being able to hold him in my arms and feeling him for more then twenty second is a dream but I want it on my terms. I want it when he is in street clothes.
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Nope. He would say no also. We only have two more years left. I've waited this long. What's another two years?
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Well, let's see... LWOP.... extra thirty days... so... does that mean he gets to live thirty days longer? Because I wouldnt want him to live in pain wanting to die for thirty days (Im an ICU nurse I can't help but go there...) but if it was just regular straight extra thirty days nothing terribly painful or horrible then sure why not that means I get to be with him two days AND he gets to live longer! Win-win!~
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No each day away feels like 30 days I miss him so much...
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No, and he would be in agreement with me. As much as I miss him, he's been in there long enough, and I don't want him in there 1 minute longer than he has to be.
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My guy also has a REALLY long sentence and may never see freedom...

So I say yes, and suspect he would too!
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I ask him this question...he said "You're GD right" lol
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Parole hearing up in July 2015. As bad as I would like to say yes. I think he would say he yes.. but I would decline. but I am going to ask him just to see what his answer is. like anothr poster said this is lighthearted.
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Hmm... this is a hard one.
Well for starters, my boyfriend hasn't even been sentenced yet. He is in jail because we couldn't afford his bail so I gotta wait until at least next month to find out what he may be facing. I'm still trying to cling onto the hope that he won't have to serve anytime, mainly because he is being charged with things he did not do. But anyways he's been gone less than two weeks and I am going crazy waiting for news. I haven't gotten any letters (besides one), any calls, and had a visit with him last Sunday (and plan to go this Sunday too).
But I guess my answer would be that if he was serving a huge sentence I would say yes, I'd take the two days in exchange for him to have to serve another month, and I know he would too. But if his sentence turns out to be short (he's telling me he's going to try and serve no more than 2 years in jail and try to get probation or something for the rest of the sentence if he is sentenced) then I would say no (although he'd probably say yes).
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No I would not. I have waited this long, and may have a while left but I do not want him in there any longer than he has to be just for a couple days of fun that will leave us both feeling depressed at what we had to give up for a couple nice moments.
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No, I want him home and I don't want anymore time added on to the amount he already has left to still do!!! We have no idea really when he'll be coming home and I wouldn't want to add on to the sentence!! So I'd wait :]
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Funny my guy told me this same thing that if he could spend two days with me he would definetly catch extra time cause its worth it to him
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I asked mine. He said yes at first, then after I broke it down he agreed to no. I don't see how he could have even thought 30 days of our time on outside is worth 2 in there.
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