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View Poll Results: Do you see marriage?
Yes 212 85.83%
No 11 4.45%
Maybe 30 12.15%
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Old 07-20-2012, 06:04 AM
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He has court this morning to find out his new release date! We're going to pick a date over the phone for the wedding once we know
One more day without you is one more day closer to being with you.”
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Old 07-23-2012, 12:59 AM
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I am waiting to marry my guy as soon as the next opening with the chaplin. I can not wait til he comes come. I will do which ever comes first.
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Old 07-23-2012, 05:51 PM
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Getting married in exactly 90 days!!!!!!

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Old 07-23-2012, 10:03 PM
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Yes! He asked me before he got locked up so now as soon as he gets send to prison & hits mainline ;D I am goig to marry my love, super excited. I was wondering the day of our marriage will we get "Alone Time" or would it be just like another normal visit ?
Hoy tengo ganas de ti y como no te tengo...Te pienso, te imagino y te sueño!(:
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Old 07-23-2012, 11:47 PM
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We used to joke about it even before he got arrested, but especially now, he asked me HYPOTHETICALLY if I would marry him in prison, and I told him no, since it's not that long he'd be in there. And I want him to wait until a year after he gets out, at LEAST, so then we'll be semi-settled and have a routine down...because for him, the real work will start AFTER prison...he won't have an easy life ever anymore, so I just wanna make sure our feet are firmly planted in the ground. I don't wanna rush getting married, because I never want a divorce so I want to make sure it's the right decision and that it's what God wants for my life! But like someone else said, if I didn't see myself marrying him, I never would've done this bid with him because this is TOO DAMN HARD! And the couple weeks that he was in reception was too hard so I know I'd have a hard time living without him and I want to be with him. Plus I told him, if we could do these 4 1/2 years and be okay, then we can do anything and we can make it. I love that man too much! Plus, we had our first visit yesterday and he had to stay in his seat the whole time...I want the whole bended-knee proposal. He did say he has an idea of how he wants to propose to me, but wouldn't tell me...that booger. I love him though! This thread made me smile reading all the responses! =)

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Old 07-24-2012, 07:13 PM
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hell yes!! getting married when he gets out!
119 days until my boo returns!
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Old 07-24-2012, 07:28 PM
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Yeppp - this year!
As soon as he can talk to the chaplain. <3

So on fire & so in love that look in your eyes that I miss so much - remind me, baby, remind me.
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Old 07-24-2012, 10:46 PM
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Yes! I'm engaged now, a few more months!! :-D so excited, nervous, happy, etc
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Old 07-25-2012, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by tsears1 View Post
i day dream about it all the time. it helps ease the pain of him being gone. i think about all the details. where it's gonna be. who's going to be in my wedding party. i'll be listening to my ipod and a song will come up and i will be like this would be a great song for our first dance! i'm crazy. have a fairy tail wedding has always been one my dreams.
haha i do the same thing it helps me sleep at night without him and it helps me not miss him so much i think about that and all the things we can do when he gets home it definitely helps the time go by!
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Old 07-29-2012, 04:16 PM
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he says he wants to but not in there he wants to come home and get settled then were gonna plan a wedding

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Old 04-04-2013, 12:08 AM
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Yes were engaged getting married this Aug.
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Old 04-04-2013, 01:07 AM
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A few months ago I would've said yes but not now. I've been finding out that he has lied about a few things. If he can lie about petty things, imagine what else he has lied about. So to answer the question, I'm gonna say maybe just because I still love him.
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Old 04-04-2013, 02:19 AM
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Yes, he asked me and we have been talking about & if everything goes the way it's supposed to we will be getting married later this year..I love that man so much..
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Old 04-04-2013, 07:05 AM
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My best friend for 5 years, always told me he never wanted to date anyone, much less get married! But we started dating a few months before sentencing, and much to my surprise he asked me to marry him recently. I love that man.

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Old 04-04-2013, 09:04 AM
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uhm we talked about it before way before he went in and i said i didnt want to get married because i didnt see the point :x but than he completely changed my mind about marriage and i would marry my honey but we just wanna wait till he gets outs now before anything ;
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Old 04-04-2013, 09:47 AM
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I do! Lol. Marriage is on our future. He has asked me numerous times, however I want a formal proposal. I want him to tell my parents first. That may be too traditional, but I do want that. We both have a lot of things to work on individually, so I want to get that done before we get hitched. He seems very anxious to get married, and so am I, but I need to stay grounded and rational about it.
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Old 04-04-2013, 10:52 AM
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A big part of me wants to spend the rest of my life with him. I just don't really know how he feels about marriage. He's been down for a long time and he has a lot of catching up to do and getting his life back on track. Marriage is a huge step, considering it will be our third. I just want a life with him and I am willing to wait and see what will transpire after that.
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Old 04-04-2013, 11:42 AM
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I want to eventually marry him. We are both still young though, so I'm not in any rush. I know I want to be with him forever and the marriage thing will just happen when it happens!
He's home as of 4/2015

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Old 04-04-2013, 01:44 PM
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It'd be odd if I didn't. Our wedding date has been May 18 since September. Though, it's pending now.
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Old 04-04-2013, 03:41 PM
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Yes I think marriage is in our future however he stresses that we won't
Make any decisions until he comes home.
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Originally Posted by lesliew32 View Post
Yes I do he calls me his future wife all the time and says things like how can we get married if your not divorced yet. I've been separated for three years just haven't had the money for one. So yea I hear wedding bells in my future!
You can file on your own,all you need is the filing fee and when you go flie you will be in line with all the lawyers who are paying the filing fee but charging you triple that
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Old 04-04-2013, 04:04 PM
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I do. But he comes home in 11 months so we have decided to wait until he comes home to do it the way we want
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Old 04-04-2013, 04:46 PM
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I've been married before, and he has never been married. We ha enter really talked about it. But he talks about us being a real family all the time, and he even had a dream that we got married. It scared him. Lol. As for me, I dont know, I don't think about it. But if he ever does ask...we'll see. I'm in no hurry to do it again.
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Old 04-05-2013, 07:50 AM
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One day, down the road - yes.
He has to be out and stay out, because I don't want to deal with the prison system for my whole life and he knows that.
I need him out long enough that my parents can get to know him and get past the prison exterior because as it stands right now, they would not be at my wedding if I were to marry him as soon as he gets out. I couldn't handle that.

We have talked about it. It will happen. We just don't know when. A friend of mine got me to looking at marriage as a celebration of our family, so I began thinking maybe marriage could wait until after kids, so we can celebrate the whole group of us. Maybe not. We haven't gotten to details.

We are young - no need to rush just yet.
But yes, it will happen someday.
I may not know what you're going through
But time is the space between me and you
There is a light through that window
Hold on say yes, while people say no
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Old 04-09-2013, 07:23 PM
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Maybe..I am already at the stage in life where I feel ready to take the next step and I remind him every chance I get. I have no time to waste and I want to be a wife and mother within the next couple of years. Once he comes we'll see if we're on the same page.
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