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Old 05-02-2012, 08:14 PM
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I wasnt saying anyone was I was just being defensive a little about the other post saying it wasnt a good idea to get married so quickly. I just wanted to state that that wasnt happening. I said he said hed have to marry me if I stuck by him but that doesnt mean by any means that we would get married right out of prison. I think I am just in a touchy mood tonight ladies. Sorry.
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Old 05-02-2012, 08:23 PM
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I wasnt saying anyone was I was just being defensive a little about the other post saying it wasnt a good idea to get married so quickly. I just wanted to state that that wasnt happening. I said he said hed have to marry me if I stuck by him but that doesnt mean by any means that we would get married right out of prison. I think I am just in a touchy mood tonight ladies. Sorry.
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Old 05-02-2012, 08:42 PM
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I'm experienceing the same thing with my man right now, we were dating for a little under a year before he went back in and my family hates him, and they keep moving him from one place to another, so , I've been getting all of my letters back with a huge red "return to sender" stamp on them....( Its very disheartening to get a letter back....I just sent another one today, cuz they finally stopped moving hbim for a bit. I'm praying he gets it...I miss him , so much, and I have nio one to vent to cuz my family is old fashioned and they used to love hom, but now...they're pretty much tellin me they'll disown me if I ever see him again...I don't want to leave him. It hurts to think about not having him in my life. I'm doing everything I can to have things ready for him for when he gets out, so things can be a little easier for him, but sneaking around my family is making me upset.....

....Would I be considered Stupid if I waited for him?... I'm hispanic and he's black, my fam. is VERY old school....

My heart plans to be there when he gets out, but in the mean time, my mind likes to come up with every possible disaster that could happen....

Please tell me I'm not a complete nut.....
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Old 05-02-2012, 08:49 PM
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OP- ok thanks for clearing it up, and its ok to get defensive...i mean thats your relationship, I would be worried if you didnt defend it And I wish you the best with him!

BabyGurlBoricua....IMO its not your parents life to live...its yours. ANd only you can decide if its "stupid" or not to wait for him. You'll see in a lot of other posts by other posters this phrase "follow your intuition/inner voice/gut feeling" etc. If you love him, and think its worth it, then its worth it. nuff said!
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Old 05-02-2012, 08:50 PM
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I feel like you have to listen to your heart! Mine tells me that this man has shown more compassion then a lot to me and he is worth every minute of this wait! My family doesnt hate him. As long as he does right by me they r ok with him. I would have a hard time with it if my family hated him. Just follow your heart!
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Old 05-03-2012, 07:04 AM
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Just want to sayyyyyyyyyyyyy

SEBASTIAN I miss you! Can't wait to hear your voice tonight. Love you!
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I spoke to my babes yesterday afternoon for a concise moment. Last night, I was so sad and lonely. I was missing him a lot. I try not to think about the 90 months he has left on the inside. I have come to realize that every day will not be a good day. I now have to face those bad days whenever they come. I am missing my Slim so much. I am patiently waiting for my man to come on home to me...
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My baby and I had a huge blow out the night before our aniv..... he went IN on the night before our one year aniv. ( after we'd hung upsuper pissed at each other) They took him.
I found out a few days ago that his sentencing is for 5-6 years...I sat at my computer and just cried for a long time....I didn't get to say I was sorry, and sad thing is the fight was over that stupid crap!

They've been moving him around and I've been getting letters back with "return to sender on them" since they move him around so often....It hurts to get em back. even tho I know its cuz he moved and not cuz he didnt want to get the letter.

What makes me break down on bad days, ...I had a miscarage. And I had to drive myself to the hospital(my family is against us 150%) and I just kept callin for him, but my heart knew he couldnt be there. All I want is for them to leave him in one place so I can go see him, and find some way to tell him... I lost the baby....I want his strong arms around me to tell me its okay. even if its just for a second....

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Old 05-03-2012, 01:10 PM
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Hello ladies!!!!! After reading all of these threads makes me feel soo much better knowing that i am not the only one missing our loved ones.......my husband got sentenced 3months ago and we got a long way to go until we are complete he is my other half and i miss him so much i hope these 15yrs go by fast!!!
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Old 05-03-2012, 05:00 PM
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I miss him a ton!!! And am scared we won't have contact visits for a really long time which sucks even more that we have a one month old daughter. I don't want her to forget her daddy. Hoping she can see him soon. I just wish my family could be together without all this crap, BUT...at least we have a solid loving family that can and WILL make it through all of this.
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Okay here it goes... My man is still in county. He got sentenced yesterday to 13 months and its killing me. I know that 13 months doesn't seem like a long time but to me it feels like an eternity. People say that overtime things will get easier but that just doesn't seem realistic to me. I cry every night and am sick of it. I just feel so lost without him ..... God I miss him so much!
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Old 05-03-2012, 06:17 PM
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I am sorry to hear you lost your baby and cant tell him. Hopefully you will get to visit soon to tell him! Best of luck hun!
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Old 05-03-2012, 06:22 PM
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I'm having one of those kind of days. I had my nursing program orientation today...got my scrubs, books, schedule etc. and I am so excited, and I just wish he were here to share my excitement with. Also found out that due to school, I have no idea when I will see him again, and its getting to me. I had hoped to see him in the next few weeks, but its not a possibility. I'm just, missing him.
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Old 05-03-2012, 11:06 PM
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I miss him so much it hurts me deep inside... He has been locked up for ten years. I can't believe it's been that long, and I still would drop everything and run to him if i only could... I met another guy after he had been locked up for four and a half years. Please understand, we were only 18 yrs old when he was sentenced...to a twenty year sentence. I loved him so much even though we were young...we grew up together and he is and was my world. my best friend...

So I met the other guy, and he cheered me up, but he wasn't Jon... But I ended up having a daughter with the other guy, my only child... And now six years later, I sent Jon a Christmas card and we have been writing and talking and picked right back up, the love is still there.... I went to visit him three times and we talked and talked and laughed and cried, and we are back together! It feels so wonderful to have him back in my life, I am so grateful! But it has opened up this emotional can of worms. I miss my Jon so bad, I can barely take it. I have to function for the sake of my daughter, but lately all I want to do is sleep and cry and write letters to him. But his words are so encouraging and kind hearted, it has deepened our bond so much. He has to serve mandatory 7 and a half more years. Because in our state (MO) you must serve 85%. Even though he hasn't had a write up in 5 yrs, this was his very first offense, and he was only 18 and had gotten into drugs.... We are now 27 and still very much in love and want to get married, but want to have a nice wedding and not have our celebration in prison because we want all of our families there.

Sorry this is so long, I am missing him so much... I hope he can call soon just so I can hear his voice... :::::Tears::::

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I miss my man too. He means the world to me. He also has been moved since my last visit, over 7hrs away. That is the worse part, besides not having him home. He has 3yrs left, my first bid with him. I never in my life had been around anyone that has been locked up. This is all new to me. I don't care how long he would have, I would wait for him. We are planning to be married, that keeps me going, Lol! I understand what every lady has said about, missing their men. We are strong individuals, and we will get through this. Just cherish every call, letter, visit, that we get and just know our men miss us just as well, maybe even more. God Bless us All!
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My hubby went in late August (missed our daughters 1st birthday!!). In total he will be gone about 2 years (he got 10 with 5 suspended). I hate every minute that he is gone. I want to hold him, touch him, smell him and just look in his eyes. I am a single mom like most on here and it sucks. I talk to him maybe twice a week and sometimes we have good talks and some times we have bad talks. I had to go 7 months with out seeing him and when I did he was in Ad Seg so yeah behind glass and on the phone. All because they caught him with a cig. My daughter, myself and my in-laws will be going to see this weekend.
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I feel sad when I've something to tell him and I've to wait for him to call me .,,
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Uugh one of them bad, emotional days today! I have been reading alot of post the last few days about our men and its just getting to me today. It has been making me think alot more about him and i miss him so much, it makes me a little angry that we have to be put through this! I pray to the good man above everyday to help guide me through this the right way but as it goes some days are easier then others. I just want him to be here to hold me like he use to when i were down, i miss EVERYTHING about him he is so wonderful! I just need to hear his voice and hear that sweet i love you right now
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I hope your day gets better, we all have our up and down days! Just keep praying and hold your head high! Remind yourself of the love y'all share, and think about the good times you've spent together.

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Take a bath, eat some chocolate and read a good book. Helps me feel better.
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yes, you ll get through it, my husband has been on lockdown 5 days today and i'm losing it. I need his voice at least!

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I miss him so much it hurts me deep inside... He has been locked up for ten years. I can't believe it's been that long, and I still would drop everything and run to him if i only could... I met another guy after he had been locked up for four and a half years. Please understand, we were only 18 yrs old when he was sentenced...to a twenty year sentence. I loved him so much even though we were young...we grew up together and he is and was my world. my best friend...

So I met the other guy, and he cheered me up, but he wasn't Jon... But I ended up having a daughter with the other guy, my only child... And now six years later, I sent Jon a Christmas card and we have been writing and talking and picked right back up, the love is still there.... I went to visit him three times and we talked and talked and laughed and cried, and we are back together! It feels so wonderful to have him back in my life, I am so grateful! But it has opened up this emotional can of worms. I miss my Jon so bad, I can barely take it. I have to function for the sake of my daughter, but lately all I want to do is sleep and cry and write letters to him. But his words are so encouraging and kind hearted, it has deepened our bond so much. He has to serve mandatory 7 and a half more years. Because in our state (MO) you must serve 85%. Even though he hasn't had a write up in 5 yrs, this was his very first offense, and he was only 18 and had gotten into drugs.... We are now 27 and still very much in love and want to get married, but want to have a nice wedding and not have our celebration in prison because we want all of our families there.

Sorry this is so long, I am missing him so much... I hope he can call soon just so I can hear his voice... :::::Tears::::

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First off Congrats on getting back together and best of luck with everything. I know that it is hard but if you two still have the same amount of love as you did before than everything will work out. Also congrats on the future marriage. I hope all goes well and i'm sure as soon as he can call he will. I pray for you that things become easier soon
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Having a really down day today. Went to visit my husband earlier and it was lovely, we were laughing and we hugged and kissed... and then it was over and I had to come back to our flat alone to the quietness.
Ever since then I've just thought about how much I miss him and want him home.
It's only been 24 days and I haven't felt this down about him being away since the first few days.
The night I found out he had been sentenced, I started to get ill and I've only just started to recover now- I had flu, conjunctivitis, an ear infection and glandular fever nearly all in one go- one part of me thinks 'i hate you for leaving me' and the other part just loves him too much to be angry.
the day he comes home will be the happiest day of my life.
14 months to go.
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So I finally got to talk to my baby today after not being able to for a week (I had no money to put on the phone). He told me like a bunch of times how much he missed me (: But now I'm super sad. I HATE THIS! It's dragging on it seems like forever! I miss hugging him, kissing him, him picking me little flowers, etc.
Anyone else down in the dumps tonight?
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