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Old 03-07-2013, 10:00 AM
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I know we always talk about what we do for our man to cheer them or just to be romantic, so my question is what does he do to cheer you up or to be romantic. For me my boyfriend writes me poems or create love stories about us I just be amazed at how talented he is at writing them. So ladies what does he do?
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I always get love letters, but he always manages to slip in some artwork along with cards and even love stories! It's amazing the things that he comes up with, he likes to surprise me a lot... Think I'm spoiled rotten now
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I always get love letters, but he always manages to slip in some artwork along with cards and even love stories! It's amazing the things that he comes up with, he likes to surprise me a lot... Think I'm spoiled rotten now
Yes I be smiling from ear to ear I just love them so much. Its always the simplest things that mean so much
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For me is more of a what DOESN'T he do for me, ya know. I've gotten flowers at work for no reason other than just to say he loves me.... poems, cards, drawings, hankies, picture frames with a meaningful picture in it, teddy bears... For special occasions, forget it, that's when he really goes all out! I just feel bad for his family that has to go crazy finding everything he requests and mailing it to me lol lol - He goes all out
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My poor guy can't draw or write poems or sing to me, etc. Nor does he like to "say nice words" since its not how he was raised and he's just too damn manly sometimes! haha! But he has written me some amazing letters which I read often. They are few and far between but when he writes I know it's from his heart...and I know he will never repeat those same words again. I wish he could, but it's just the way he is. What HIS way of showing his love for me is that he always wants to be around me (calls, visits) and he's always concerned about my health and well being. When he calls he almost never talks about what is going on with him...it's all about me (as Justin Bieber would say...hahaha!! j/k) I have to PRY to get him to talk about anything else other than me. He wants to solve every problem I have and he pushes me to do my best. He comes up with sweet or funny nicknames for me and when he knows I'm having a hard day he puts aside EVERYTHING to do whatever he can in his power to put a smile on my face...and somehow he just knows how to do it.
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Eric writes the most amazing long love letters!!! I can get lost in them!

He also loves a good naughty letter every now and then!

The best way he cheers me up is calling me angel or baby doll.

But when things are at its worst, he tells me he is "bubbling over"... this is our highest state of "in-love" where you are just bubbling over with so much love you can't contain it any longer!!!
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All of D's letters are love letters. We don't write that much anymore because we talk on the phone and visit in nearly all of my spare time - there isn't a whole lot more to write about after all of that.

He also draws on my cards (he said he is working on my Future-Mother Mother's Day card ) He drew Simba and Nala for my Valentine's day one. (I love the Lion King).

Right now he is working on writing me a country love song. (:
He sang me a few lines of it the other day and it was actually pretty good!

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All of D's letters are love letters. We don't write that much anymore because we talk on the phone and visit in nearly all of my spare time - there isn't a whole lot more to write about after all of that.

He also draws on my cards (he said he is working on my Future-Mother Mother's Day card ) He drew Simba and Nala for my Valentine's day one. (I love the Lion King).

Right now he is working on writing me a country love song. (:
He sang me a few lines of it the other day and it was actually pretty good!

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Eric pays other men to draw my cards- he is not artistic -- but I treasure them all!
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I know we always talk about what we do for our man to cheer them or just to be romantic, so my question is what does he do to cheer you up or to be romantic. For me my boyfriend writes me poems or create love stories about us I just be amazed at how talented he is at writing them. So ladies what does he do?
My King sends love letters, poems, cards that says just the right words, he made me a beautiful scarf with my name on it, and he always seems to call right when I am feeling lonely and want affection! My King is so sweet and so thoughtful and 99% of the time he keeps a constant smile on my face. The other 1% just comes with being with a man inside the walls and that's something that I can deal with.
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My babe sends me gifts one of those gifts was a beautiful clock with our names on it, he sends me handkerchiefs, drawings, poems, naughty letters, he sends me jewelery, but when I am really down he calls me and just lets me know he is there.
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He does his sweet letters and amazing artwork. When he was allowed to he would draw on the envelopes and I fell in love with them. He will call me his Reyna or another pet name that in itself melts my heart.
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Eric pays other men to draw my cards- he is not artistic -- but I treasure them all!

Lol my bf too he made me a love letter for our anniversary and it had a beautiful drawing of flowers I thought he draw it but he told me no he pay for someone to draw it for him.
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Lol my bf too he made me a love letter for our anniversary and it had a beautiful drawing of flowers I thought he draw it but he told me no he pay for someone to draw it for him.
I'll never forget the first time I got a letter with a drawing on it. He used to tell me all the time that he would send me flowers every day if he could. And his Christmas letter to me had roses all over the envelope and each page of his letter. He didn't say it out loud (again, not his style!) but I knew it was his way of sending me flowers. So sweet. And at one point he asked me to send him pictures of when I was growing up. There were a few of me at DisneyWorld when I was little that I sent him and after that he would have guys draw pictures of Mickey courting Minnie Mouse. It was cute. It's little things like how they remember what you like or something from your past that makes all the difference. It shows they listen to you and are genuinely interested in your life...how can you not love a man like that?
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I know we always talk about what we do for our man to cheer them or just to be romantic, so my question is what does he do to cheer you up or to be romantic. For me my boyfriend writes me poems or create love stories about us I just be amazed at how talented he is at writing them. So ladies what does he do?
My baby writes beautiful poems and long love letters . Ironically they always come when I need them the most.
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I'll never forget the first time I got a letter with a drawing on it. He used to tell me all the time that he would send me flowers every day if he could. And his Christmas letter to me had roses all over the envelope and each page of his letter. He didn't say it out loud (again, not his style!) but I knew it was his way of sending me flowers. So sweet. And at one point he asked me to send him pictures of when I was growing up. There were a few of me at DisneyWorld when I was little that I sent him and after that he would have guys draw pictures of Mickey courting Minnie Mouse. It was cute. It's little things like how they remember what you like or something from your past that makes all the difference. It shows they listen to you and are genuinely interested in your life...how can you not love a man like that?
Awwwwwwww thats so cute
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My baby writes beautiful poems and long love letters . Ironically they always come when I need them the most.
I swear thats so true they just know when we need that
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I know we always talk about what we do for our man to cheer them or just to be romantic, so my question is what does he do to cheer you up or to be romantic. For me my boyfriend writes me poems or create love stories about us I just be amazed at how talented he is at writing them. So ladies what does he do?

My husband is in the process of sending me a portrait he told me and that I will love it. He usually sends hankies and cards. So thoughtful I love him!!!!
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my husband doea all of the above and more...always finds a way to make me feel special even across the miles <3
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My husband never misses an opportunity to write or tell me how much he loves me and how special I am to him. That cheers me up just reading his letters. He is a wonderful artist and sends me drawings often and he gets really cool cards from the Chaplain to send to me. I wasn't feeling well once and I got a "Get Well Soon" card in the mail. It was really sweet and I know he gives his listening ear and encouraging words to cheer me up also!
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An early morning call from him as I'm getting ready for work, can put a smile on my face even on the roughest day.
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Funny that i stumbled onto ur question of the day..which is right up my block. lol The minute he gets a chance to call me.. in between the convos he might sing me a few lyrics to our song such as Avant "Dont take ur love away" or Kci & Jojo All my life. He will always find a way even on my worst days to bring a giggle or laugh out of me and reassure me that all will C aight.
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He is an amazing writer and writes me beautiful letters and poems. He is not much of an artist but he has been watching others and having them teach him. This morning he called me just to hear my voice and it immediatley made me smile since it was early and I was on my way to work. He always knows just what I need!
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I get a letter weekly and in his letter he sent me a drawing of me, it makes me so happy he takes the time to do that.
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He sends me gifts. He comes up with some cool stuff... A bouquet of scented paper roses, leather wallets, belt buckles, and drink coozies, a spiked leather collar for my dog even. Candles, vases, wooden key chains, boards, canvas paintings, cards, panos, any kind of art you could imagine he's made for me.
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Every letter he writes to me is a love letter! So he sends poems and drawings on special occasions!
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